please i need advice on this issue. i got to know my fiancee is staying alone which got me suspicious of her being a runs girl or wayward, cos she lives close to her elder sister who is married with kids and lives in a 3bedroom apartment in owerri. although my fiancee spends her weekends at her sister house and leaves every monday morning . she finally opened up dat she was raped by her sisters husband dats y she is not staying there anymore and that her sister apologized and begged her to keep it a secret including from their parent. my main problem is dat my fiancee still goes there on weekends and agreeing not to tell her parent. but now we are quarreling cos am insisting she tell her parent and never visit that house again. she's claiming she doesn't want to destroy her sisters marriage and she goes to d house to help her sisister. or is she not telling me d complete story

You don't have better things to with your life than relationship rubbish

Please don't raise the issue again, bit make sure she is not having anything with the man again.

Leave now or else you will regret your whole life.
She enjoyed all she claimed happened.
Please. Run

Styluscrib:
Leave now or else you will regret your whole life.
She enjoyed all she claimed happened.
Please. Run

Waooo.


This is why I advise ladies to make common sense a priority when picking a man.


If they follow my advice, u will be single to stupor.

Dear Ops,

There is more burden that a lady carry in a life time beyond make up, gimme money and off ur pant.

She has answered your question and curiosity. Decide if u can wait or leave but please don't frustrate that lady with ur rules. She must have gone through a lot already.

AntiWailer:
Dear Ops,

There is more burden that a lady carry in a life time beyond make up, gimme money and off ur pant.

She has answered your question and curiosity. Decide if u can wait or leave but please don't frustrate that lady with ur rules. She must have gone through a lot already.

Spoken like an intelligent man. Much respect!

So if she tells her family and u break up with her what's next?
She ends up destroying everything because of u?


Nigga u need jesus

correctyourself:
Please don't raise the issue again, bit make sure she is not having anything with the man again.

thanks a lot, but can I really make her not av anything to do with d man again? since she will b see her sister in future. am really bothered

AntiWailer:
Dear Ops,

There is more burden that a lady carry in a life time beyond make up, gimme money and off ur pant.

She has answered your question and curiosity. Decide if u can wait or leave but please don't frustrate that lady with ur rules. She must have gone through a lot already.

I love her. am only thinking telling her parent is d right thing. I won't leave but wait

nrexzy:
So if she tells her family and u break up with her what's next?
She ends up destroying everything because of u?


Nigga u need jesus

are u saying I should let everything be and nothing to worry about? if so, thanks a lot

Enrythesis:

I love her. am only thinking telling her parent is d right thing. I won't leave but wait

Just leave it since it happened before you came.

She has her reasons.

If it happened recently after u met, I would have advised you lead her to tell her parents but just spare her the heartache.

We have a very useless environment and they might claim she seduced him for money to cover up.

Think about your girl first.

Enrythesis:

are u saying I should let everything be and nothing to worry about? if so, thanks a lot

Yea either u want her for what she is or u don't... She telling her parents wouldn't change d abuse it would only lead to more damages with might turn out suicidal