A lady friend of mine is in a mess and will definitely need advice from forum members. The lady in question had an affair with her landlord while living in Surulere some 22yrs ago. A baby girl was the result of the affair. The baby was naturally passed off as her husbands child, and neither her biolgical father nor the womans husband knew the truth. Fate smiled on my friend and her husband and they were able to move into their own house in Ogba, but maintained good relations with their former landlord. In a twist of fate the former landlords son is about to marry their former tenants daugther who is step sibling. My friend is considering pilling the beans in a rigtheous bid to stop the incest Should she throw away her marriage and she has laboured for just to stop this incest, I think not, what do you think?

This plot idea can be found in hundreds of Nigerian movies! Which home video did you copy it from?

seun na you know oh!
reality has often proven stranger than fiction.

What are the chances that children separated from each other at birth will find 'true love' with each other in real life?

landlord, this is for real, not home video stuff. The families maintained contact through the years.
Ur advice is still needed

Seun:

What are the chances that children separated from each other at birth will find 'true love' with each other in real life?

Very slight But this might just be one of the "slight" chances
(The fake stories here like i said, are more in number than the real ones and since we fall flat for some of others, why not? )

kliffo:

My friend is considering pilling the beans in a rigtheous bid to stop the incest Should she throw away her marriage and she has laboured for just to stop this incest, I think not, what do you think?

So you mean she should keep shot and let her two biological kids get married
Do you know the consequences that will have on her to-be-grand-children??
Not to talk of the disgust she'll feel each time she sees them together??
Believe me even if she doesn't speak up now, she couldn't live with that A-class secret for a long time . .

It would do her much good to confess now, she put herself in the position and now she has to pay the prize, not worst than that
Every thing we do on earth bears a consequence, good or bad. What she did was a big bad one, having an affair with the landlord and clothing the husband a fool . . well if she was lady enough to do such a messy act, then she should be lady enough to bear the consequences

I have zero respects for such ladies, infact cheats as a whole. I know noone is above mistakes, but then she didn't just have sex with him, she was having an affair. And in as much as she might deserve to be forgiven, its left for the husband to decide

She made her bed, now she's lying on it. The damage it might lead to if she kept shut might be disasterous, her only way out to shut up is if she can get them to break up, but can you eat your cake and have it??

The woman should simply object to the marriage and they must stop seeing each other because they must have been sleeping together.

Granted the woman cheated and passed on the baby to the present husband, she shouldn't destroy her home now and should not also destroy the life of her daughter. If she reveals the true identify of the daughter now, men being what they are, the husband will doubt the partenity of the other children and treat them with disdain.

I am not in anyway in support of indecency or cheating in a relationship but I think it is better to let the sleeping dog lie.

There are more greivious crimes than incest.

She should leave them alone. What of the ones

that are never found out? How is the woman even

sure the pregnancy belong to the lanlord? After all there

is every possibility that she also donated to some of the tenents too.

Let the young ones be. Let them not suffer for the sins of their erotic parents.

osegwu:

After all there is every possibility that she also donated to some of the tenents too.

LMAO

osegwu:


Let the young ones be. Let them not suffer for the sins of their erotic parents.

If you really are for the young ones being, then you'll feel sorry for the kids produced out of incest. The woman should try and find out if the girl belongs to the landlord, if yes, then she has to do something
And you just can't tell two people to break up without a reason, the lady needs a miracle, short and simple (for ex. the girl now belongs to the husband, or they break up willingly)

If her husband was the one who committed this same sin, she would forgive. What a pity. Not a true story anyway.

Seun:

If her husband was the one who committed this same sin, she would forgive. What a pity. Not a true story anyway.

Yes ooh, such is twisted life

Women have seen things ooh!!

Her daughter no be pickin, make she confide in the daughter who may consider pulling out of the wedding. She fit tell am say e fit be dat the boy papa na im papa but for obvious reasons she no wan explore the possibility. Simply telling the guy that her mama no want make dem marry and she no wan mortgage her mama happiness could be enough reason. For all you care the guy may have another option or simply find it a hard truth to swallow and learn to live with it; sense go enter im head years down the line when he find out say e for don marry im sister. Sometime down the line she should consider telling her husband and the landlord. Nip it in dey bud but honestly incest na social invention which works to connect us with other people. You ever wonder aw d first man and first woman begin populate the earth? Who sleep with who,

Why is Seun pucturing this story?

May be he becomes to the same association with this landlord at Surulere. You know, ogun-based landlord and surulere landlord [s]^{adie kii jefun ara won, e shaaaaa mo!}[/s].