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well,it depends on antecedents before that day you reacted too much.if she have such tendencies of consistent offences, that is to say,am not the one fuelling such behaviors in her,I will leave her

if your actions at home are the reasons she suddenly have to report you,bro will advice you change,ask for forgiveness and live right,going forward.

concerning your(you both's children)referring them as 'her children' isnt cool.They are yours,notwithstanding the issue at hand.Taking a leave from home, temporarily, can save some troubles, but you must ensure you send in resources for homes upkeeps.
she will look for you,either for you to apologize, or for her to apologize or on the way forward of your marital journey(separation or divorce) so,decide,but talk with elders first