Am 21 weeks pregnant, and the father of my unborn child who promised me marriage changed towards me,saying he doesn't want the baby and no longer interested in the relationship

I tried to inform his few siblings I could contact but nothing good is coming from them

I recently told my mum and she went mad with me
I have really disappointed them
My family's name is at stake if outsiders get to know
Now am told I must abort the baby but the bond I share with my child is making it difficult for me to accept

On the other hand,If I refuse,I would have to leave house and i dnt have anywhere else to go and I am not financially stable to take care of the child when born

I need a private adoption for my baby or someone who can help look after my baby,maybe after 2 or 3yrs I will collect the baby back

Picture of your baby bump let's know that you are serious so financial help can come from concerned nairalanders.

if indeed this story is true..
every state has a ministry of women affairs or motherless babies home/orphanages.. go there and do the needful

Op if you know that this baby question we are talking about as you stated that after 2 or 3 year you be back to collect this child i will advice you keep with your family because nobody will train a child for you for this year and you will come back collect that child from him ir her but you wish for adoption than decide for this ok i am interested on adoption thank

Aborting at this stage is just you risking your life. Don't even think about it and knock it off your head.

I also don't think adoption works that way dear. It's probably best you talk to your family. I find it very difficult to believe that they won't help you. Especially if you let them know how determined you are to make things work and not let the baby stop you from achieving your dreams.