Please i need an advice, my girl friend is always missing me when am not around and calls that i should come around for us to see, we actually see each other during weekends but what baffles me is that, when am around we are either quarrelling or she is not happy. I confronted her with it and she confessed to me that she always miss me when am not around and wants to see me, but the moment she sees me the feelings will just varnish. She said she doesn't understand it. Pls i need an explanation to this because its actually tearing us apart.

Laughs.. Baba, the problem of your girlfriend is that she doesn't know her problem. From the way I see it, it might be psychological or spiritual.

I don't understand the process of missing someone badly and when you see that person, you no longer miss a thing about them.. Haba

The only justifiable thing about her weird attitude is only if you don't act sweet while both of you meet each other or you don't lash her well hence the annoyance.

mecks07:
Please i need an advice, my girl friend is always missing me when am not around and calls that i should come around for us to see, we actually see each other during weekends but what baffles me is that, when am around we are either quarrelling or she is not happy. I confronted her with it and she confessed to me that she always miss me when am not around and wants to see me, but the moment she sees me the feelings will just varnish. She said she doesn't understand it. Pls i need an explanation to this because its actually tearing us apart.

Go on your knees, pray to God

aanuoluwami14:


Go on your knees, pray to God

Hmmn.

She is a marine spirit.... A Mami water something...

She's possessed

I think she is cheating on you. Pretending to miss u is so easy,but she feels uncomfortable when you're around. Think about it. Guess she is seeing somebody already. Sorry just my opinion

MrsInvisible:
I think she is cheating on you. Pretending to miss u is so easy,but she feels uncomfortable when you're around. Think about it. Guess she is seeing somebody already. Sorry just my opinion

tnx, no need to be sorry, i just need a candid opinion and advise on what to do.

I behave the same way too.


We prefer missing people to being with people.
She always wish you to be around while you're away. It doesn't really mean she wants you to be around... She is just a victim of the imaginary world.

We fall inlove with people that are faraway than when when they are around us, nothing more to miss.
nothing more to imagine, nothing to wish, nothing to fantasize about.
When this happens, adventure ends.

The same thing happens when you are reading a book or seeing a movie scene. The more the suspense, the interesting the reading.
Take away suspense, or make the reader or viewer predict the outcome of the book or movie, lackadaisies set it.

She is okay, very okay.
Spend more times with her, don't expect her to react directly proportional to the way she tells you she misses you, it will only make her feel incompetent in reciprocating love which will lead to subsequent sadness and melancholy. Don't expect much from her, allow her to show her own love the little way she can.
See it as her way of life.
Just accept it that way.

mecks07:
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I have your solution, but it's a little expensive. If you can afford it, let me know.

Tquote author=Bluezy13 post=77180451]I behave the same way too.


We prefer missing people to being with people.
She always wish you to be around while you're away. It doesn't really mean she wants you to be around... She is just a victim of the imaginary world.

We fall inlove with people that are faraway than when when they are around us, nothing more to miss.
nothing more to imagine, nothing to wish, nothing to fantasize about.
When this happens, adventure ends.

The same thing happens when you are reading a book or seeing a movie scene. The more the suspense, the interesting the reading.
Take away suspense, or make the reader or viewer predict the outcome of the book or movie, lackadaisies set it.

She is okay, very okay.
Spend more times with her, don't expect her to react directly proportional to the way she tells you she misses you, it will only make her feel incompetent in reciprocating love which will lead to subsequent sadness and melancholy. Don't expect much from her, allow her to show her own love the little way she can.
See it as her way of life.
Just accept it that way.[/quote] tnx so much, i rilly appreciate your candid opinion and advise.

iLegendd:
I have your solution, but it's a little expensive. If you can afford it, let me know.

. I wouldnt know if i can afford it untill i know what you are talking about.

mecks07:
. I wouldnt know if i can afford it untill i know what you are talking about.

Your girl has no problem. Post your question here https://manymen.men and you'll get a professional answer based on the psychology why she behaves that way for free.

iLegendd:
Your girl has no problem. Post your question here https://manymen.men and you'll get a professional answer based on the psychology why she behaves that way for free.

. Ok tnx

mecks07:
. Ok tnx

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Either spiritual or babe gat no feelings for u just brainwashing u