Only understanding of the act can make people have a change of mind toward it (i.e facts not opinions)



First, we all need to accept that we are sexual beings. Understanding your sexuality is a fundamental for spiritual liberation. Overall masturbation is considered healthy but the psychological setbacks far outweighs those benefits.

Consider this; What distinction would there be, going forward, between two young lads/lass who just attained puberty, one had the privilege of penetrative sexual intercourse at the onset of his hormonal formation and the other having no such opportunity, resulted to touching himself and discovered masturbation.


***In your contemplation, take into cognizance all physiological and psychological developments that ensues, the role such would play in the lives of such young minds ( being aware they are in the most important period of their formative years), the effect the experiences of this period would have in subsequent years which 'might' last into the rest of their lives if wrong programming/imprints aren't checkmated.



The same goes for the issue of sex before marriage, misguided information is the reason for all this suffering humanity faces today.

Can this masturbation cause one not to release at all during sex?? Please i need answers

azraeljaheel:
Not this masturbation thing again


Cuz’ I just finished a session now


I have a gf who ain’t around and I can’t afford to cheat on her so I help myself help the relationship by thinking of the nice times we had in bed ...

One of the reason I joined yoga class so I go dey flexible enough to bend give myself better BJ

Eeeewwwwwooooooo!

It's healthy to jerk off pls abeg but not making it as a habit

How does people in jail cure dem konji ask ur self abeg

All sexual exploitation leads to one common goal .It could be satisfaction,sedation,relaxation,procreation, adventure, immunity booster, but provided it hurts no one it is highly welcomed.

themosthigh:


That is why I masturbate like that. Real rich is when you are invested in so many companies that you sit home and just wait for dividends. I have nothing much to do but direct my kids, travel and enjoy my life.

don’t ya have friends cause if do I am sure you won’t be in this way or either your friends are old school..

azraeljaheel:




Get the F outta my head ... I trust her we both helping ourselves when we world apart


Carry your bad belle go meet buhari he could do with your demented vibes

Okay bro!!!! First I'll ask you a sincere question! Does she know you self-service?


You know why i like pain! It helps us to grow thick skin...

shomutuski:



Okay bro!!!! First I'll ask you a sincere question! Does she know you self-service?


You know why i like pain! It helps us to grow thick skin...

Yes she does... more like a ritual for our two ... we have times we video call sef just to make the process dope ...


And I don’t see any crime in that

is it your masturbation, the Vaseline crew tell you say them dey complain.

I saw where someone made mention of giving himself bj

azraeljaheel:
Not this masturbation thing again


Cuz’ I just finished a session now


I have a gf who ain’t around and I can’t afford to cheat on her so I help myself help the relationship by thinking of the nice times we had in bed ...

One of the reason I joined yoga class so I go dey flexible enough to bend give myself better BJ

lwkmd

themosthigh:


I am not a porn addict. What is wrong with dopamine changing? I madturbate to both sexes so I don’t degrade the opposite sex.

The release of large quantities of dopamine during masturbation impairs the limbic system of the brain which usually requires low dopamine.

Obainoneandonly:
why on earth would I want to stop it......something dats sweeter than sex,that makes me sleep like a baby,that gives me control of my sexual life...... its with masturbation I learned how to delay my ejaculation and last longer in bed.....the advantages totally outweighs the opposite

Pls can you share how you learnt how to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed. It's urgent boss

Ugo04:







Pls can you share how you learnt how to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed. It's urgent boss

bro there's magic about it......just stay away from sugary stuffs and masturbate three to four times a week.....Dats d trick....no drugs,herbal concoction or whatsoever

Asu015:
The release of large quantities of dopamine during masturbation impairs the limbic system of the brain which usually requires low dopamine.

Dopamine is also released in high quantity during alcoholism, orgasm during sex and other forms of euphoria.

chigoziri2403:
if you want to stop, get busy, never stay indoors alone, surround yourself with genuine friends
get married,
use a Nokia torch
avoid romantic novels and films

- lmao @using a Nokia torch

[b][/b] please put me in your prayers.

Please put me in prayers too...getting to 4 years now

U can inbox me if u wanna help me....will appreciate

Want to masturbate now despite the one I did early morning

If i stop it, will u give me ur sister to fvck??

