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| HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 11:01am On Apr 07, 2019 |
“I Couldn’t Tell Her I Loved Her Because I Lacked The Confidence…” I became friends with my course mate, we texted a lot, hung out at least weekly but nothing physical. No holding of hands or kissing, maybe the occasional hug and that was all. Aside from that it felt like we were dating though but we never used the word “date” or “like” or anything close to it because we weren’t really dating. This went on for months because I was too chicken to bring it up and tell her how I felt about her but at the same time I didn’t want to assume things and make a move and ruin whatever friendship we had. My shyness and secret attraction for her went on for a long while until one day a guy who wasn’t even as good looking as I am met her, became her friend and in two weeks they were dating! I was angry with myself; I felt like a coward, useless and not man enough. That wasn’t all, it got worse…. She began to spend more time with him and less with me since then and I couldn’t do anything about it, I was been eaten up inside me for my inaction and sometimes I cry in the dark for having no balls to ask her out even though opportunities presented itself severally. So back to square one… I’m all alone as she is no longer hanging out with me and I had lost another chance to get a girl just like I did with other girls that came my way. I wish I was bold enough to tell her how I felt even if it was just once. But what’s the point? Even if I try now, she’s already deeply in love with another more confident guy. This lack of confidence and guts to approach a girl and actually attract her to me has got to stop, it has really ruined many opportunities for me and I was done with been timid and “friend zoned”. I’m in my mid twenties and I have never had a real girlfriend? What? This had to stop! My anger led me to search for answers and as the Bible even says “seek and you shall find”. And in the same way as you are reading this, you also have found your answer too…yeah I know you want answers too else you wouldn’t read up to this point, you are not alone my friend and your time is now… I came across an online course, a video to be precise that teaches shy, introverted guys like me how to become confident and approach ANY girl and win her over. And after going through the course,( It was long though but I didn’t care) I came up with the most effective points I learnt from it that ANY guy who was once like me, who wants to change their current relationship situation, who want to know just how to get a girl without having to rehearse pick up lines ANY guy even YOU! Can use today and get results, I put up those points together and decided to share it with you and like my friend would say “SO THAT EVERYBODY IS HAPPY” One of the things I learnt from the course for example is that if you don’t want to turn a girl off the moment she sees you never ever show her that you are so in need of her attention or approval to the extent you begin to crowd her, become too nice and become touchy, you will instantly make yourself a bone in her neck. Rather this is what you do… Full narration tales @ https://lemonangelinternational.com.ng/31-2/ |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Shelumiel: 11:03am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Socialmediageek:It is well . |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by kunleweb: 11:11am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Lucifer again  |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Fernandowski(m): 11:18am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Fear of rejection is really bad You will get over it bro 1 Like |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by ShinqRambq: 11:48am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Socialmediageek:  Over-confident Coward |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 1:36pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Serves you right! Na God catch you... You think sey na only your good looks go make the girl fall for you? Coward! Telling her you loved her would have been a waste of time cos she would start avoiding you like a plague. Go and learn from that 'non so-good looking guy' how he did it. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by MasonKendall(m): 2:03pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Socialmediageek:That's what you get for being a chicken |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 2:53pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
My tale narration continues That wasn’t all, it got worse…. She began to spend more time with him and less with me since then and I couldn’t do anything about it, I was been eaten up inside me for my inaction and sometimes I cry in the dark for having no balls to ask her out even though opportunities presented itself severally. So back to square one… I’m all alone as she is no longer hanging out with me and I had lost another chance to get a girl just like I did with other girls that came my way. I wish I was bold enough to tell her how I felt even if it was just once. But what’s the point? Even if I try now, she’s already deeply in love with another more confident guy. This lack of confidence and guts to approach a girl and actually attract her to me has got to stop, it has really ruined many opportunities for me and I was done with been timid and “friend zoned”. I’m in my mid twenties and I have never had a real girlfriend? What? This had to stop! My anger led me to search for answers and as the Bible even says “seek and you shall find” |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by kunleweb: 2:55pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
ceeroh: Haba! |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:02pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Never in your life tell any woman you love her except she is a virgin. 1 Like |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:This is the dumbest thing I have ever read in my entire life 1 Like |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
JjBankys: it will be always dumb to idiots who think saying i love you to an experienced woman will make you see her pants. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:shutup just stop typing, you type like an idiot ( no apologize) |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:15pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
JjBankys: you do not have to apologise. I hate pussy ass niggas and weak men like you who needs the approval of women to survive. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:26pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:lol you are one of those alpha males crew?  look around you son Nigeria is nothing but a Shlithole, nothing work in this godforsaken country and yet, you are forming one mumu alpha male on Nl lol. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:29pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
JjBankys: what is this dumpty dumpty talking about and where was alpha mention in any of my banta with you. Grow up and get sense. 1 Like |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:31pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Shut up stop talking!! you type like that clown Wetdick. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 3:34pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
JjBankys: stop wasting my time and go and masturbate like you always do. Wetdick is a smarter clown than you. 1 Like |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by BlackAdam55(m): 3:47pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Lol, so if i see a hard working, God fearing lady ,wife martial 100℅ i should not go ahead and tell her that i love her ,because she's not a Virgin? |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
