there is this lady i have been seeing for sometime now, we've been dating for close to 8 months. Just of recent i recent, i noticed her demands for money is increasing. i am this kind of person who sees spending on a lady too oftens as waste of money and resouerces since we are not married.
however, despite her increase in demand for money and my beliefs, i still kept on honouring her request.

Long story short, i notice whenever she makes this request, i wont feel okkay until i give her, its is like my mind is compelling me to, i dont rest until i send her the money. Sometimes i wake up very early in the morning, thinking of how to send her the money.

Right now im questioning myself if im under a spell, and if i am how do i break free from it.
before im saying this, trust me, i have noticed abnoromalities in my spending routine towards her.
i give my mother money at least two to three times in a month, now i barely think of giving her anything, all i think of is satisfying her at any cost.
Please help and advice me

you are good for dustbin... so you are addicted to giving her money now Ba...
Kwantinue

Patluter:
there is this lady i have been seeing for sometime now, we've been dating for close to 8 months. Just of recent i recent, i noticed her demands for money is increasing. i am this kind of person who sees spending on a lady too oftens as waste of money and resouerces since we are not married.
however, despite her increase in demand for money and my beliefs, i still kept on honouring her request.

Long story short, i notice whenever she makes this request, i wont feel okkay until i give her, its is like my mind is compelling me to, i dont rest until i send her the money. Sometimes i wake up very early in the morning, thinking of how to send her the money.

Right now im questioning myself if im under a spell, and if i am how do i break free from it.
before im saying this, trust me, i have noticed abnoromalities in my spending routine towards her.
i give my mother money at least two to three times in a month, now i barely think of giving her anything, all i think of is satisfying her at any cost.
Please help and advice me

For you to acknowledge means you are not under a spell. So my advice is Keep sending her money whenever she asks. Don’t give your mother, just her only.

At some point you will naturally stop. I don’t know when, maybe someday.

Her prayers are working. You are, for now, a certified maga.

Your guardian angel, each time you send the money

My good friend trust me on this you are okay........it just love (infatuation) and insecurity that is affecting you and you worry too much if the said Lady truly bewitched you, sense no go even reason you, for now nothing do you till then and try writing down your will since you fear your will seems threated.

Too much love for her done becloud your sense of caring for others. If she jazz you, you no go reason am at all. Think about it this way, If she complain of another issue aside from money to you, you will also be thinking about that complain even after you believe you have solved. You just want to make sure she is okay at every time. Infact, you must have or already dissatisfying yourself just to please her. Now that's bad. Small small na him make you dey do am so that incase the relationship no work out. You won't be lose much based on your investment in the relationship. Go and read ubunja miseducation series. Here is a link to one.

https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl

She don put something for Toto for you

bro na wa o! na must to give her money neh? all the gals wen I been dayey,walahi no one I spend pass #2500 for. unto spending o! and I d get punna wella back den free. only my wife I fit spend for without looking back.

this is what happens when men allow their diks to be in control


imagine you're not at rest until you send her money


worst is you're not the only one hitting it

Same here.
I met this babe 5 days ago. I have subscribed for her data. So far spent 4k just within these few days.

But I bleeped her hard twice as a sharp guy

Now na to run from her.

It's possible you're under a spell or in love with her deeply..

Nothing is for sure

Mumu.

Most guys initiate relationships on a wrong foot, it's a bad thing or I should call it weakness to not be brave to say no to a woman even if she's your wife, it is unmanly

Make God save us from bad women.
They are just too many and they are everywhere, even right here in nairaland

Few yrs back when I was still faithful in Christianity, my pastor would always say, "a shut mouth is a shut destiny". OP! So you can't pray ur way out or what?

Lol, stop having x"x that's what's messing up your brain

My guys truth be told u 're under a spell am asuring u that if u don't have u will still go and borrow u better break that spell ....

hikiki:
bro na wa o! na must to give her money neh? all the gals wen I been dayey,walahi no one I spend pass #2500 for. unto spending o! and I d get punna wella back den free. only my wife I fit spend for without looking back.

baddest sharp Guy

Olawrites:
Same here.
I met this babe 5 days ago. I have subscribed for her data. So far spent 4k just within these few days.

But I bleeped her hard twice as a sharp guy

Now na to run from her.

Guys , can be stupid at times sha.“I bleeped her hard”, “I banged her hard ” . At the end of the day, na dem dey enjoy pass. Abi u never hear dem even say, “ harder baby...” So, na guys cross sha to dey please woman both with our money and our precious dicks, still we will be thinking we are smart, while they are enjoying double blessings.

So far all arrows points to the fact that you are a mumu...