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When He Insists On Sex by blessingchinny(f): 8:09pm On Apr 01, 2019
Many a times, one of the major challenges that some women face in relationship is the pressures of being sexually involved with their partner. Especially for ladies who wants to remain celibate. You love this guy, and at the same time, you really don't want to be sexually involved with him. Not because you don't have feelings for him, but because you've resolved not to be intimately involved with any man till marriage. We are in a generation where the rate of immorality is becoming the order of the day, that is so difficult trying to convince a man of your virginity status. Most of them have this mindset that there is probably some other guy enjoying the benefits you are restricting him of. Which may not be true.

However, in spite the general beliefs, there are still few men ready to wait. Am not talking about men who just came for the sole purpose of sex, but men who are ready to control their hormones, because they truly love you. But it all depends on your approach and how you package yourself. There are certain things you ought to do or stop doing


1) place a value on yourself - the problem is not about his constant request of sex. But the question is what else can you offer apart from sex. What other unique qualities can he found in you which would make him curtail his sexual desires? What differentiates you from other women he had dated out there? Every woman have vagina, but not all have an
outstanding character. A man can only choose to respect your celibacy decision if he sees an irresistible virtue in you that spices the relationship.




Avoid unnecessary demands- in this part of the country, most men believes that excessive demands from them equates to sex entitlement. And a lot of them are willing to spend, as long as they keep getting the juice anytime they wish.

Excessive demands lowers your value and gives a man the wrong impression about your intention towards the relationship. He will begin to assume that you are dating him just for the material benefits.

And to him, sex would only be his reward.as he will feel cheated if he doesn't get it. If you really want a man to respect and take your celibacy statue serious, then you must learn how to be independent. It commands respect. If you must demand, demand reasonably. Give him that impression that you ain't dating him for sex, but for the love. And I bet you, if he truly loves you, he will respect your decision and still take care of you even without you making a request. For more relationship tips. Visit my blog@www.loveonet.com
Re: When He Insists On Sex by Ellyboy01: 9:57pm On Apr 01, 2019
Nice one
Re: When He Insists On Sex by anthonyuncle(m): 8:02am On Apr 02, 2019
nice one, God bless u more
Re: When He Insists On Sex by tee59(f): 8:32am On Apr 02, 2019
Very interesting.
Re: When He Insists On Sex by aanuoluwami14(f): 8:55am On Apr 02, 2019
cheesy
Re: When He Insists On Sex by don4real18(m): 9:58am On Apr 02, 2019
The question is, must you demand? grin
Re: When He Insists On Sex by MrPENIS(m): 10:02am On Apr 02, 2019
Sex is underrated

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