My brother, get your feelings off the relationship. Keep fucking any way, provided you are not spending too much.

Go and make money and you'll win her love. Your shadow will be enough to make her cum.

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

Guy don't love those holes, they will always cheat and break your heart no matter what you do to please them

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How toxic NL has become.....

Everyone is now a certified expert on conclusions about
someone you've never met, interacted with or have an atom
of knowledge about.

I dont generalize, I know all Girls are not the same cos
am not like every other man out there...

NL is not a place u come for advice, I believe knowing
someone is about communication, your problem could
have been solved within 5mins of hearing wat she has
to say other than asking bitter folks on NL.

Meanwhile most of these stories are fabricated anyways..

Mumu

greatnaija01:
egbon calm down YOU ARE NOT HER ONLY OR FIRST OR EVEN MAIN BOYFRIEND...

you are ONE OF THEM....

so tag along or break up and stay single and make better use of your life till a girl is scared to cheat on you because of your worth and fear of loosing someone like you.

GROW UP MAN...

Best advice so far! How I wish someone could tell me this then when I was in the same hole.

MUMU love kill you there, dont make a LovePeddler a housewife, you better thank God for deliverance,Ewu Hausa like you

Well
Eye have seen so mind can decides but not judge.
Please LET her be.
Move on

No, she is testing your patience ni . ODe

BornnAgainChild:



Amadioha destroy your generation


okponu jatijati

oloriburuku shege banza

Rosarie:
Well if u have her passwords then no she is not.
maybe her phones are on pass word cos of her room mates or pokenosing friends.
For the u seeing a guy on her lap without knowing who he was and you walked away was very immature of you.
U should give her audience before drawing conclusions.
I notice most nairaland guys are bitter towards ladies.
They feel all are prostitutes
Remember a woman birthed you;u have sisters too.
Don't use ur wife to do girlfriend .
In every fake money there is an original copy the fake was taken out from
Not all girls are same.
Pls cool with the anger.
And negative words .
What u know If u type ur parents can not be proud of or when u are more mature u look back and regret writing such then plz don type such.
No crime in Waka pass

You settled down to type nonsense.. Are u well

I think you should pick up and listen to her explanation. I know it really hurts but listen to her first when you are calm before you decide your next action.

Some ladies especially those in higher institutions can never have enough of men. They keep on hoarding men as if their lives depend on it.

And if you were brave enough, you would have even called her outside on the spot and asked her who that guy is. That way she would have respected you more. But all the same bro, give her an audience and listen to the bs explanation she wants to talk.

Sorry for the pain bro, we have all been there before.

a wise man was once asked, "who are the companion of the hell fire! " (that who are the most people in the punishment of hell fire on the day of judgement?)


and he replied: they are women, and its because they are not satisfied with what their husbands do for them! no matter what he does, they say that he has done nothing!

Nairalander are so immature! Gezz how old are you guys? Firstly OP none of these things you said proves anything. If she uses password on her whatsapp and other apps and so what? Did you ask her for the password and she refused to give it to you? If you suspect a thing about any guy, ask her who he is. You can only start your investigation when you notice she's lying and her moves are shady. One thing is clear about your relationship, both you and her are immature and don't know how to express your concerns. She might be a good person you eventually lost because you took advise from this forum of olosho drunk broke and frustrated guys who think every girl on planet earth is a hoe.

No, she is charging her phone with a carry come charger.

Bro, the part of her locking her chats n gallery are suspicious and to crown it she was with another guy
I gat three things to say
A: ask her to unlock her chats
B:. ask her to open her gallery
C: Ask her about the guy and once you confirm she is cheating you'll lose your feelings for her. Pls note that all these are for you to satisfy your curiosity and also clear your conscience. All the best as you find the path to freedom

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

Smh

agbarisocket:
weak boli.ur mother should hv used you as menstruation,mumu.you allowed girl to deceived u

Equal2DeTask:








Bloda I used God beg thee Run 4 Ur life...


What I see;

1. She is not loyal.
2. She is a hoe
3. She is seeing different diçks.
4. She will end up given u Heartattack pass the one Alabi(betting) gave me today. One game cuts my 14million Naira...
5. And finally, She is not for you.

Make we talk better thing first, where ilu see that kind ticket book? Abeg slide to my dm.

broke my hart

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

Thank God she is still your gf. She ought to have run after you if she is in love with you. Move on man

As long as she is not yet your wife she will definitely cheat. Just marry her and end the suspension. Women and men are now wise they now have second options so that if one doesn't work they won't loose

Dem never born any lady wey I won dey serious with in a relationship fo password her phone while on a date with me, I will smashed the useless phone for her because I don't password my phone


So a guy rested on your babe laps and you're still asking if she's cheating? No she's not cheating, the guy Is only doing deliverance for her

You better search for a serious Lady and keep that Lady to relieved your urge anytime

Agbari u are very stupid.Why wil u curse d guy when he ask 4 advice only fool.Idiot mind d way u talk or ...

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

I just think you are obsessed about her... Don’t mistake obsession for love !

You're lucky you got the clue but you still don't want to reason it.

I guess too much investment in the relationship is killing you.

You saw the guy lying down on her lap while her room mate is at the corner watching movie (this shows privacy)

It means she is cheating bro, I can't tell you what to do cos I believe you're grown.
I can only advise you while you take the decision.
Let her go now, else you will invest more in the relationship and still let her go after.

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

Laying on her lap does it connotes cheating? What if that could be her brother or cousin? You should have been man enough to ask her. Hey, babe who is this, she might give you a better explanation but you rather jump into conclusion that she's cheating. My thoughts sha

phoenix17:
She always tells me she loves me but i suspect she is cheating and she has password on Whatsapp, messages, pictures (not like I haven't hacked it) but I don't want to spy on her...

So today I went to collect something I forgot in her room and I saw another guy lying on her lap while her roommate was just in another corner watching a movie well I walked in and collected what I came to collect and left....

She's been calling but am too pissed off to pick up.

What do I do?
I love her...
sincere opinions please no insults.

getout

it's time for u to join da "fvck u" challenge bro

Rosarie:
Well if u have her passwords then no she is not.
maybe her phones are on pass word cos of her room mates or pokenosing friends.
For the u seeing a guy on her lap without knowing who he was and you walked away was very immature of you.
U should give her audience before drawing conclusions.
I notice most nairaland guys are bitter towards ladies.
They feel all are prostitutes
Remember a woman birthed you;u have sisters too.
Don't use ur wife to do girlfriend .
In every fake money there is an original copy the fake was taken out from
Not all girls are same.
Pls cool with the anger.
And negative words .
What u know If u type ur parents can not be proud of or when u are more mature u look back and regret writing such then plz don type such.
No crime in Waka pass

@op ignore this comment