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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 10, 2019
gay men fück anything so don't get too excited
Buffalowings3:
If a gay ever ask me out,that would be the best complement I've ever gotten in my life..
Even though I'm not gay..

Abeg not these local gay boys o

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 9:01am On Feb 10, 2019
well in his defense, the male g-spòt is located in his anus, so it's possible he was oblivious of the unique limb shaking pleasures that erupt from stimulating that sensitive spot until he was "converted" and its highly possible that you would also get converted if introduced to that pleasure. just give it a try, you never know.
cigaricon:
Yea. Dude even took me out one night. Told me he wanted me to accompany him to a friend's birthday party. Before I knew it, we landed in a strip club shocked. It was quite fun oh as he spent a lot that night on Drinks. Still don't know why he did this, maybe he wanted to impress me or something. It was when I saw his male friends caressing and rocking each other that it came to me that he might be gay. One our way home he opened up to me that he likes me and he would like us to date. I told him that I wasn't gay and that I'll never be one even in my next life. he said even he himself wasn't used to be gay until he was converted lipsrsealed that it is when I start that I will know how pleasurable it is and realise what I'm missing. Chineke!!! He kept persuading and I kept declining calmly cos I didn't want to hurt his feelings sha (he was quite a nice fellow). Then he finally gave up and since then whenever he sees me, he acts like he don't know me, lookes at me with one kyn shady look like that. He even goes about telling his fellow peeps and friends that he has slept with me and that it was so easy for him to do it, that I was cheap shocked shocked shocked (I heared from people) I could understand - HE WAS HURT.I felt bad sha but Las Las people that knew me and mattered to me as I mattered to them know that I'm noy GAY

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 9:02am On Feb 10, 2019
chop and clean mouth my brother
tsharp:
Yes, plenty times at work. I'm a Frontline staff so I come in contact with all sorts. Some are very forthright and others will take style and ask about lunch and drinks pretty much as a normal guy would a babe. Been broke and even accepted "transport fare" to dates which I converted to pots of soup and drinks with my babe and stayed away. I have come to have new respect for girls and never judge and call anyone a hoe or anything like that as I have experienced the kind of pressure they feel. But there can't be anything like pussy grin
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by okwabayi(m): 7:44pm On Feb 12, 2019
I came to read lies.
Nairalanders love this sort of topic.
They always click it secretly but admonish it in open.
Gay men have approached me multiple times.
I lay them off in the most polite way then carry on my day.

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by cactusland(m): 12:59am On Feb 14, 2019
Sgbate:
Some times ago, during my IJMB days, I was a new student in the school, during my hostel registration I applied for one of the rooms upstairs, even though everyone else were applying for rooms downstairs, school resumed and it turnee out just few of us were living at the top of the building,so I decided to visit guys at one of the rooms downwatairs as I was always getting lonely and bored ,with time we became friends with guys in the room, unknown to me there's this gay guy in the room sizing me, so anytime I visit them ,the gay dude always give me extra attention and engage me with talks most times, me thinking he was just a normal friend started moving with him, next thing he started sitting very close to me and getting touchy touchy, then I stopped going to the room altogether ,next two days guy climbed all the way to my room asking me for a copy of my assignment,told him I don't have any with a vexed look on my face, he still hung around my bed touching my legs every opportunity he gets, so I had to tell him there's heat in the room that we should go outside.
next day,this dude brought up the courage to tell me he likes me same time trying to touch my back, and that he is getting hard already shocked , I just kuku arrange the hostel boys to warn him, and them reported him to the school management,haba!
I was just imagining why would a boy be attracted to his same sex when especially there are very beautiful girls around the school undecided

He is just asking for 14 years in the pounder.
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 14, 2019
Amakavula:
Hmmm, how did you tease them ?
That's kinda personal lol
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by KadunaMafia: 4:22pm On Feb 14, 2019
Tamarapetty:
#PukesOnThread
Share your story and you are vomiting.


Shey you don get belle

Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by KadunaMafia: 4:30pm On Feb 14, 2019
Amakavula:
Woooh! you look at me finish and the only thing you can think of is to use my destiny for a useless car, not how I could be a blessing to you or a great help or a wife or a Friend... you even Igbo. You are dead to me nwanneni ! I will never reply you again.
Everyone dead to you grin

Are you not developing zombies the way you are killing them grin


Please I don't want to be dead to you this Valentine cheesy

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by KadunaMafia: 4:34pm On Feb 14, 2019
I hate gays because they disgust me but I'm a fan of Lesbians and I pay ladies from strip club to have a go at my house.


