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null by EngrMarve(m): 10:17pm On Jul 16, 2019
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Re: null by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jul 16, 2019
you are the mvp

pls no advice for you, you have good outward emotional control even though you suffer inside..good stuff

you look like the guy that can pick up his pieces and move on in life..keep it up.

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Re: null by bastardmod: 10:25pm On Jul 16, 2019
Re: null by iamjahmeyou(m): 10:28pm On Jul 16, 2019
You are stronger than Buhari oh. it is your type we need for Nigeria security solution now because you are emotionalless

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Re: null by Thinkdiffway: 10:30pm On Jul 16, 2019
From all you wrote, you never mention you met a girl you love, when you find a girl you love and she suddenly break up with you Mehn you will come and write again.

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Re: null by Ernerstdavid55(m): 10:33pm On Jul 16, 2019
If I hear well baba u never fall in love. if u do dat ps3 she bought for u na u for be the one to buy har ps9 self.ur still enjoying ur life now bcus u never de feel lonely as a complete man.if u really need a woman my brother u will see how fast ur will blind bcus of woman
Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 10:35pm On Jul 16, 2019
Thinkdiffway:
From all you wrote, you never mention you met a girl you love, when you find a girl you love and she suddenly break up with you Mehn you will come and write again.

sir, I love these girls.
I didn't mention some cases though. But doesn't mean I have not fallen deep in love with a girl.
Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 10:38pm On Jul 16, 2019
Ernerstdavid55:
If I hear well baba u never fall in love if u do dat ps3 she bought for u na u for be the one to buy har ps9 self

sir. I bought her something 6 times more expensive than that PS3.
The PS3 was a birthday gift. She bought it after my other Ps3 had power problem.
Re: null by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:40pm On Jul 16, 2019
EngrMarve:


sir, I love these girls.
I didn't mention some cases though. But doesn't mean I have not fallen deep in love with a girl.


Lol you think you love them but you don't, when your heart has been broken by a lady you deeply loved, quote me when you open a thread.

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Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 10:42pm On Jul 16, 2019
lilwetdick:
you are the mvp

pls no advice for you, you have good outward emotional control even though you suffer inside..good stuff

you look like the guy that can pick up his pieces and move on in life..keep it up.
iamjahmeyou:
You are stronger than Buhari oh. it is your type we need for Nigeria security solution now because you are emotionalless

iamjahmeyou:
You are stronger than Buhari oh. it is your type we need for Nigeria security solution now because you are emotionalless
iamjahmeyou:
You are stronger than Buhari oh. it is your type we need for Nigeria security solution now because you are emotionalless

What am I supposed to say?
Re: null by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 16, 2019
people here are trying hard to make the op feel guilty saying things like he didnt love the girls in his life or he is emotionless, just because he has learnt to control is outward emotions doesnt mean he does not suffer.

not everyone is dramatic when they break up with a women

can people accept that we are build differently

some men will go broke and build up again while another will go broke and commit suicide or stay broke forever.

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Re: null by internationalman(m): 10:54pm On Jul 16, 2019
My girl told me she wanted to break up with me and my reaction was really! OK if that's what you want

She's been blaming and accusing me of taking her for a ride that I didn't really loved her bla bla bla. If I did I would have called several times to ask why she did it and beg her not to break up with me.

My people did I do anything wrong?

My point is, I'm just like that even though I love this girl like mad. As a matter of fact I barely slept that night..

But you won't see or notice me depressed while processing the heart break..

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Re: null by Thinkdiffway: 11:01pm On Jul 16, 2019
Everybody get sad when they go broke, to rise up or to stay low is another thing entirely.

lilwetdick:
people here are trying hard to make the op feel guilty saying things like he didnt love the girls in his life or he is emotionless, just because he has learnt to control is outward emotions doesnt mean he does not suffer.

not everyone is dramatic when they break up with a women

can people accept that we are build differently

some men will go broke and build up again while another will go broke and commit suicide or stay broke forever.
Re: null by donbachi(m): 11:02pm On Jul 16, 2019
You loved her to the moon,she broke up with you and sun did not beat you..guy,you're a distinguished liar.
Re: null by funshint(m): 11:03pm On Jul 16, 2019
OP don't worry u never jam something.
Re: null by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jul 16, 2019
Thinkdiffway:
Everybody get sad when they go broke, to rise up or to stay low is another thing entirely.

when i mean getting broke i dont mean the normal brokeness, i meant creating wealth through business and losing it all

you need a good bit of emotional balance to rise up after going financially broke, most people dont rise up
Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 11:19pm On Jul 16, 2019
people are getting me wrong here.
Re: null by Junkie1: 11:29pm On Jul 16, 2019
YOU ARE A REAL G BRO KEEP IT UP MAN YOU'LL LIVE LONGER WHEN YOU DON'T SHIT LIKE THAT DON'T GET TO YOU
Re: null by frankkydee(m): 11:40pm On Jul 16, 2019
EngrMarve:
Please don't mind my errors.
Let me begin with this, sometime in 2009 a girl who was my age asked be to date her, It wasn't all I wanted at first but she got my heart, I loved her to the moon, we were together for about a year, then she brokeup with me, I was supposed to feel depressed but I noticed I only felt bad for few minutes and that was it.
Now let's assume that I didn't feel it that much because I didn't call for the relationship.

