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Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Michelle55: 10:56am On May 06, 2019
Delivar:

Your response was fair and understanding to come from a female who will typically applaud what the pastor said and make fun of jobless men.
I don't have to agree with everything a pastor says because sometimes they don't understand the suffering of the masses owing to the fact that they ain't feeling the heat of the country ,even their wards ain't exempted! No sane man wants to be jobless, so it makes no absolutely sense to me to mock anyone nor agree with him on every word said just because it's coming from a pastor.
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by greatman247(m): 1:30pm On May 06, 2019
What if the man loses his job immediately after wedding? What if a lady ignores a potential successful man just because she listens to this rubbish preaching and eventually God pickup the call of the jobless man and he goes on to become a very successful or a billionaire man in future, the lady will lose and miss out? Ladies shouldn’t be misled by some pastors. Just because he is a very big pastor does not mean he is right always.


Mind you, pastors should stop accepting money from jobless men. Hahahahahaha
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by KingLennon(m): 2:05pm On May 06, 2019
deltateam:


Till when? That's starting a marriage on a faulty foundation already. There's a tendency he will relax, get depressed, take it out on the wife through beating. Feels insecure.

You think the cycle has not been occuring?
No need to generalise. To each his own....
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by jay7(m): 5:38pm On May 06, 2019
frank317:
And what has this stale preaching got to benefit anyone?

He sounds as if joblessness is a decision especially in a country like naija. What exactly do we even call joblessness in this country? Do people like being jobless?

Will a man earning 40k a month be regarded as jobless? Can 40k a month take care of the family?

I just think he should step up his preaching and stop giving people advise they already are aware of.

Definition of terms are needed here so that he will not end up sounding like he has ran out of what to preach to some people.

Seriously 40k is something as long as d lady is working too, my brother in Nigeria you just have to cut your clothe according to your size, did you know that some federal government staff on level 8 step 2 salary earn 49k monthly Example ministry of labour and the worst part is that you can be on that same salary scale for 4 years. Before you term me a liar please do your research or check this for more info. Thanks
https://www.currentschoolnews.com/articles/federal-civil-service-commission-salary-structure/
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by ACE1010: 6:20pm On May 06, 2019
obinna58:

I'm sure you have a good paying job and living a happy life, that's why you're able to determine people's happiness, sorry I'm not frustrated or arrogant neither I'm I jobless so keep your insults to your self. Anyway
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Bleep your ass. slowpoke

Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by frank317: 8:30pm On May 06, 2019
jay7:


Seriously 40k is something as long as d lady is working too, my brother in Nigeria you just have to cut your clothe according to your size, did you know that some federal government staff on level 8 step 2 salary earn 49k monthly Example ministry of labour and the worst part is that you can be on that same salary scale for 4 years. Before you term me a liar please do your research or check this for more info. Thanks
https://www.currentschoolnews.com/articles/federal-civil-service-commission-salary-structure/

you are indirectly saying a man who earns 40k's marriage is indirectly dependent on how much his wife to be earns? Yet you say 40k is something?
Oga, weather people are earning 20k per month or not and if you like cut ur cloth anyway u like, 40 is too small for a man to consider marriage with. of course people are doing it. dont sit down and assume they are findin life funny. do we even need to argue about this?

i know there are variations in life, people do different things for different reasons, thats why i think Adeboye telling girls not to marry jobless men is shallow. there is a lot about marriage he should talk about that can guide people decision before marriage, weather the man is jobless or not.
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Nobody: 11:54pm On May 06, 2019
So that takes out about 70% of nairaland male members. Minimum grin grin grin grin
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 06, 2019
Uyi168:
One thing I know is that no sane man will deliberately want to be jobless..
Na condition make crayfish bend..

And it's suicide to think about marriage when u are jobless..
facts

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Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by jay7(m): 3:28pm On May 07, 2019
frank317:


you are indirectly saying a man who earns 40k's marriage is indirectly dependent on how much his wife to be earns? Yet you say 40k is something?
Oga, weather people are earning 20k per month or not and if you like cut ur cloth anyway u like, 40 is too small for a man to consider marriage with. of course people are doing it. dont sit down and assume they are findin life funny. do we even need to argue about this?

i know there are variations in life, people do different things for different reasons, thats why i think Adeboye telling girls not to marry jobless men is shallow. there is a lot about marriage he should talk about that can guide people decision before marriage, weather the man is jobless or not.

Well I read most of your replies before typing my own, yes people ain't finding it funny marrying on such salaries then how much more someone who is jobless? Since you know this, your post should rather encourage we guys to have at least something doing and at least set our priorities right before venturing into marriage, at least a man who earns 40k in south west Nigeria will be able to feed the wife and a kid or two averagely. In one of your replies you stated that when you were earning "80k" you couldn't marry with that, then how will a jobless man cope if he marries without any means of livelihood Fine I am not saying a man should be a millionaire before marriage but he should at least have something doing to care for the lady and their children.
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Nobody: 2:28am On Jun 02, 2019
grin grin
horlique:
am jobless but am employing 30 persons..

A lady should stay away from a visioned , ill-mannered and lazy man not necessarily a jobless man..
If not some ladies will hit menopause like play
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jun 10, 2019
horlique:
am jobless but am employing 30 persons..

A lady should stay away from a visioned , ill-mannered and lazy man not necessarily a jobless man..
If not some ladies will hit menopause like play
You are rather an entrepreneur. Not a jobless youth.
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by horlique(m): 6:44am On Jun 11, 2019
thornapple:

You are rather an entrepreneur. Not a jobless youth.
thanks Good morning my lovely sister.. have a nice day ahead .
Make person hit gym.. May God bless our new Day in Jesus Name. Amen
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 11, 2019
horlique:
thanks Good morning my lovely sister.. have a nice day ahead .
Make person hit gym.. May God bless our new Day in Jesus Name. Amen
Amen
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Champneys: 2:53pm On Jun 11, 2019
Adeboye is a lunatic for this nonsense!
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by Haykinsofficial: 10:43am On Sep 11, 2019
Neduzze5:
Please I'm looking for a Meme where the husband entered the house from work and the woman wanted to give him a hug but he held up his hand like asking her to hold herself....

It's a Nigerian movie. Please epp me edakun.

Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by OnPointMan(m): 11:17am On Sep 11, 2019
greatman247:
What if the man loses his job immediately after wedding? What if a lady ignores a potential successful man just because she listens to this rubbish preaching and eventually God pickup the call of the jobless man and he goes on to become a very successful or a billionaire man in future, the lady will lose and miss out? Ladies shouldn’t be misled by some pastors. Just because he is a very big pastor does not mean he is right always.


Mind you, pastors should stop accepting money from jobless men. Hahahahahaha

Why should they stop accepting money from jobless Don't you know that if they don't tithe they won't get a job grin
Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by greatman247(m): 8:58pm On Sep 11, 2019
OnPointMan:


Why should they stop accepting money from jobless Don't you know that if they don't tithe they won't get a job grin



LOL... tithe don't bring job, you have to make an effort for something to happen... don't fold arms! grin grin grin

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