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5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 6:26pm On Jun 05, 2019
Introduction

One prevalent behaviour among Christians is the eagerness to classify things in the black or white section. So, it’s easy to quickly call someone a sinner than to accept that this person has the same type of struggle Paul had, which he kept praying to God about (although the bible never told us the infirmity that was prayed about but we surely knew he kept praying to God to remove something from his life).
It was the same infirmity (of stealing) that affected Judas. He was a staunch believer of Jesus to the extent that his true intention of betraying Jesus was to see him disappear among those that caught him. Remember, he had witnessed Jesus disappear from the crowd before. This is a man that made a lot of money from seeing the part of the purse no one was seeing; getting his riches from the account that no one expected to be available.
For the other disciples to write about his habit, it must have been a common knowledge, which implied that Jesus held him closer. The difference between Paul and Judas was that one was determined to be ridded of his infirmity while the other was eager to use it to his gain.
In the case of masturbation for a Christian brother (and sister- they are crazily secretive), there are various questions that are yet to be answered such as the ones that will be briefly debunked
1.


‘I have committed a sin that can never be forgiven’?
I must put it to you: masturbation is a habit that, if left unchecked, can last for years and be easily relapsed into. So, the first thing you should know is that it is a habit. So, if you are a first time masturbator, please read our section for first time Masturbator. Before you become buried in its stench, this is what you should do.

‘I have committed a sin that can never be forgiven’?
I must put it to you: masturbation is a habit that, if left unchecked, can last for years and be easily relapsed into. So, the first thing you should know is that it is a habit. So, if you are a first time masturbator, please read our section for first time Masturbator. Before you become buried in its stench, this is what you should do.
2.

Some Christian believe they are bedevilled or that one village grandmother has cast spell on them;


hence, their need for masturbation
The truth is this: you allowed your hunger for intimacy get over you as well as your fear. A normal confident unbeliever (or street boys) will find it hard to masturbate, not because he is immune to it, but because he is confident enough to talk to some girls about his desire to have sex with them. Hey, I’m not telling to go there to have sex, but that’s the first reason for your masturbation. No? Then, what? You just woke up one morning and decided to masturbate?
Face the mirror.
Slap yourself. You’re lying to yourself and have been doing that for so long that you can’t even differentiate the truth from a lie.
3.


3.
Masturbation Will Get You To Hell?



Masturbation is not the one that will get you to hell. You will. When you refuse to acknowledge it as something that can be fought and something that is not yours, then you’re on your way to hell. Sin, the bible says, shall not have dominion over you; yet, it will fight you. Paul was writing in the book of Romans of how we have to fight the temptations and tribulations of our habits but Chapter 8 clearly introduced how all that matters for you is the mind.
Peter Ayo-Alabi was teaching in his message ‘Frequently (Un)Asked Question and he said you should continue confessing who you’re in God… Keep saying, ‘I am the righteousness of God’. There was the story of a smoker he used: the man kept repeating the phrase even when he was smoking until he didn’t have the desire any longer. Calm down, it will take time.


4.

Deliverance, Fasting and Prayer Will Help You Stop It?



Na lie… See, you will finish saying your prayer and in the next minute, you are back to the places you used to have it. If you waste your time, you will soon have to crawl back to the position to cry and beat up yourself for allowing the devil take charge. This is not a devil. This is another hunger you must beat down.
Do you fight being overweight by praying or do you get to that gym to fight the rubbish out of your body?


5. Church Activities Will Kill It



Are you whining me? What church activities do to you is to even excite you the more and make you look for something to calm your nerves. Church activities are good for you but not for fighting your habit.

So, what’s the next thing to do?
– Stay Tuned To Menvocate
-Talk to someone and tell them to keep asking you for progress.
– Keep repeating the phrases even when you’re getting yourself high
– Don’t give up in fighting the habit. It’s true that there are no rehab centres for masturbators but you can try to avoid those little things that trigger you.
This might seems generic at the end but they’re just formula that will work after you have taken the decision to get The Hell out of That Room and Fight The Damn Thing.
It’s not a devil. It’s another habit that must be fought as such and not as a demon. Just that, this habit takes a longer while to fight than the other.


http://menvocate.com/2019/06/03/5-christian-misconceptions-about-masturbation/
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by dyze(m): 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2019
Be determined to stop it and you will. Might seem hard but it is very achievable.
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 6:28pm On Jun 05, 2019
dyze:
sady
What?
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 6:31pm On Jun 05, 2019
dyze:
Be determined to stop it and you will. Might seem hard but it is very achievable.
. Yesooo
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by Lemmejoor(m): 6:52pm On Jun 05, 2019
Glad the bottom line is fighting the ill habit. However, there are few misconceptions, habit is no entity of its own. It is a device of the devil and so the fight is against supersonic forces aka principalities. Occupy your mind yes, get busy yes but while at it you should believe God to heal you.
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by LarryBee1k: 6:56pm On Jun 05, 2019
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 6:59pm On Jun 05, 2019
Lemmejoor:
Glad the bottom line is fighting the ill habit. However, there are few misconceptions, habit is no entity of its own. It is a device of the devil and so the fight is against supersonic forces aka principalities. Occupy your mind yes, get busy yes but while at it you should believe God to heal you.
Do you fight supersonic forces when dealing with addiction to social media
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 7:03pm On Jun 05, 2019
LarryBee1k:
Masturbation is healthy. Don't just over do it. All these over religious Nigerians will just be writing spiritual bullshiit everywhere. What they do is even worse. How can you believe in juju and call yourself a Christian? Is that not worse than masturbation?

Masturbation is better than fornication and health wise it's safer
I don't totally agree with you but it's truly better than fornication.

On the flip side though, masturbation seems like sex with numerous porn stars and Instagram models.
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by phelonrays: 7:53pm On Jun 05, 2019
na so you wan take stop the high-demand of VASELINE from our amiable brothers? haba grincheesy
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 8:00pm On Jun 05, 2019
phelonrays:
na so you wan take stop the high-demand of VASELINE from our amiable brothers? haba grincheesy
Baba, no be everybody too like to use Vaseline for life...
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by LarryBee1k: 8:00pm On Jun 05, 2019
menvocate:
I don't totally agree with you but it's truly better than fornication.

On the flip side though, masturbation seems like sex with numerous porn stars and Instagram models.

Religion aspect masturbation is bad, but fornication is bad too, health wise, masturbation is safer and healthier.
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 8:04pm On Jun 05, 2019
LarryBee1k:


Masturbation "seems" like sex with many pornstars? Who are we trying deceive? 10yo? That means imagining thinking about money means I'm stealing different people money.

Religion aspect masturbation is bad, but fornication is bad too, health wise, masturbation is safer and healthier.
Broooooooo....


I read a thread a while back about 10 advantages of masturbation. Then, this site listed 26 things people suffer. As much you find it beneficial, some people detest it and run from it lime wildfire.
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by Lemmejoor(m): 8:13pm On Jun 05, 2019
menvocate:
Do you fight supersonic forces when dealing with addiction to social media

I fight supersonic forces when asked crap question
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by LarryBee1k: 8:30pm On Jun 05, 2019
Re: 5 Christian Misconceptions About Masturbation by menvocate(m): 8:56pm On Jun 05, 2019
LarryBee1k:


26 things people suffer like spiritual problems and marine spirit. Okay bro
Lol.. Not spiritual at all.. I'm just saying as much you find it beneficial, some people fighting it. Everyone has the right to make decisions.

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