BlackAdam55:rate most desperate men will tell a woman that he loves her the moment he meets her... to an experienced woman.. i love you doesnt mean anything not because the word doesnt make sense but because she understands why you are saying it, and that is to get to see her pants. to a virgin woman saying i love you, will work like fire because she kinda of need trust |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by BlackAdam55(m): 4:05pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Alright |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by nicepoker101(m): 5:17pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Op think of achieving something great in life. Stop lamenting how you have no balls to tell a lady what's on your mind. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Themhi1: 6:27pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Pls can you help? I have this girl I love and we've been chatting and also recently I went to her house and we talked and so on. When I visited her gave her my phone unknowingly to me she read the message I texted to some girls. She later confessed to me later. Fast forward, I told her I love and and the first thing she asked was how am I going to do with those girls she read my message with, I told her that I can't date two people. Later she said she don't want a relationship for now that she's afraid of heart break and so on she say we should stay friends. From my observations I think she loves me. Pls is their anything I can do again?? |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Themhi1: there is nothing like i think she loves me here. She doesnt want a relationship.. And you dont want to be friendzoned.. Ignore her and dont give her attention..move on with ur life if she really likes you..she will try to contact you..that is ur time to act like a bf that is if you still likes her instead of this your tactics of expressing love. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by kollinzgee(m): 8:14pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Socialmediageek: mister op this girl knows you like her already forget all this poo.women know what you want from them right from the day one you said hi ,they can read your,mind through you body language bro never ask her out just go to dating drills and grab some ballZ. |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 1:10am On Apr 08, 2019 |
So much war already... Let me continue my tales narration... And in the same way as you are reading this, you also have found your answer too…yeah I know you want answers too else you wouldn’t read up to this point, you are not alone my friend and your time is now… I came across an online course, a video to be precise that teaches shy, introverted guys like me how to become confident and approach ANY girl and win her over. And after going through the course,( It was long though but I didn’t care) I came up with the most effective points I learnt from it that ANY guy who was once like me, who wants to change their current relationship situation, who want to know just how to get a girl without having to rehearse pick up lines ANY guy even YOU! Can use today and get results, I put up those points together and decided to share it with you and like my friend would say “SO THAT EVERYBODY IS HAPPY” One of the things I learnt from the course for example is that if you don’t want to turn a girl off the moment she sees you never ever show her that you are so in need of her attention or approval to the extent you begin to crowd her, become too nice and become touchy, you will instantly make yourself a bone in her neck. Rather this is what you do… (more loading) |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 1:11am On Apr 08, 2019 |
So much war already... Let me continue my tales narration... And in the same way as you are reading this, you also have found your answer too…yeah I know you want answers too else you wouldn’t read up to this point, you are not alone my friend and your time is now… I came across an online course, a video to be precise that teaches shy, introverted guys like me how to become confident and approach ANY girl and win her over. And after going through the course,( It was long though but I didn’t care) I came up with the most effective points I learnt from it that ANY guy who was once like me, who wants to change their current relationship situation, who want to know just how to get a girl without having to rehearse pick up lines ANY guy even YOU! Can use today and get results, I put up those points together and decided to share it with you and like my friend would say “SO THAT EVERYBODY IS HAPPY” One of the things I learnt from the course for example is that if you don’t want to turn a girl off the moment she sees you never ever show her that you are so in need of her attention or approval to the extent you begin to crowd her, become too nice and become touchy, you will instantly make yourself a bone in her neck. Rather this is what you do… |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 1:12am On Apr 08, 2019 |
So much war already... Let me continue my tales narration... And in the same way as you are reading this, you also have found your answer too…yeah I know you want answers too else you wouldn’t read up to this point, you are not alone my friend and your time is now… I came across an online course, a video to be precise that teaches shy, introverted guys like me how to become confident and approach ANY girl and win her over. And after going through the course,( It was long though but I didn’t care) I came up with the most effective points I learnt from it that ANY guy who was once like me, who wants to change their current relationship situation, who want to know just how to get a girl without having to rehearse pick up lines. ANY guy even YOU! Can use today and get results, I put up those points together and decided to share it with you and like my friend would say “SO THAT EVERYBODY IS HAPPY” One of the things I learnt from the course for example is that if you don’t want to turn a girl off the moment she sees you never ever show her that you are so in need of her attention or approval to the extent you begin to crowd her, become too nice and become touchy, you will instantly make yourself a bone in her neck. Rather this is what you do… (find step here... https://lemonangelinternational.com.ng/31-2/ |
| Re: HELP! I Couldn't Tell Her I Loved Her by Socialmediageek: 12:02am On Apr 10, 2019 |
Narration story tales continues... Rather this is what you do… Show her that you don’t need her approval. The trick is to make her work for your attention rather than the other way around. This will unbalance her cool and aloof approach to men simply because you are doing something so unexpected and out of the ordinary she will be hard pressed not to at least be curious about you. The more you appear like you don’t need her approval, the more confident you will appear and confidence is very attractive to both women and men. So, the more confident you can act in every situation, the more attractive you will be. And one sure way of boosting your confidence is through your appearance, you know there’s a way you feel when you dress really good and there’s a girl around than when you are poorly dressed, so always work on your physical appearance, hit the gym if you can and make your clothes look good, and you don’t need to break the bank to do that either. Another thing you should never do around a girl you like is using rehearsed pickup lines. Most girls of nowadays know those things and quickly notice when you use them. Pickup lines only work in movies and not in real life and that girl would like you more if you start a meaningful conversation with her than using pickup lines. Conversations can lead you into friendship and if you know how to start a good conversation then you are halfway there. But if you don’t know how to start a conversation with a girl maybe you don’t know what to say or you’re shy, it’s ok still, I got you covered. I will show you how to start one, how to bring a huge lasting change into your relationship life with girls. |
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