I am in my early 20's and most people around me tell me there's more to marriage, hardships and all but I really want to settle down at that age and most especially have my first child by 25. Am I just fantasizing? I don't think I am, that's just my wish. Is it wrong to be thinking this way?

Someone had replied to a similar post with the question "Are you a marriage material ?"

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https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-350090.0.html

@Poster,Are u male or female
For Females,i say YES YES YES over and over again,howver if u are a Male . . alot of things have to be considered.

There's no specific age 2 get married(but it would be nice if u start a family b4 25 with d right guy)
Do it when u r matured enough and ready. . (divorce is not healthy)

Poster Have you finished fornicating?

TheCongo:



Someone had replied to a similar post with the question "Are you a marriage material ?"

Nevertheless, check this post to get some insight:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-350090.0.html

ifyalways:

@Poster,Are u male or female
For Females,i say YES YES YES over and over again,howver if u are a Male . . alot of things have to be considered.

I am a female, Thanks

boy1:

There's no specific age 2 get married(but it would be nice if u start a family b4 25 with d right guy)
Do it when u r matured enough and ready. . (divorce is not healthy)

Thanks all,

Lacrissa:

I am a female, Thanks

Thanks all,

Good luck and if you believe in God, fast and pray that the Lord sent the right person on your way.
Not everything that glitter is gold.
Pray without cessing ,

TheCongo