ubunja:
wtf?

My bad. Was referring to teens that actually enjoyed it but had to call it rape
..

Mariangeles:
By your miseducation

Calling a thief a thief doesn't mean I'm disrespecting the thief.

The thief disrespects himself by thieving.

ubunja:
Calling a thief a thief doesn't mean I'm disrespecting the thief.

The thief disrespects himself by thieving.

When you call all thieves because of a thief, that's the biggest disrespect ever .

No shame, when I was small, I was abused by my househelp, she was a bit in her adult I was like 5 or so, I still remember it but it has never affected me in anyway i know or can think of.

pcguru1:
No shame, when I was small, I was abused by my househelp, she was a bit in her adult I was like 5 or so, I still remember it but it has never affected me in anyway i know or can think of.

Well, this week I'll post the effects. I hope you don't have any of them.

menvocate:
Well, this week I'll post the effects. I hope you don't have any of them.

It's possible i might , since I dont know the effects at all.

pcguru1:


It's possible i might , since I dont know the effects at all.

Alright, I'll tag you..

Hmm

Same here when I was small, I remember my female househelp did stuff on me, but to be sincere I've never felt like a victim or any effect from it. I only remember it when I see topics like this. Cant even remember enough to say it felt like this, was kinda very young then. Just know it happened

pcguru1:
Same here when I was small, I remember my female househelp did stuff on me, but to be sincere I've never felt like a victim or any effect from it. I only remember it when I see topics like this. Cant even remember enough to say it felt like this, was kinda very young then. Just know it happened

you won't remember but you'll feel the effects

ubunja:
you won't remember but you'll feel the effects

Hmmm maybe cause I dont feel any different.

Budex40:


If we start talking about men's issues , society would shut us up. I see a future of simple and plain men who would go their own sweet way and only prefer to have Baby mamas

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You are right....only few us wants to marry

ubunja:
you won't remember but you'll feel the effects

True, possible I am already without even knowing it

pcguru1:


True, possible I am already without even knowing it

people in the first world usually talk to someone eg psychiatrists to help psychological scars to heal.

ubunja:
people in the first world usually talk to someone eg psychiatrists to help psychological scars to heal.

I actually went to one, but I'll be sincere am not broken or anything, I'd be much more at peace if i just left the country which will be soon. I dont believe in therapy like that, I just believe in Nigerian frustration

pcguru1:


I actually went to one, but I'll be sincere am not broken or anything, I'd be much more at peace if i just left the country which will be soon. I dont believe in therapy like that, I just believe in Nigerian frustration

lol I hear you

Encourage boys to come out...Even those times that aunty held your willy and did "ssssssssssssiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii" so that piss can come out, trust me it was rape....one of the narrative for men is that they shouldn't lap children or call them jokingly my wife....so all those times you were lapped by older females and called my husband...pls come forth with an emotional story cos it was attempted rape...A father who flogged an erring daugther on the bum is a pervert....so if an elder lady even gave u "abara"...bum bum slap...trust me it was assault...

Did an older lady ever told u to help her zip her blouse, scratch her back or massage a painful joint as a boy...trust me it was a rape attempt...speak out...this narrative flies for the girlchild it should fly for the boychild too

Small digression sha...the double standard is too much...women have bn twerking and dancing seductively half unclad since the start of this modern era yet men dont whine...One erratic musician recently released a dance "soapy" that is a clear indication of a man performing a sexual act and it was termed along the sexually inappropriate line

Most women expect men to be cool with a swarm of nude or half unclad women moving round town...How many of them will be cool if men also decide to be walking round town with their genitals exposed the way the women folk does

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander...men/boys can be abused too

pcguru1:


I actually went to one, but I'll be sincere am not broken or anything, I'd be much more at peace if i just left the country which will be soon. I dont believe in therapy like that, I just believe in Nigerian frustration

Ah!

Who will build the Nigeria of our dreams?

the soapy dance is becoming a wave let just stop talking about it, it will die if it is not good, see this young boy dance it so well then even the creator

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7ScVTtExTY

I don't see any women here, hmm. Men are victimised but the world just see it as nothing.
That's why I don't give a Bleep about female rape victims, maybe I'll start caring when the world start caring about men too.
Women are worse than scum

Damn that shit!
It was consensual and I enjoyed it
Periodt.