Those married will definitely know this that i am about to say in this post, they have the experience and they already know how to deal with it.

In marriage, the moment you try to do anything you have never done to please your spouse, it will be expected of you often by your spouse. This is common among ladies especially when it is their duty.

You might have been the type that has proven in your relationship that you cannot cook, wash, tidy up the room and bla bla bla!!!

In fact, you might have delegated some duties to each other, but the day you try to please your spouse and do what he or she does just to please the other person, it will be expected of you to continue either once in a while or often.

Now-a-days, there is nothing like i cannot do this, i cannot do that. Nothing like this should be done by my wife or she must not touch this as i am the man; please note that it has become collective responsibility immediately the union is legalized.

Now, do not get me wrong, this is marriage, rules are bound to be broken as marriage make you do things that you might not even do on a normal day. I guess that is why it is called marriage as it pushes you over your limits.

If anyone tells you not to try some things to assist your partner in this age, please think twice, whatever makes your spouse happy should be your priority even if it is something you don't do before but you can easily adjust to.

Marriage isn't bed of roses as i have been made to know, new things springs out almost everyday and we must learn to adjust to balance it all up to make the marriage work.

Understanding and tolerance matters, and whatever you assist your spouse with is nobody's business as it is your home which you must make to work.

Nobody is asking you to steal, defraud people or commit illegal acts to please your partner, this is talking about duties we do in the house and the good attributes, the show of love we portray to each other.

Whatever you do to/for your spouse to assist them, you must be willing to continue so as to avert issues in the home, because if you cannot do it then you wouldn't have shown it in the first place.

For you to have done it for the first time either with ease or through force, it means you can adjust and try again and again.

So, never complain, never restrict yourself to some duties, be ready to explore other duties, marriage will be fun and long if everyone is happy.

I know there are some very stubborn men, they will never allow you force them to act your role, so the woman should understand here the type of man they have, if they cannot act one of your roles to please you I am sure they will flatter yoh in some other ways, understanding and tolerance like i said ealier make marriage works.

Source: https://bamisepeters..com/2019/02/the-duty-changes-moment-you-try-it-for.html