This thread is for the ladies only. If you're guy reading this thread, your opinion doesn't matter.

To all the ladies out there, you need to step your game. MOST of these guys you're seeing do not have a heart. If you have a boyfriend, be committed, be devoted, be faithful but keep your options very open. We ladies begin to go out of market at 28. But you see these guys, they can decide to marry even at the age of 60.
I'm not telling you to cheat but my dear, you need to mingle, go out, meet other guys, exchange contacts but use your head. You need to love with your heart and think with your brain or else you might regret it later.
Imagine dating a guy from 22 for six good years and the idiot ends up breaking up with you when you are 28. Think of the implication of starting all over again. Let's say you get devoted with another guy for 2 years and he disappoints you. By then you're 31. Na still dem go call you ancient of days.
Let me tell you, these guys go for ladies in their early 20's most of the time so don't let anybody waste your time. The older you get, the lesser your chances are. Don't wait till you are in your 30's and start running from church to church.
Do not put all your eggs in one basket. Don't date a guy who isn't ready, na your time you dey waste. I pity you. Most of these guys eh... Very heartless, ( no generalization). Until he takes you to church, you're still searching.
And don't think I'm pained because someone has done it to me. I won't let myself be in that position. I just want to make it clear to the ladies and tell them the reality.
My guys out there, no vex for me. Most of una no dey try. Babe wey go dey with una, build with una, cry with una. You go still get mind f^ck am up. E no good sha.

[quote author=Lizzysparks post=77642614] This thread is for the ladies only. If you're guy reading this thread, your opinion doesn't matter.

To all the ladies out there, you need to step your game. MOST of these guys you're seeing do not have a heart. If you have a boyfriend, be committed, be devoted, be faithful but keep your options very open. We ladies begin to go out of market at 28. But you see these guys, they can decide to marry even at the age of 60.
I'm not telling you to cheat but my dear, you need to mingle, go out, meet other guys, exchange contacts but use your head. You need to love with your heart and think with your brain or else you might regret it later.
Imagine dating a guy from 22 for six good years and the idiot ends up breaking up with you when you are 28. Think of the implication of starting all over again. Let's say you get devoted with another guy for 2 years and he disappoints you. By then you're 31. Na still dem go call you ancient of days.
Let me tell you, these guys go for ladies in their early 20's most of the time so don't let anybody waste your time. The older you get, the lesser your chances are. Don't wait till you are in your 30's and start running from church to church.
Do not put all your eggs in one basket. Don't date a guy who isn't ready, na your time you dey waste. I pity you. Most of these guys eh... Very heartless, ( no generalization). Until he takes you to church, you're still searching.
And don't think I'm pained because someone has done it to me. I won't let myself be in that position. I just want to make it clear to the ladies and tell them the reality.
My guys out there, no vex for me. Most of una no dey try. Babe wey go dey with una, build with una, cry with una. You go still get mind f^ck am up. E no good sha.

Being with a guy for many years is not a guarantee that he must marry you!

Besides, ladies too dump guys who have invested so much time, emotion and money in the relationship.

All is fair in love and in war! That is the line ladies quote when they are the one dumping a guy! But when they are the victim they cry us a river!

In other words Op is trying to say these ladies should go about HOEing as much as they want till they find that unfortunate guy who would slip a ring in their fingers and take a bore hole home as a wife



How sorrowful

iTearHerToto:
In other words Op is trying to say these ladies should go about HOEing as much as they want till they find that unfortunate guy who would slip a ring in their fingers and take a bore hole home as a wife



How sorrowful

You lack understanding
How sorrowful