hello nairalanders, sorry for disturbing y'all with this not so important problem tho it's beginning to bother me.


seriously, i don't know what i've done to these gals but If their boyfriends cheats or leaves them, they'll say i Influenced him. they always think i'm a very bad guy/womainizer, i don't why and i don't even look it.


Ironically, I even preach to their bfs about how they shouldn't cheat/ leave their gal friends and try as much as possible to at least marry them. And I even try to become close friends with their babes and I call them to check up on them often to show how much i even like em for my niggas..where the distrust is coming from, I don't know...

now I'm not supposed to be bothered about this but it's happening for the fourth time now my guy just had an issue with his gal and she said the same about me..."I know that it was equity that gave you another girl and said you should leave me"

ladies have you ever felt this towards your bf's friend? any solution? or guys have you ever been in such situation before? cos I don't like people seeing me in a very bad light...thanks

You obviously give them a reason to keep complaining about the same thing...

OP. First of all i must aveu that you made me laugh. Secondly, i don't like boys /men who plays around their friends girl friends or wives irrespective of whether your intentions are good or not. Such men are regarded by the society as not only a liar but also a pus#y.Thirdly, for the fact that women are the most crafty creatures on earth they see things we men don't see that's why sometimes i wonder if they have a third eye.You said you sometimes called to show them how much you even like them for your Nigg.s,.@OP, I must tell you the truth, these girls don't see you as a womaniser, rather, they see you as a TATAFO WITHOUT WIRE. Man up man..

kenzosky:
OP. First of all i must aveu that you made me laugh. Secondly, i don't like boys /men who plays around their friends girl friends or wives irrespective of whether your intentions are good or not. Such men are regarded by the society as not only a liar but also a pus#y.Thirdly, for the fact that women are the most crafty creatures on earth they see things we men don't see that's why sometimes i wonder if they have a third eye.You said you sometimes called to show them how much you even like them for your Nigg.s,.@OP, I must tell you the truth, these girls don't see you as a womaniser, rather, they see you as a TATAFO WITHOUT WIRE. Man up man..

nigga seriously play around? read up..I can't call a friends wife ....but gal friend? com'on there's no issue there. it's not like I call them always..and how do you mean by tatafo our conversation doesn't go beyond 'how are you' ...the third eye you're accosting to them should be to me...let me stop here

Mind Your Business. why are checking on them like you're their father..

Equity15:
nigga seriously play around? read up..I can't call a friends wife ....but gal friend? com'on there's no issue there. it's not like I call them always..and how do you mean by tatafo our conversation doesn't go beyond 'how are you' ...the third eye you're accosting to them should be to me...let me stop here

No, don't stop, continue. Issues are everywhere and you said there's no issue, and for the TATAFO. What i meant is TURNCOAT. Simple advise, please concentrate on yourself. Have a nice day.