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You Need A Job Not A Relationship. by uyiekpenn(m): 11:21pm On Apr 05, 2019
I work 10 hours Mondays to Fridays and i know the level of sweat and blood i put in to earn a living. As a man you have absolutely no business being with any woman who doesn't understand your struggles or any woman who isn't trying to get money the same way you're trying to get money.

I met this lady on Facebook September last year. She sent me a request and i accepted her request. She thanked me for accepting her request (an act quite common on the book). Sometimes she chats with me once in awhile and i always replied her well. So i noticed towards the end of 2018, our chats became more frequent. I didn't really mind cos i felt its just one of those social media buddy thingy. At this point she was already asking me where i reside and what i do for a living which i told her. When i asked her what she did for a living she said she was a student.

We were still commincating as friends then she popped the question and asked if i had a girlfriend and i told her No. She said she didn't believe me and the truth is i don't have a relationship anywhere. Haven't been in a relationship since Nov 2014 due to personal reasons. I noticed she became asking me if I'd like to date her and stuff and normally i thought it was one of those Facebook relationships that end on Facebook so i never took it serious anyway. Fast forward to today when sent me a mesage on my messenger telling me that she had accomodation issues and that she wanted to move from her current place to secure another accommodation.

So i asked her how much she needed to secure a new apartment stylishly and this girl told me she needed 750k. That was exactly when i knew this girl must be a comedienne. I asked what needed 750k for and she said she needed to get an apartment, buy a new phone and use some for her upkeep. It was at this point i told her point blank that if she needs money she should go get a job and as usual she called me Stingy.

What's really wrong with most of these females?

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Re: You Need A Job Not A Relationship. by Beadex1(m): 5:09am On Apr 06, 2019
uyiekpenn:
I work 10 hours Mondays to Fridays and i know the level of sweat and blood i put in to earn a living. As a man you have absolutely no business being with any woman who doesn't understand your struggles or any woman who isn't trying to get money the same way you're trying to get money.

I met this lady on Facebook September last year. She sent me a request and i accepted her request. She thanked me for accepting her request (an act quite common on the book). Sometimes she chats with me once in awhile and i always replied her well. So i noticed towards the end of 2018, our chats became more frequent. I didn't really mind cos i felt its just one of those social media buddy thingy. At this point she was already asking me where i reside and what i do for a living which i told her. When i asked her what she did for a living she said she was a student.

We were still commincating as friends then she popped the question and asked if i had a girlfriend and i told her No. She said she didn't believe me and the truth is i don't have a relationship anywhere. Haven't been in a relationship since Nov 2014 due to personal reasons. I noticed she became asking me if I'd like to date her and stuff and normally i thought it was one of those Facebook relationships that end on Facebook so i never took it serious anyway. Fast forward to today when sent me a mesage on my messenger telling me that she had accomodation issues and that she wanted to move from her current place to secure another accommodation.

So i asked her how much she needed to secure a new apartment stylishly and this girl told me she needed 750k. That was exactly when i knew this girl must be a comedienne. I asked what needed 750k for and she said she needed to get an apartment, buy a new phone and use some for her upkeep. It was at this point i told her point blank that if she needs money she should go get a job and as usual she called me Stingy.

What's really wrong with most of these females?
Bruh dating has become a full time job here in Nigeria
Re: You Need A Job Not A Relationship. by MJBOLT: 6:10am On Apr 06, 2019
op,it seems you dont know that most nigerian girls now see dating as a way out of poverty.good thing you used your head,it's better they call you stingy than maga/mugu

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