Katier00:
that is not possible

I think that one either loves absolutely, or it’s not love.

don't be too caring..be strict once in a while, be guided by self unbroken principle.

OrdercityWeb:
[You see, one thing I've learnt to always do is self-evaluation at critical stages of life.
When you evaluate your experience then you can draw lessons and take a look at the mistakes you made and be sure not to repeat them.

Now, relationships.......

I know I'm treading murky waters, but really the realization hit me yesterday; what did I really learn from my past relationship?

I began to take a journey down memory lane and started making mental notes and I realised a few things. This could help someone, here we go:

1)Don't build your life around someone, that because of that one person you have issues with all your friends

2)Beware of a guy/lady who can't make decisions themselves and are being told what to do by a "mentor", "spiritual father" or maybe even a "friend" they are not matured enough for a relationship.relationship.

3)Family first always, anyone can leave you but family would never leave you. All that money you're spending on her or him doesn't gurantee anything.

4)Always trust your instincts, don't ignore red flags. Observe

5)Don't do what you're supposed to be doing for a wife to a girlfriend and vice versa. Always have limits and principles. It will save you lots of regrets

These are the few I could remember. Share yours let's learn one or two things from each other tonight.

dip

stag:


You shouldn’t be in a relationship where you need a backup plan.

Love one at a time.

When it doesn’t work, move on.

You’re too pretty for that kind of philosophy.

An alarming large number of girls/ladies today have and believe in that, as a matter of fact they all have upto 3 guys, it might surprise you till you find out.


It's crazy but strange that they still want you to not do same, they tag them 'friends', you the main guy is also tagged 'friend'.


So don't bother preaching to that lady up there, her(their) mind is mind up