3 years later I met a girl I liked, i shot my shots and it took her days before she accepted me, we were together for a long time until she called me one day to comfess that she cheated on me, I replied her with OK. (note: I don't cheat)
weeks later she broke up with me because she wasn't expecting that response. Also stating that I Probably have a negative plan to unleash.

Fast forward to 2017. I got into a relationship which I thought she is the girl for me, I wanted to marry her. She would do all kind of thing to make me feel jealous but to no avail.
So one afternoon she told me she has found another guy who she loves, this time I felt bad not because she has found someone else but because she has to do it on phone.
The bae came to my house later that evening only to find me playing PS3 soccer with my guys. (and na she buy the PS3). She grew annoyed and walked away.
My guys forced me to run after her, which I did as she gave me a hot slap.
Baba I walked back to continue my game with red eyes.

Now, what got me thinking is the way my guys react when their bae breakup with them is not the way I do.
Is this sort of Immune? Is there anyone who is like this too?
I hadly feel bad when it comes to relationship issues.
Is there any advice?

Note: I have seen hell before these times.












Why you feel that way is because you are not really ready for relationship,love, marriage and commitments. Because if you are fully ready, when someone you really want to settle down with breaks your heart ehn, you won't be here saying all of those things
Re: null by owowa145(m): 12:49am On Jul 17, 2019
lilwetdick:
people here are trying hard to make the op feel guilty saying things like he didnt love the girls in his life or he is emotionless, just because he has learnt to control is outward emotions doesnt mean he does not suffer.

not everyone is dramatic when they break up with a women

can people accept that we are build differently

some men will go broke and build up again while another will go broke and commit suicide or stay broke forever.
OP na man like me. I go just lockup, move on with no drama.
Re: null by owowa145(m): 12:57am On Jul 17, 2019
frankkydee:













Why you feel that way is because you are not really ready for relationship,love, marriage and commitments. Because if you are fully ready, when someone you really want to settle down with breaks your heart ehn, you won't be here saying all of those things
Baba, we are all programmed differently. A girl i profess relationship (possible marriage) to weeks back. As she see sey omo boy never too dey financially galant, girl only picks call but dont call. Posted "he changed my identity" caption with a ring on d hand. I just commented congrats, girl replied with Huh! I left it blank and moved on to my daily activities like notin happened. A friend said i should call her and pet her to know what's on her mind. I just said I've heard. When there are better issues of success on d mind, na woman i go come dey broken of. I mute her fada from my status timeline sharply. Dont want 2 know what's going on in her life. FYI, i do really got feelings for her, but ain't a do or die affair.

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Re: null by shege45: 6:02am On Jul 17, 2019
EngrMarve:
people are getting me wrong here.
bro i wish i can be like you. You don’t know that what u have is a gift from God

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Re: null by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:32am On Jul 17, 2019
EngrMarve:
Please don't mind my errors.
Let me begin with this, sometime in 2009 a girl who was my age asked be to date her, It wasn't all I wanted at first but she got my heart, I loved her to the moon, we were together for about a year, then she brokeup with me, I was supposed to feel depressed but I noticed I only felt bad for few minutes and that was it.
Now let's assume that I didn't feel it that much because I didn't call for the relationship.

3 years later I met a girl I liked, i shot my shots and it took her days before she accepted me, we were together for a long time until she called me one day to comfess that she cheated on me, I replied her with OK. (note: I don't cheat)
weeks later she broke up with me because she wasn't expecting that response. Also stating that I Probably have a negative plan to unleash.

Fast forward to 2017. I got into a relationship which I thought she is the girl for me, I wanted to marry her. She would do all kind of thing to make me feel jealous but to no avail.
So one afternoon she told me she has found another guy who she loves, this time I felt bad not because she has found someone else but because she has to do it on phone.
The bae came to my house later that evening only to find me playing PS3 soccer with my guys. (and na she buy the PS3). She grew annoyed and walked away.
My guys forced me to run after her, which I did as she gave me a hot slap.
Baba I walked back to continue my game with red eyes.

Now, what got me thinking is the way my guys react when their bae breakup with them is not the way I do.
Is this sort of Immune? Is there anyone who is like this too?
I hadly feel bad when it comes to relationship issues.
Is there any advice?

