1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cooking, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

All this for the wives. What of the husbands

adontcare:
All this for the wives. What of the husbands

You should open a thread for that...

your last point, are atheists always divorced or what?

Every responsibility in marriage is put on the wife. Women really try for this country.

derrydinny:
your last point, are atheists always divorced or what?

Nope..

megareal:
Every responsibility in marriage is put on the wife. Women really try for this country.

Stop what ur trying to start.. stick to the topic

dairykidd:


You should open a thread for that...

Jeezoz

derrydinny:
your last point, are atheists always divorced or what?

good question bro!

dairykidd:

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cooking, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

Nice write up � but we have a very big problem because they ain't loyal

African women dey suffer o ....if Nigerian men worth am e for make sense balance. A woman will posses all these qualities yet Nigerian men will cheat on her with reckless abandon.....hisssed Nigerian men will make many women end up in hell fire because it takes the grace of God to be married to Nigerian man and still remain sane.

dairykidd:

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cooking, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

Wonderful

Them take marriage swear for the men on this forum ni? Always whining about relationship and marriage. Na wah o.
It's like the truth is finally being revealed about who marriage benefits more....

..

yeyeosoronga:
Them take marriage swear for the men on this forum ni? Always whining about relationship and marriage. Na wah o.
It's like the truth is finally being revealed about who marriage benefits more....

Shut up

I like onions oh, I am one of the onion lovers, I don't want a problem with that item.

I saw onions in the write up.

yeyeosoronga:


It's like you want to be unfortunate in life?
You want those that own you to mourn over you ba? You must be insane.
If you ever quote me again, the ground will be higher than you.
Eleribu

Your generation... Look at this smelling Yoruba bastard. You that's already dead.. u are dead and powerless and u will burn to death & die slow if u even entertain any evil thoughts towards me u monkey. You don't come to my thread and post rubbish when u aren't worth spit. Don't go and break the generational curse on ur head be frolicking with them.. Rotten bastard

nairalandposter:
I like onions oh, I am one of the onion lovers, I don't want a problem with that item.

I saw onions in the write up.

Lolz i like to eat onions very well but not sleeping with it some women will be smelling all sorts of things in bed and the husband go even think say na market him dey forgetting say na him bedroom. We should pay attention to things like how we smell in and out of the bedroom... some grown adults don't know the use of body spray/ deodorant. Some very very ignorant ones say its for people with smell

We go through the day's work in harsh weather conditions, we sweat come in contact with different things and people, naturally washing well and applying deodorants/sprays help protect from all that by keeping u in check.

dairykidd:

Your generation... Look at this smelling Yoruba bastard. You that's already dead.. u are dead and powerless and u will burn to death & die slow if u even entertain any evil thoughts towards me u monkey. You don't come to my thread and post rubbish when u aren't worth spit. Don't go and break the generational curse on ur head be frolicking with them.. Rotten bastard

You're useless to yourself and generation already. A walking corpse

yeyeosoronga:


You're useless to yourself and generation already. A walking corpse

Eat shiit & die

yeyeosoronga:

It's like you want to be unfortunate in life? You want those that own you to mourn over you ba? You must be insane. If you ever quote me again, the ground will be higher than you. Eleribu

Caught in the moment!!!!

dairykidd:

Eat shiit & die

I know your forefathers thrived on eating shit. I'm not surprised that's your regular. Omo irankiran

adontcare:
All this for the wives. What of the husbands

work on wives own and leave husband own for men.
we will ask someone to create a thread once we need it

derrydinny:
your last point, are atheists always divorced or what?

work on the point that matters to you

yeyeosoronga:


I know your forefathers thrived on eating shit. I'm not surprised that's your regular. Omo irankiran

Get off my thread before i squeeze the soul out of ur miserable life

dairykidd:

Get off my thread before i squeeze the soul out of ur miserable life

E-diot...
Elenu pelebe.
Get your foreforefathers to get me off the thread.

yeyeosoronga:


E-diot...
Elenu pelebe.
Get your foreforefathers to get me off the thread.

Can't u just give urself some respect for once and kindly drop off this thread or better still drop dead like him?
I wouldn't give u anymore attention.. u have had enough already

adontcare:
All this for the wives. What of the husbands

When op no be gay

Starz825:

When op no be gay

The matter tire me bro...

dairykidd:

The matter tire me bro...

Give similar advice to husbands. Is that difficult?

dairykidd:

Can't u just give urself some respect for once and kindly drop off this thread or better still drop dead like him?
I wouldn't give u anymore attention.. u have had enough already

Your existence is useless to self and to the community. Nobody would miss your demise.
Do the world a favor..