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I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by MyOleSolksjaer: 2:23pm On Jun 07, 2019
Hello People,

I am in a confused state on an issue i am trying to tackle. I had unprotected sex with a lady on the 27th July 2018. Immediately after the sex, i gave her postinor to take before dropping her off. She called me some days later to inform me that the postinor did not work and I should send money for her to go do abortion. This call came in on the 1st of August 2018 i believe. That very day I did the transfer to her so she can evacuate the pregnancy. On the 10th of August, she called me saying that the abortion did not work due to her body being resistant to abortion. I replied her saying she is a liar and she is out to extort money from me. According to her, she claimed that she did the test on the 8th of August 2018 of which she sent the result to me. NB: I was not present when she did the test.

Sequel to the call, I got all manner of threats that if i don't support her, she will report me to my Pastor. I then went ahead to block her and cut all contact because I felt she was out to extort money from me. She eventually gave up and never contacted me again in her life. Some time this year in May, I decided to contact her again to find out how she was doing and she replied me but never told me about the pregnancy and the babies. Some days after, she contacted me to hook up and I told her I was out of town for my wedding introduction. In response to what I told her, she sent a picture to me of two babies saying that they belong to me and she had them on the 7th of April 2019. I said ok! Then I asked her about the gender of the babes, and she told me that one was a boy and the other a girl.

To cut the story short, things got heated between the babe and i again. I insisted that the babies are not mine knowing the kind of loose girl she is. I got all manner of threats that if i don't send money that she will broadcast this issue to the media. I notified my sister who I live with about my predicament because I didn't want to take a violent approach. My sister went on to contact her and asked for the gender of which she told my elder sister that they are both girls. My sister insisted on a DNA to be sure of who the father is of which she declined. I have been instructed not to contact her again until the DNA is done.

From what i Understand about pregnancy, I hear it takes 14 days for a woman to conceive and from all indication, 27th July 2018 to 8th August 2018 is not up to 14 days. Please help a brother out my people, i have insisted on DNA but she refused to do. Wetin I go do? I am under tension.
Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by Rosay15(f): 2:33pm On Jun 07, 2019
If she is saying no to DNA then forget about it, you ain’t the father cus if truly she is sure of what’s saying then DNA won’t be issue..
You can still try and persuade her and if she insist then God see say you try.
Just let her be.

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Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by MyOleSolksjaer: 2:40pm On Jun 07, 2019
My sister even asked for her address to come see the babies.

Do you know that she refused to send her address but all she was sending was her bank details.

She even stated that if we want to see the babies, that we can meet up in a public place.
Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by BLUEJAYY: 2:45pm On Jun 07, 2019
Reminds me of all those emergency contraception stuff and all. smiley

Isn't Postinor (levonogestrel) supposed to be taken twice? like one dose immediately after and the next 12 hours after?

Can't remember the calculations for EDD but I guess the hCG can be detected in urine 7-10 days post-ovulation.

Fvck all that, just go do a paternity test.
Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by Headlesschicken(m): 3:09pm On Jun 07, 2019
grin grin Hehehe bro,Hope yuh not dating Amaka my Ex,cos that b!tch tried that sh!t wiv me,n!gga d b!tch x just extorting u,tell her to give birth n not to worry about d abortion anymore that u would strangle d baby once born...

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Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by Deepfeel(m): 3:09pm On Jun 07, 2019
I believe she was already pregnant before she had sex with you, she did it purposely, shine your eyes man

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Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by yomi007k(m): 3:17pm On Jun 07, 2019
Deepfeel:
I believe she was already pregnant before she had sex with you, she did it purposely, shine your eyes man

I agree.
Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jun 07, 2019
Lolzz
Re: I Need A Doctors Advice On This Matter by Opus85(m): 7:37pm On Jun 07, 2019
Bros you are not a kid anymore, how can someone be trying to extort money from your and you are busy asking questions.

Belle no be your own. Pikin no be your own.

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