Note: I have seen hell before these times.
Lol... I actually think nothing is wrong with you...

@the bolded looks like what someone like me would do cheesygrin
Re: null by Nobody: 6:58am On Jul 17, 2019
EngrMarve:
Please don't mind my errors.
Let me begin with this, sometime in 2009 a girl who was my age asked be to date her, It wasn't all I wanted at first but she got my heart, I loved her to the moon, we were together for about a year, then she brokeup with me, I was supposed to feel depressed but I noticed I only felt bad for few minutes and that was it.
Now let's assume that I didn't feel it that much because I didn't call for the relationship.

3 years later I met a girl I liked, i shot my shots and it took her days before she accepted me, we were together for a long time until she called me one day to comfess that she cheated on me, I replied her with OK. (note: I don't cheat)
weeks later she broke up with me because she wasn't expecting that response. Also stating that I Probably have a negative plan to unleash.

Fast forward to 2017. I got into a relationship which I thought she is the girl for me, I wanted to marry her. She would do all kind of thing to make me feel jealous but to no avail.
So one afternoon she told me she has found another guy who she loves, this time I felt bad not because she has found someone else but because she has to do it on phone.
The bae came to my house later that evening only to find me playing PS3 soccer with my guys. (and na she buy the PS3). She grew annoyed and walked away.
My guys forced me to run after her, which I did as she gave me a hot slap.
Baba I walked back to continue my game with red eyes.

Now, what got me thinking is the way my guys react when their bae breakup with them is not the way I do.
Is this sort of Immune? Is there anyone who is like this too?
I hadly feel bad when it comes to relationship issues.
Is there any advice?

Note: I have seen hell before these times.

Some dont react because they grew up under harsh condition so heartbreak is nothing, it's like someone that has been poor all his life and suffering, later hits money and one babe breaks up with him, he will just see it as a setback and move on, people who haven't gone through much will feel emotionally wrecked.

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Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 7:05am On Jul 17, 2019
frankkydee:













Why you feel that way is because you are not really ready for relationship,love, marriage and commitments. Because if you are fully ready, when someone you really want to settle down with breaks your heart ehn, you won't be here saying all of those things
Please how else am i supposed to fall in love or love the girl I want to marry?
I guess you don't understand all these sir.
Why do you think I have never been in love?
Or are you trying to make me feel guilty for not going into depression or something, or should I force depression on myself when such a thing happens?
This is why I asked for advice not a condemnation.

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Re: null by EngrMarve(m): 7:09am On Jul 17, 2019
pcguru1:


Some dont react because they grew up under harsh condition so heartbreak is nothing, it's like someone that has been poor all his life and suffering, later hits money and one babe breaks up with him, he will just see it as a setback and move on, people who haven't gone through much will feel emotionally wrecked.
Thank you sir, I think this is it
Re: null by Portgas(m): 7:09am On Jul 17, 2019
Man..I'm exactly like you...I can't even feel "love" as much as my friends who do anything for their girls...I e been called "heart of ice" for this very reason...I always wonder if there is anyone out there like me, alas...I've found one...tiring gbosa for you jare,, I cannot come and go and kee maself
Re: null by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 17, 2019
EngrMarve:

Thank you sir, I think this is it

I'm like that too, my last breakup, I didn't react , wetin concern me ? but I was pained though, because I bought KFC for her and she broke up with me within the next minutes if too say I get idea I for chop that KFC back then
Re: null by frankkydee(m): 8:39am On Jul 17, 2019
EngrMarve:

Please how else am i supposed to fall in love or love the girl I want to marry?
I guess you don't understand all these sir.
Why do you think I have never been in love?
Or are you trying to make me feel guilty for not going into depression or something, or should I force depression on myself when such a thing happens?
This is why I asked for advice not a condemnation.











Am not condemning you just state the reason you are not feeling heartbroken, its not necessary for one to go into depression after been heartbroken. No vex!
Re: null by frankkydee(m): 8:42am On Jul 17, 2019
pcguru1:


I'm like that too, my last breakup, I didn't react , wetin concern me ? but I was pained though, because I bought KFC for her and she broke up with me within the next minutes if too say I get idea I for chop that KFC back then












At least you felt something even na for the KFC(little investment) wey you buy for the girl grin
Re: null by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 17, 2019
frankkydee:


Back then, I was hustling like mad so the thing pain me well I for use am for beer parlour












At least you felt something even na for the KFC(little investment) wey you buy for the girl grin
Re: null by nuggarito: 12:55pm On Jul 17, 2019
You are probably a fine boy and knows the benefits that's why you acting this way.
I just pray you no jam Wetin pass you.

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