Masurbation! i am a sinner Jesus Christ please forgive me Holy one of Israel. its better for you to masterbate and stop the act after you got Married.
i think its better masturbating in your house jejely than indulge on this type of useless headlines we read here On Nairaland.and avoid yourSELVE going to prison, causing shame to yourself, e.g 36 year old man insert middle finger in a 3year old girl. 60 y3ar old rape a toddler. A man 49 forcefully had a canal knowledge with a 13 yearold.
Do the masturbation and know you have sinned against God. Never you get ashamed to ask God For genuine forgiveness and STOP immediately you got married. Remember I did not say Masturbation is good o. But save yourself from meeting a girl and you know girls they will be quick to accuse you of rape. because I have seen where a mother wants to give birth and maybe the doctor says the child to die for the mother to live. you see such a scenario. make sure you do it with decorum and never allow another person to know what your doing. and to some people it is a type of medication. and relief. I know this might not go in well with certain persons. but just manage.
thank-you.
this is just what i feel is good if u could not hold body instead of embarrassing yourselve and maybe termed a Rapist. I am open to Godly corrections. Thank-you once more.

themosthigh:
Why will a person want to break free from masturbation? It is a very enjoyable and healthy act through which you can mentally sleep with whomever you wish, wherever, whenever and however you wish. I have been doing it about 3-7 times daily for 37 years.
While masturbatiing, I have slept with actresses, musicians, friends wives, mothers and children. Sometimes I even fantisize about raping and homosexual copulation or having sex with biblical women like esther and Mary. It is good because even though i am rich, with enough money to molest people sexually and go free, I have never molested anyone. Nothing beats parking your tinted air conditioned S class or Land cruiser in a Nigerian university, spreading your legs and jerking off to passing university girls and imagining penetrating their cute backsides.I have never for one day tried to sexually assault anyone. I know I am a pervert and sexual deviant, but I am fine with it. I understand myself and cannot change my imagination.

Dear, how you operate is not totally unusual, but it is absolutely wrong. To be turned on by everything and be able to orgasm from the pleasure is a fault in your psychological build. Please if you have so much money like you say, try and see a therapist. A psychologist, a professional who can help you. It’s not about religion or morals, but if you keep on with this, one day you may actually assault somebody. You are a lot crazier than you acknowledge.

Jerkules:
And when u want to take ur bath?

sing gospel in the bath

Masturbation almost ruined my life, remembered when I was in 300l in d University, I was so fond of masturbating every time dat I lost interest in girls, every minute all I was thinking about is porn, So there was dis cute girl in my department then that had a crush on me and I didn't know, so one day after class she walked up to me and we gisted, escorted her to her hostel, exchanged numbers, one day she called dat she wants to visit me, and I said okay and gave her my address, unfortunately dat day I hadn't masturbated because it was on a Saturday and I was washing my clothes through out dat morning not until she came, we gisted o , we were watching a movie together and all I could think about was masturbating I was just not feeling her presence I just wanted to masturbate,, before I knew it she started to kiss my lips I was and was putting my hands on her breasts, buh I was not moved I just wanted to masturbate, then I pushed her off me and told her to leave dat I wanted to go out, she was like she's sorry, I was not even listening all I could think about was masturbating, den she left and i finally masturbated dat day....The girl never talked to me again since dat day, but thank God for his mercies I've stopped masturbating, dat shit ruined me mehnne dat loves girls like what turned down a lady for masturbation damnn

princfred:
Simple yet cant that make drugs to reduce/inhibit sexual arousal? This will reduce masturbation, spread of STD's and HIV and "cases of he/she slept with my wife/husband"

I bet if you cut off your dick, you'd be fine.

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MsGood:

I bet if you cut off your dick, you'd be fine.

Not necessary if what i wrote there is the focus and is done. Besides the sex inhibiting drug can be discontinued when necessary.

AngelHoly:
Please put me in prayers too...getting to 4 years now

U can inbox me if u wanna help me....will appreciate

Want to masturbate now despite the one I did early morning

lol

Toseenlove:


Lol your own masturbation no be ordinary eye, Na your village people dey do u. You need to seek "Spiritual Help" I enjoy myself and shag girls at the same time. Na Girls sef dey sweet pass. Na when babe no dey around the stuff dey happen.

Lol ive stopped it already, I have a girl I'm steady banging now

Zzyy:

Lol ive stopped it already, I have a girl I'm steady banging now

Lol ok It's better like that.

Blinkers:


Make una dey deceive unasef

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.--proverbs 12:15

Listen, my son, accept what I say, and you will have a long, good life.--proverbs 4:10

Ladies self-service too.. It makes ur kitten xtra ordinarily sweet during knacking..