pslm23:

.1. Wait outside after work and deal with this woman the african way

i think you should just ignore her. . . . if she continues to taunt you without you responding she will realize her stupidity

if you do anything to her 'twill only bring you down to her level and trust me she will come stronger on you

its not the skin dat defines a person.

googles:




i think you should just ignore her. . . . if she continues to taunt you without you responding she will realize her stupidity

if you do anything to her 'twill only bring you down to her level and trust me she will come stronger on you

its not the skin dat defines a person.

You are right, but it is easier said than done and it is so hard to ignore her stupid snickering behind my back. She thinks i don't know she and her cronies are whooping and giving each other high 5s becos they think they have won!  This morning she was all chirpy when i walked into the office and I just felt like wiping that smug look off her face!    I'm no trouble maker and I like to mind my own business but that doesn't mean that i will take any crap from anybody especially ignorant people like her. I'm praying that God stills my heart, mouth and hand! Amen

Im sorry that you have to endure such nonsense from this person. If there wasnt a possiblity of u getting arrested and fired, i would have opted for #1: deal with her african way, lol but of course that wouldn't be nice.

Just stay away from her unless u really have to (for work related issues of course). Keep record of the things she says and do so in case you want to file a complaint against her again, you'll be ready. As for the card, i think she was trying to be funny in a snarky way. If she wasn't such an @$$ to you before and she gave you the card, then I would say to ignore it. But her attitude toward you is just plain disrespectful. If she opens that foul mouth of hers again, pretend like u didnt hear/she doesn't exist. for ie:

Co-worker: so in africa, do u, ?
pslm23:, (ignore like she's empty space)
co-worker:, (her clueless)
co-worker: ok u have a good day
pslm23: (u choose to respond or not LOL)

I think she'll get the point, just speak to her if it is mandatory, other than that, ignore her.