Rosarie:
life throw challenges at us.we need to be prepared at all times is what I mean.anything can happen tomorrow.shikenabl
Time waits for no one

Alright.. Thanks and noted

Erums:



Hahahaha.. Were the beer palour thread dey.. But on a serious note.. Its never conji... Its pressure, I just need good advice to counter them or soccumb if they telling truth for my benefit

Here's a link to the beer parlor thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo
Besides is it not your life, why do you feel you have to come up with solid points to make them back off you.
Do whatever you want with your life without having to explain to anyone.
Again, I will advise leave this country while you can.

Erums:


You might be right tho...

Im. Not the only son, but first son, second born.. My half broda is the last born after 4 generations

Okay, because my elder bro is about your age and my dad is already hinting marriage. The guy no just send.

Erums:



Hmmm.. 32... Damn... Is dat not too late?... Hehehe.. U dnt know my people

At the end of the day, it's up to you. Like I said before "just my opinion"

Raalsalghul:
At the end of the day, it's up to you. Like I said before "just my opinion"

Thnks man...shallom

pocohantas:


Okay, because my elder bro is about your age and my dad is already hinting marriage. The guy no just send.

Exactly... I dunno why they do that... They keep saying they made mixtake not to have married early.

I think he's still gonna think abt it.. He wouldn't just open a thread like me.. Cnt hide mine

Raalsalghul:

Here's a link to the beer parlor thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo
Besides is it not your life, why do you feel you have to come up with solid points to make them back off you.
Do whatever you want with your life without having to explain to anyone.
Again, I will advise leave this country while you can.

Tnks for the link... Sure I got to... But money is required to get out...

Raalsalghul:

So in your own opinion, any man not married at 40 is a fool?
The way people reason at times.

Yes any man single single after 40 is not only a fool but a goat

Erums:
Hello guys,

I'm going to be brief,

Im starting to receive pressure from family to get married, mind you im just 27 and i have a job, payment is average if compared to the nigeria economy monthly basis if i work pretty hard 200k upward. It's not really abt the money but my family feels I'm all prepared to be married as at now. Thou I have the intention of traveling to the west and starting a life, what I'm gonna do there I don't know yet, thus I'm still keeping a low profile on that not letting family know.

I just need candid advise from matured minds.

Is it not too early to marry?

Can 200k sustain a family pretty well?

. I don't want my family lacking, atleast my wife and my kids should be able to get thier demands averagely met.

I need experience people to guide me out here. Thanks

well you know yourself inside that you are not ready financially therefore mentally, you are not becoz you have told yourself aready that finnancially that you are not

there is nothing wrong with your current decision atleast you seeing your life from future point view that those who want you to married now as if they will help you to look after your wife and kids

what you need to is to explain to your parents, your current plans for now which is reasons why you dont want to marry this early

they might agree or not but you would communicated direct and would much easier to explain your than those who keep on saying next year

marriage is not about pleasing parents, when things are tough they wont chip all they would say is be a man

the same people who used to asked why are not married they would dissapear when tbings are tough

ZIMDRILL:


well you know yourself inside that you are not ready financially therefore mentally, you are not becoz you have told yourself aready that finnancially that you are not

there is nothing wrong with your current decision atleast you seeing your life from future point view that those who want you to married now as if they will help you to look after your wife and kids

what you need to is to explain to your parents, your current plans for now which is reasons why you dont want to marry this early

they might agree or not but you would communicated direct and would much easier to explain your than those who keep on saying next year

marriage is not about pleasing parents, when things are tough they wont chip all they would say is be a man

the same people who used to asked why are not married they would dissapear when tbings are tough

Thanks for the advice... U said the reality

Brother get married now. Your salary is more than enough to take care of you besides you are not getting married for your wife to come and sit at home. Make sure she has something doing also to contribute to the family.

With your current salary if the job is permanent can make you comfortable with your family.

Drop the travel plans. I repeat drop the travel plans for many that left their jobs for the sake of travelling out are regretting it till this day.

