jamillion:
Goodevening everyone! Ur opinion's needed here;
I have being dating this girl for quiet sometime now with intention to make her my bride when the right time eventually comes been that I wasn't ready so, few days ago we agreed to meet with her parents which we agreed on today for a formal visit which we did but here's the problem, on meeting my girl's parent today, I found out that I have met her mum somewhere before in an unpleasant environment (relating to adultry) and at the same time, on getting to my girl's area I met an old school friend which from indications seems to know my girl very well so I had to ask for his company which he obliged....to make story short, we left after talks exchanging contact with my old time school friend. my friend later called and was given me hints about my girl that she's not different from her mum that infact she was born out of wedlock that i should ask her wether if the person they introduced as her dad was her real dad, he said story has it that her supposed dad denied his mummy's pregnancy due to her promiscuous attitude. Dear people am confused, do u think she still worth a wife?

sherylbakky:
Answer this first...

What were u doing in that unpleasant environment?

fuckerstard:
Guy forget all these bullshit friend story, if the girl na good girl do your thing if not free am. Her mama life differ from hers and that your old friend sef. beware of him.

jamillion:
Goodevening everyone! Ur opinion's needed here;
I have being dating this girl for quiet sometime now with intention to make her my bride when the right time eventually comes been that I wasn't ready so, few days ago we agreed to meet with her parents which we agreed on today for a formal visit which we did but here's the problem, on meeting my girl's parent today, I found that I have met her mum somewhere before in an unpleasant environment (relating to adultry) and at the same time, on getting to my girl's area I met an old school friend which from indications seems to know my girl very well so I had to ask for his company which he obliged....to make story short, we left after talks exchanging contact with my old time school friend. my friend later called and was given me hints about my girl that she's not different from her mum that infact she was born out of wedlock that i should ask her wether if the person they introduced as her dad was her real dad, he said story has it that her supposed dad denied his mummy's pregnancy due to her promiscuous attitude. Dear people am confused, do u think she still worth a wife?

jamillion:
Goodevening everyone! Ur opinion's needed here;
I have being dating this girl for quiet sometime now with intention to make her my bride when the right time eventually comes been that I wasn't ready so, few days ago we agreed to meet with her parents which we agreed on today for a formal visit which we did but here's the problem, on meeting my girl's parent today, I found that I have met her mum somewhere before in an unpleasant environment (relating to adultry) and at the same time, on getting to my girl's area I met an old school friend which from indications seems to know my girl very well so I had to ask for his company which he obliged....to make story short, we left after talks exchanging contact with my old time school friend. my friend later called and was given me hints about my girl that she's not different from her mum that infact she was born out of wedlock that i should ask her wether if the person they introduced as her dad was her real dad, he said story has it that her supposed dad denied his mummy's pregnancy due to her promiscuous attitude. Dear people am confused, do u think she still worth a wife?

jamillion:
Goodevening everyone! Ur opinion's needed here;
I have being dating this girl for quiet sometime now with intention to make her my bride when the right time eventually comes been that I wasn't ready so, few days ago we agreed to meet with her parents which we agreed on today for a formal visit which we did but here's the problem, on meeting my girl's parent today, I found that I have met her mum somewhere before in an unpleasant environment (relating to adultry) and at the same time, on getting to my girl's area I met an old school friend which from indications seems to know my girl very well so I had to ask for his company which he obliged....to make story short, we left after talks exchanging contact with my old time school friend. my friend later called and was given me hints about my girl that she's not different from her mum that infact she was born out of wedlock that i should ask her wether if the person they introduced as her dad was her real dad, he said story has it that her supposed dad denied his mummy's pregnancy due to her promiscuous attitude. Dear people am confused, do u think she still worth a wife?

MajorJeffery:
The bolded is not true. A girl especially first daughter takes 65%-80% traits of her mother whether good or bad so before you marry, take time time to study your intending mum in law. Do your own investigation but don't entirely disregard your friend's advice.

MajorJeffery:
The bolded is not true. A girl especially first daughter takes 65%-80% traits of her mother whether good or bad so before you marry, take time time to study your intending mum in law. Do your own investigation but don't entirely disregard your friend's advice.

MissRaine69:


We inherit 50% genetic from each parent. Our environment might influence certain behaviour but there is also the element of choice. Do you want your mother’s legacy to shape your destiny or do you choose your own path in life? Interestingly enough if a woman had posted this with the same questions and her intended husband was in exactly the same situation would you write what you wrote about first children? Or does that slight misogynistic view apply because it’s a woman?

Westsida:


It’s 50% each from both parent.

MajorJeffery:
You're talking about inheriting but I'm talking about getting. A good woman that hardship pushed into temporary prostitution, there are chances that her first daughter would likely know about it and might get influenced while her younger daughter who never knew or was too young to notice might not.

MajorJeffery:
If you're the first daughter of your mum, tell me about your mum and I'll tell you very much about you. To your question, yes I will say that about first sons and dads. Problem about first sons is that most times, their dads aren't their biological dads.

sherylbakky:
Answer this first...

What were u doing in that unpleasant environment?

deanoffaculty:

Chairman!!! You don't judge a book by it's cover. For the fact that a pot is black doesn't mean that the soup is black. If you keep digging into past or immediate life of ladies, you may not likely get married again in this life. We all have our silent chapters in life that we keep secret till death. The lady might have made some mistakes at a point but that doesn't make her devil. If you love the lady with all your heart, kindly wave odds aside and ride along with her. Afterall you are not a saint either. You love the lady and not her mother, please agree with her and ignore 3rd party influence. Wife materials are very rare but you have to prayerfully make concrete decision when you want to grab one. There are many secrets that our parents will never tell us, so when you hear about other parents' secret, don't take it against them cos your parents has secrets as well. Even if her mom is an italian olosho, please face your business. If you are not comfortable with what is on the table, gbe body e but don't condem the lady's family........ Remember this: Rahab a prostitute was named as one of the ancestors of Jesus christ. God will grant you grace and wisdom to go about it IJN.

MissRaine69:

You have statistical evidence regarding the last statement? Or is that an extension of your misogyny?
I am not the first daughter, I am the only daughter
My mother is a Neuroscientist still works in that field
Very supportive
Does not like fish
is blasé regarding organised religion
What else?

Joekaynews:


On all this your epistle, I have simple question for you. Why must she lie to an extent of introducing another man as her biological father just because this is the man that husband her mom at present?

Mind you, honestly and faithfulness are key to a blissful home. I don't think it is healthy to marry someone who could lie about her father, etc. Mehen, we are talking about a life contract and not a mere relationship. If she can be dishonest at this stage, trust me you, the young man will have to contend with dishonesty in her life for a lifetime if he eventually take her as wife.

It is better to open up before your partner uncover it outside and come to ask you questions. Nothing is hidden forever.

Ase pamon lowa ase gbe o si!