MissRaine69:
No. He stays because he wants to.

pandv:


Does it mean that it is not as important as men and the bible make it seems to be in sustaining a relationship with a man?

pandv:
I need an honest answers.

pandv:
I need an honest answers.

thesicilian:
At least submission has a higher chance of keeping a man than feminism disobedience.

tiffanyfan:
Yeah submission can keep some men, but not all men. The heart only wants what it want.

OkaNaUbe:


"Keeps"

To your question, yes because it is a character most women don't have. But don't combine submissiveness with other bad behaviours like being wasteful, materialistic etc.

funmisticqueen:
he stays because he has more to lose if he leaves. be that woman that know him so well that if he thinks of leaving, he'll shit his pants

MissRaine69:

Relationships/Marriages are about checks and balances you need to know when to fight, when to placate and when to stroke an ego to avoid tension. Two cockerels
in one yard is a cause of tension is Submission is subjective.
A clever woman knows how to navigate, the turbulent waters that form a man’s ego. Not all men have the fortitude to be with a woman who is ambitious and successful, she is a threat to their manhood. Some men have no issues with that and are very supportive. Some men prefer a woman who bends to their will like reeds in the wind without question that’s their preference.

Some associate submission with weakness of personality, being owned and to the extremists some sort of subjugation.
A man stays because he wants to stay and he has invested emotions and a future in you. He does not stay because you do everything he says.There is a difference.

LordKO:
If you mean submission in its formalness, the one that allows a man to have power over a woman, whether she likes it or not, while outside his presence/giving opportunity she subjugates or drains him, my answer is NO. It can't keep a sane man. Women who give it know that it's a mere mechanism to perfect their manipulation, unfortunately small-minded men - wannabe alpa men (egotistic men with or without money, and narcissistic and egoistic men with money while you're poor) - love it without knowing that they're under manipulation. This kind of submission isn't a sign of virtuousness. If the man stays - a sane man won't even put up with this type of woman in the first place - it won't make him to treat her like a virtuous woman because she doesn't possess aristocratic manners and values. Egoistic, narcissistic and egotistic women can offer this kind of submission in abundance - the second and third latter mentions always take to it if/when they don't have money, to drain/subjugate a man that has money or a man they want in their lives who doesn't know their antics.

Meanwhile, if you are talking about the submission I know - I prefer its euphemism submissiveness - which is a compound word just like the big love (the love that is a variant of goodness), but only differs in nomenclature and application, then my answer is YES. Submissiveness will surely keep a man, a man that truly needs you. Submissiveness is simply a variant of goodness - altruism and conscientiousness - it isn't a sign of weakness, just like the big love isn't a sign of weakness too.

MissRaine69:

Relationships/Marriages are about checks and balances you need to know when to fight, when to placate and when to stroke an ego to avoid tension. Two cockerels
in one yard is a cause of tension is Submission is subjective.
A clever woman knows how to navigate, the turbulent waters that form a man’s ego. Not all men have the fortitude to be with a woman who is ambitious and successful, she is a threat to their manhood. Some men have no issues with that and are very supportive. Some men prefer a woman who bends to their will like reeds in the wind without question that’s their preference.

Some associate submission with weakness of personality, being owned and to the extremists some sort of subjugation.
A man stays because he wants to stay and he has invested emotions and a future in you. He does not stay because you do everything he says.There is a difference.

pandv:


are you saying feminism means disobedience and submission means obedience?

MissRaine69:

Relationships/Marriages are about checks and balances you need to know when to fight, when to placate and when to stroke an ego to avoid tension. Two cockerels
in one yard is a cause of tension . Submission is subjective here.
A clever woman knows how to navigate, the turbulent waters that form a man’s ego. Not all men have the fortitude to be with a woman who is ambitious and successful, she is a threat to their manhood. Some men have no issues with that and are very supportive. Some men prefer a woman who bends to their will like reeds in the wind without question that’s their preference.

Some associate submission with weakness of personality, being owned and to the extremists some sort of subjugation.
A man stays because he wants to stay and he has invested emotions and a future in you. He does not stay because you do everything he says.There is a difference.

pandv:


i don't understand.

thesicilian:

Roughly. Especially the Nigerian brand of feminism.

funmisticqueen:
he stays because he has more to lose if he leaves. be that woman that know him so well that if he thinks of leaving, he'll shit his pants

thesicilian:

Roughly. Especially the Nigerian brand of feminism.

lilwetdick:
every man is different

Some men are loyal when you are submissive, while some are the devil's workshop even though you are submissive

it also depends on the type of family and upbringing they come from

pandv:


Does it mean that it is not as important as men and the bible make it seems to be in sustaining a relationship with a man?

generationz:



But Chimamanda Adichie and beyounve have been happily married for years. Need I mention that they are married to men who are successful in their field.

There's no hard and fast rule to these things
what one man calls submission another calls timidity.

thesicilian:

Roughly. Especially the Nigerian brand of feminism.

generationz:



But Chimamanda Adichie and Beyonce have been happily married for years. Need I mention that they are married to men who are successful in their field.

There's no hard and fast rule to these things
what one man calls submission another calls timidity.