I have been dating a guy for a year plus now.we get along with each other well but the issue is that he still keep photos of his Ex with him,even on fb.they dated for 9 years cos she was still schooling then.but she later Bleep up by getting pregnant for another guy.even though he seems all nice and caring to me,I still sense he still loves her cos a time I checked his phone and saw his conversation with her,he was always the one saying hello and hi but the girl doesn't buy to that like she's moved on.Each time I confront him,he always like saying he's moved on that he can't go back to his vomit.not knowing I checked his chats..
Now my questions is , Please what should I do to such guy that still has pix of his Ex and saying he's moved on? Though he is nice and even planning marriage but I don't understand his confused state of mind.
Help

ajokeade920:
I have been dating a guy for a year plus now.we get along with each other well but the issue is that he still keep photos of his Ex with him,even on fb.they dated for 9 years cos she was still schooling then.but she later Bleep up by getting pregnant for another guy.even though he seems all nice and caring to me,I still sense he still loves her cos a time I checked his phone and saw his conversation with her,he was always the one saying hello and hi but the girl doesn't buy to that like she's moved on.Each time I confront him,he always like saying he's moved on that he can't go back to his vomit.not knowing I checked his chats..
Now my questions is , Please what should I do to such guy that still has pix of his Ex and saying he's moved on? Though he is nice and even planning marriage but I don't understand his confused state of mind.
Help

hmm, pls just take it slow, i understand how ladies behave wen it come to issues like this, it wil look as if u re sharing him with another body but hey!!! note this... its nt easy to let go all of a sudden like dat, esp wen deep love is involved, he's pasin tru hell just dat he's smiling to u. only if u can ask him to show u d agony behind his smiles... am feeling wat he's feeling as well and i knw how it feels, me and my fiance of five years only got to knw recently dat we can't continue despite d love, cares, torments, waves, tears, happiness, beautiful moments we hav passed tru over the years.. now am incomplete and depressed and dying slowly, soo i knw jow he feels just bear with him am sure he wil get over it since he has already had u, just let him knw lovingly and politely dt u re nt comfortable with how tins are going, if he cherish u he wil do something abt it.
hav a wondaful night rest dear.

Have pics of your own ex on your phone and tell him you have moved on too.
Some people dont understand things until you do the same to them.
Pretend nothing is wrong and you are not bothered then do the same thing he is doing and see how he react maybe he can learn from that

Seems like I've read this exact story here

Nine years no be beans. You don't just unlove people as though you were uninstalling an app, try and be considerate but also be open to him about your feelings on perhaps how he behaves towards you without making mention of the fact that you are aware of him contacting his ex and always assure him of your love for him. He will come around with time and make sure he's not getting married to you as an escape from the earlier incident because you would be in trouble

u've posted dz same issue before,
ain't u satisfied with all da comments and advices given?