I've been hit countless times by gays because of my feminine voice and I always talk myself out of it then I blackmail their arses
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by lahizak: 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2019
Meet this babe online. We got chatting and after a while we decided to meet. One night lyk dis i invited dis babe to my hauz, wen i finally saw dat babe at nyt i tot i don hit d jackpot, sharp sharp i took dis babe home, we talk, play and wen it is d tym r d real deal. She say she dey her period, but she offer to give me Mouth Action, i said y not nd she blow d hell out of me till i cum i ir mouth. Fast forward to a week later, dis babe cum again 2wards d nyt tym. Wen its tym 4 d usual, i realize dat dis babe no too dey allow me squeeze her breast, she stop me sharply wen my hands wan go down. Dats wen i start realizing trouble. I sha forced my hand insyd dats wen i touched a dick. I swear i felt lyk cutting my hands, even more i felt lyk killing dis dude. Las las i sha stand up and kick him out. But it still an xperience sha

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Veiniously: 5:49pm On Feb 14, 2019
lahizak:
Meet this babe online. We got chatting and after a while we decided to meet. One night lyk dis i invited dis babe to my hauz, wen i finally saw dat babe at nyt i tot i don hit d jackpot, sharp sharp i took dis babe home, we talk, play and wen it is d tym r d real deal. She say she dey her period, but she offer to give me Mouth Action, i said y not nd she blow d hell out of me till i cum i ir mouth. Fast forward to a week later, dis babe cum again 2wards d nyt tym. Wen its tym 4 d usual, i realize dat dis babe no too dey allow me squeeze her breast, she stop me sharply wen my hands wan go down. Dats wen i start realizing trouble. I sha forced my hand insyd dats wen i touched a dick. I swear i felt lyk cutting my hands, even more i felt lyk killing dis dude. Las las i sha stand up and kick him out. But it still an xperience sha

Jezzz guy how come ...you no no woman and man again guy abeg explain wella abeg

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by lahizak: 8:58pm On Feb 14, 2019
Veiniously:


Jezzz guy how come ...you no no woman and man again guy abeg explain wella abeg
Cross dresser. He put sumtin in d bra to luk soft, used wig, wear female cloths and didnt actually talk lyk a guy. No one will knw till d guy is naked

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Veiniously: 1:56pm On Feb 15, 2019
lahizak:

Cross dresser. He put sumtin in d bra to luk soft, used wig, wear female cloths and didnt actually talk lyk a guy. No one will knw till d guy is naked
Jezz doesn't he has signs of bears in his jaw or chin

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Feb 15, 2019
Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !
OAU
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 15, 2019
Lipslikecandy11:







Mine wasn't far fetched..!!!! I wud say am a huge fan of skinny jeans... To an extent that my trousers and jeans re always penciled.. One fateful day...!! On ma way from work... Walking home, entertaining myself with rick ross's new album on my fone( I just so happen to b a huge fan of his songs as well) .. Feeling myself.. Fastforward.. Heard someone tapped my shoulder complaining that he has been running after me shouting at the top of his voice...advising me on the dangers of having earpiece while walking.. I apologize... Back to the matter... "Bros how may I help you" I asked.. He said he has been admiring me for a while. . I was stunned... But make he no b like say I dey too forward... I appreciated him too.. Said he wants to b friends with me... I told him cool not until when he said with benefits.. I was dumbstruck asking him wat he meant.. Until he finally came outta his shell... Told him as much as i"ll love to b friends with him but that part where shit has to get real issa "NO NO" to me..and as a matter of fact imma huge fan of kitten..
The guy was speechless.. He kinda summed up courage to ask me to explain why am always on skinny jeans if at all am not gay... I hysterically laughed nd told him it doesn't matter if am always on skinny jeans or not.. He walked me up close to my street still sweet talking me.. Luckily I saw my girlfriend.. Something that has never happened before... I held her close and planted a kiss on her lips.. She snapped.. She didnt believe i cud do such cause I always develop cold feet eachtyme she asked me too esp on the street. . She asked if i was drunk nd I told her am just so happy to see her and that I missed her that's all.. I can tell the look on this guy's face... After my girlfriend left us.. And he asked if I actually did that to spite him.. I said no that I did that so he can assertain that am straight..!!! He bidded me farewell and left..
You look gay. It is a matter of time. Just accept yourself already

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 15, 2019
dmgr:
Yes I have.
It happened last year December when I went for a concert which I never wanted going but I was bored that evening so I said let me go just to while away time.
On reaching to the venue, I decided to stand out side for some time before going in,while standing,I don't know a dude was at one corner observing me all those while.
I later entered and got sitted,like 1 hour into the concert a guy approached me and was like he will love to have a word with me maybe after the concert and requested for my num,and I gave it to him thinking he's a guy like me probably he just wants to become my friend.

After the concert,I was already going out of the building when he approached me from behind and we started a conversation.
The guy started telling on how cute I am and that he's attracted to me,thou at that time I didnt get what he was up to,and I then appreciated him for the compliment.

To cut the long story sort the guy then opened up and said he is gay and and gets attracted to guys,and this same guy is an instrumentalist in that Same church.
I told the guy am not like him and am attracted to only girls and more over I even have a girlfriend,the nigga started convincing me to agree just the way guys do to girls,and was like maybe we should hang out something,and then told I wasn't interested that he should go and find guys who do what he does and nigga wasn't happy he said he couldn't handle rejection and we spoke for like 2 hours before I left for home.