I have given you my candid opinion. God bless you.

chinebu:
Brother get married now. Your salary is more than enough to take care of you besides you are not getting married for your wife to come and sit at home. Make sure she has something doing also to contribute to the family.

With your current salary if the job is permanent can make you comfortable with your family.

Drop the travel plans. I repeat drop the travel plans for many that left their jobs for the sake of travelling out are regretting it till this day.

I have given you my candid opinion. God bless you.

Op please and please do not listen to this advice.

In my own opinion, a man shouldn't marry because he was ask to marry but it should be because he wants to.

ogawisdom:


Yes any man single single after 40 is not only a fool but a goat

udonmeanit

Very soon there is going to be crisis in Nigeria, all the eligible men are working, saving to travel out. Who will marry the army of single ladies our universities are churning out ?


This is fire on the mountain.

Guitarlife:
Very soon there is going to be crisis in Nigeria, all the eligible men are working, saving to travel out. Who will marry the army of single ladies our universities are churning out ?


This is fire on the mountain.

As a male, why are you bothered, seeing you're not at the receiving end of your prophecy?

Mizwisdom:



As a male, why are you bothered, seeing you're not at the receiving end of your prophecy?

Why am I bothered ? So I shouldnt be bothered since am a guy ? And thats not a prophesy its simple common sense.

Guitarlife:
Very soon there is going to be crisis in Nigeria, all the eligible men are working, saving to travel out. Who will marry the army of single ladies our universities are churning out ?


This is fire on the mountain.

Bro that is the surest way now. The country ain't gonna get better. As for the ladies, I believe they will be fine. It's not every guy wants to move out.

Guitarlife:

Why am I bothered ? So I shouldnt be bothered since am a guy ? And thats not a prophesy its simple common sense.

You're right, you shouldn't be bothered because it's not affecting you. It should be a female concern, not yours

ogawisdom:


Yes any man single single after 40 is not only a fool but a goat

And you call yourself ogawisdom. Your statement is very far from your moniker.

Raalsalghul:
Op please and please do not listen to this advice.

I can see that all you know is games and all that. Never really know the intrigues of life

chinebu:
I can see that all you know is games and all that. Never really know the intrigues of life

Oh wise one, permit me to ask what's your rational for getting married early?

Erums:
Hello guys,

I'm going to be brief,

Im starting to receive pressure from family to get married, mind you im just 27 and i have a job, payment is average if compared to the nigeria economy monthly basis if i work pretty hard 200k upward. It's not really abt the money but my family feels I'm all prepared to be married as at now. Thou I have the intention of traveling to the west and starting a life, what I'm gonna do there I don't know yet, thus I'm still keeping a low profile on that not letting family know.

I just need candid advise from matured minds.

Is it not too early to marry?

Can 200k sustain a family pretty well?

. I don't want my family lacking, atleast my wife and my kids should be able to get thier demands averagely met.

I need experience people to guide me out here. Thanks

The amount you mentioned us enough to sustain you as a beginner

If you have a serious woman in your life, you can consider getting married

But she has to be working or trading

There is never a time a man will be ready for marriage

If you start early you end child bearing early and have enough time to plan your family

Finally ask yourself are you ready for the challenges of marriage ?

You are a grown adult and can make decisions for himself.

If you are not ready to get married, then dont get married. SIMPLE.

frozen70:



The amount you mentioned us enough to sustain you as a beginner

If you have a serious woman in your life, you can consider getting married

But she has to be working or trading

There is never a time a man will be ready for marriage

If you start early you end child bearing early and have enough time to plan your family

Finally ask yourself are you ready for the challenges of marriage ?

Tnks man... Much appreciated

Erums:


Tnks man... Much appreciated

Woman pls

frozen70:

Woman pls

Oh pardon me... Sorry abt that

Erums:


As I earlier said... I needed guide to make a decision, if you ain't providing the, you could calmly pass pretending you didn't see the post.. As I said, matured people only...

For asking for the opinion of others. I don't think you're ready for marriage.

Oyindidi:
For asking for the opinion of other, I don't think you're ready for marriage.

Really.. Kindly read what you wrote up dere again... Then recomment