Better for the poor guy.

lol
Dojo haba y u dey attack moi??huh

Asking question.

hey u i don't understand u sometimes o
old man

That's just the koko, I don't want you to understand moi.

u see ur brains are shrinking like ur face
who told u i want to understand you huh

What! Am I the one whose brain is shrinking? What brings about all this? Don't worry, I know how to treat pple like you. I think silence is good for you.
Don't you ever communicate with me again.

lol
good for u

ANd there ends the fight

Dojo u should be ashamed of those ulterance of us
shrinking or not must a MAN say all he has in mind?

The ladies do d tuking so don't put up those rubbish as a speech

u know wat jus compliment him on sometink like his trainers or his eyes or sometink & if u know a lil bit abut his interest lyk football or watever jus mention it some guys get kick abut stuff lyk dat.

if u wanna be straightforward just say y do u wanna be wit me, what z d deal wit u.
DON'T ASK HIM BORING QUESTIONS LIKE WHO KILLED WHO, INFACT NOTHING ABOUT POLITICS ON YOUR FIRST DATE.

Have fun

errrrrrrrrrrrr onyin honey, how old are u, i would think that as a relatively mature adult u can handle ur relationship conversations, dont u think? questions to ask him, what the heck attracts u too together anyway. if its looks then stop calling each other on the phone meet up and look at each other. clearly its not personality thats hte main attraction if not u guys would be talking

hey gurl, ive been in those shoes, u shuld know theres nothing new under the sun, this is how my experience went, each time we had to meet, it was quiet and boring, even i felt it. at first i enjoyed the silence cos i thot" well, he aint complaining so no sweat" but i bgan to get fed up to even to the extent that when he called, i wud feel slummy to even pick up his call nonetheless talking, it was that grumpy!
BUT,
I TOLD MYSELF, are u ready to loose this guy, NO!
Are u bored and tired and need to make change, YES!
thats how i realized that i wasnt goin to let mere timidness break us apart, and u know what,,,,, we are still together stronger than ever, its been 8months now and no crack. HOW?
i called him and we went swiming, parting and lunch, i figured out, if we both cant talk especially me, then we shud show it, and every outing, we ended up laffing out loud. so jst ask him out for fun. go hang out. and avoid quiet areas, u'll only end up making out and not "knowing him intemately" talking is a powerful aid of love, ive been there av done that, good luck, and hey, dont date him cuz of money or how rich he is or wot car he rides in and wot pef. or watch he wears, u only date and love someone for his simplicity and his ambitions, remember, jst because he aint driving a posh now or an escalade dont mean he wount in some couple of years, check him awt and see if he has the future in his hands, be real,,, be urself. if words aint comming outta ur mouth, dont force 'em. cos if u do, u may end up saying the wrong thing, it happnd to moi! cheers,

just give him a Bleep one day and everything will just start.
dont be too much disturbed about conversations, u have to start it somehow, somewhere

Girl, there are lots of questions you can ask him. Just be yourself and ask him about his past or something else. That way you guys will flow together. 

reallllllllly??

I am suprised that nobody has mentioned asking the guy where he worships or is everyone in the house an infidel? I just came to the house today and please don't make me run.
Anyway, I believe those questions would come naturally except if you are planning to make it an interview section in which case you will loose the guy soon. My advice to my sista; please take it one thing at a time.
Peace.

Hi Oyinhoney,
I will advise you not to be a dog and immitate lion by running after a buffalo else u go wound ooooo. Be yourself dont be deceived by physical things or sweet word.Any guy that want to cash babe dey prepare for all sort of sweet words and can go to any lent just to have u.Ask genuie and reasonable question deeply down from your heart.Dont fool yourself by asking qestion just to know a guy backgrand.as time goes on those questions will be answered without asking. guys with good backgrand will like to tell you who they are without asking them. As for me i no dey form for babies ooooo, if you love me, love me for whom i am not for what i have.There you see the true LOVE.

This is quite intresting, you can tell him the following;

1. What other people appreciate about him
2. Tell him you love him for whom he is
3. Make sure you show sincere appreciation to whatsoever he give you,
4. Do not always complain,
5. Call him from time to time to find out how he is doing

Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy dont really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have similar interests or ideologies. Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.

The best start is to tell the guy everything about you without hiding anything or tell any lies or fibs Then, here comes the big one; say the following to the guy as warm and as tender as possible:

Honey, just wondering can you tell me everything about yourself the same way I have just done too?

Itz quit dangerous to think about asking him which car he uses bkos you already knew him.Am coming up about income is rubbish bkos i think thats deep personal.He may think you are those "FOOD IS READY" KIND OF GIRLS.
Thanks,
Raw

gurl, i really feel you cos i had a boyfriend just like that. we started flowing after a shaky start, and after we started we couldnt stop talking. now even tho we're no longer together, whenever we meet we talk for hours.the thing is u probably mostly talk on the phone so u hardly see anything to really gist about. if u go out more often you will. and remember the relationship is just starting, so you cant expect to flow like u've been dating for a long time. u are both obviously reserved people, and he's probably feeling just as awkward as u are with the conversation. try not to make it seem like u're looking for what to say, let things flow. and there are times when there's nothing to say, it's natural even with your closest friend.talk about ur day, highlight important aspects.u can even describe a film u saw to him, or a book u read. or another friend's experience. then ask him about his.believe me, once u find common ground u'll spend hours talikng. u go gurl!

Well my fair lady, as a relationship advice guru, i'll say this to you. If you and these guy don't really have much to say to each other, then you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. When people are well suited for each other, things flow as they have . Love is natural and not demanding. trust me.

i dont mean to be rude, but u are not such a good 'relationship advice guru' if u say they shouldnt be together. Considering they only just met, don't u think they need time to first find common ground or 'similar interests or ideologies' as u said?

how far would u go 4 d one u love

as far as love carries me, because there's nothing too much when it come's to loving you

that is so sweet of u kelvin

thanks baby

SINCE WE ARE VERY FAR APART CAN I ASK HIM

'WHEN LAST DID HE MAKE LOVE AND TO WHO'

Ask him if he is married!!!!!!
and if he is run like scooppyyyyy-dooooooooo

hey guys,ithink this is enough, am sure she can handle things from here.

Onyi, try and handle this now,cos am sure u have had enough goodand bad question to answer.

just 1 question, b4 u started dating, wt did u use to talk about? cant imagine y there is a sudden lack of yarns