I immediately blocked his num,and I recently saw his friend request on fb






You are a fine dude. Can I have ur number?

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Feb 15, 2019
KadunaMafia:
I hate gays because they disgust me but I'm a fan of Lesbians and I pay ladies from strip club to have a go at my house.


I've been hit countless times by gays because of my feminine voice and I always talk myself out of it then I blackmail their arses
U are a closeted bisexual man in denial
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by KadunaMafia: 8:41pm On Feb 15, 2019
camobri:

U are a closeted bisexual man in denial
Tell me you are gay and I will give you a gun to end your gayness

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Feb 15, 2019
KadunaMafia:
Tell me you are gay and I will give you a gun to end your gayness
Accept your gayness, setting fem up wont help you. Faggottt head

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by KadunaMafia: 10:00pm On Feb 15, 2019
camobri:

Accept your gayness, setting fem up wont help you. Faggottt head

Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Lipslikecandy11(m): 10:00pm On Feb 16, 2019
camobri:

You look gay. It is a matter of time. Just accept yourself already

Ure a Bleep boy...!!!! Am not someone u can throll... Go seek attention elsewhere.... D*ck face...

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 7:48am On Feb 17, 2019
Lipslikecandy11:


Ure a Bleep boy...!!!! Am not someone u can throll... Go seek attention elsewhere.... D*ck face...
Fucking farrrgot in self denial.

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 7:49am On Feb 17, 2019
Lipslikecandy11:


Ure a Bleep boy...!!!! Am not someone u can throll... Go seek attention elsewhere.... D*ck face...
see his name self. Which normal boy would have such name. Closetted gay.

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by RichardRexs(m): 8:51am On Feb 17, 2019
pedrilo:
I have never been approached by any guy maybe because my face is too tough for such act.
but i hav fccked 2 les in 3some action.
they r sexually hyper active
give us the full gist
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Lipslikecandy11(m): 1:10pm On Feb 17, 2019
camobri:
see his name self. Which normal boy would have such name. Closetted gay.



I don't think I"ll waste my precious tyme exchanging words with a maniac like yourself .... Habitual self-servicer...like I said ure craving for attention... So take your God-forsaken, cursed and condemned self to where they will acknowledge u... Cause am sure as hell don't give a flying poo about you..
**rot in hell gay***
*spits****

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 17, 2019
Lipslikecandy11:




I don't think I"ll waste my precious tyme exchanging words with a maniac like yourself .... Habitual self-servicer...like I said ure craving for attention... So take your God-forsaken, cursed and condemned self to where they will acknowledge u... Cause am sure as hell don't give a flying poo about you..
**rot in hell gay***
*spits****
Commit suicide. Stupig faggit.

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Lipslikecandy11(m): 8:45pm On Feb 17, 2019
camobri:
see his name self. Which normal boy would have such name. Closetted gay.


Its because ure so daft to know wat it means..!!! Don't start what u can't finish...!!!!

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Feb 17, 2019
Lipslikecandy11:



Its because ure so daft to know wat it means..!!! Don't start what u can't finish...!!!!
Biiiitch , stop quoting me. Fagggit

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by fucc12: 9:15pm On Feb 17, 2019
Amakavula:
Enjoy the attention, the is the last ever reply you would get from me. From this time forth oboy81 you are dead to me.
d
Dayyuuum girl, You gorgeous asf

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by fucc12: 9:34pm On Feb 17, 2019
OdikwaRisky:
well in his defense, the male g-spòt is located in his anus, so it's possible he was oblivious of the unique limb shaking pleasures that erupt from stimulating that sensitive spot until he was "converted" and its highly possible that you would also get converted if introduced to that pleasure. just give it a try, you never know.
Godforbid anything ever goes near my ass
Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by victorian(f): 9:43pm On Feb 17, 2019
A lesbian lady came to my office through a male friend , and she was all over me cos she saw in a wedding , we both attended .
So she use my male friend to come into my office . if u see how I snapped at her as she was about to hug and kiss me , saying she's in love !

I was what! angry

I felt repulsed and I slapped off her hands . she was like shes ready to transfer money into my account and I should send her my account number , there and then. That will 200k be OK for like 4hours of spending quality time with me , I said God forbid !

You , your money and this useless love-vendor that I thought was my friend , should get the hell out of my office ! I almost called security on them, then they left , to avoid crowd .
She called my number after wards I blocked her .

The next day I fell sick just thinking about it . smhhh.

Very annoying and repulsive ! I will never ever be into women! Never! angry

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Re: Were you ever asked out by a Gay or lesbian, How Did You Handle It ? by Lipslikecandy11(m): 9:57pm On Feb 17, 2019
camobri:

Biiiitch , stop quoting me. Fagggit



My silience is golden..!!! Don't nid to waste my words on a lowlife like yourself..!!! After all judging from your comments... Ure just a child who needs his mothers breast...!!! Grow up nd quit been a p*say!!!!

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