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Orj by Tantaliteweb: 6:20am On Jul 24, 2019
Uriru
Re: Orj by lukui: 6:25am On Jul 24, 2019
she doesn't have phone and you want to buy for her abii??

when she blocks your calls after buying the phone for her, your brains will restore to factory settings!!!!!

my advice for you is to think with your brains and not with the thing between your legs!!!! and most online chats are not usually real ask for a face to face with her, do you know if she is crippled? or hunch backed?

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Re: Orj by swaqq(m): 6:26am On Jul 24, 2019
It’s might not be a scam. But when buying the phone , make sure you go to the market together and let your name be on the receipt.

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Re: Orj by eezeribe(m): 6:26am On Jul 24, 2019
OK
Re: Orj by mikejj(m): 6:29am On Jul 24, 2019
well if you have the fund and you know it won't affect you go ahead and get her a phone .so even if it turns out to be scam it won't move you.. since you live in the same city try and see her face to face.... my thoughts for now.

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Re: Orj by Kendumazy(m): 6:31am On Jul 24, 2019
It's a scam. A planned one.

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Re: Orj by Venusman(m): 6:34am On Jul 24, 2019
How old is the girl that's still attends lesson?


Are you sure you want serious relationship or you're just lonely?

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Re: Orj by Tantaliteweb: 6:39am On Jul 24, 2019
Venusman:
How old is the girl that's still attends lesson?


Are you sure you want serious relationship or you're just lonely?
okay I am lonely. More please
Re: Orj by Samyj247: 6:39am On Jul 24, 2019
u b mumu. na big scam. she is not in love with you...just using your brain. you better get sense now. I get one friend like that too...na so so lie lie so you go send am money. na maga you be if you buy that phone.

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Re: Orj by Nobody: 6:45am On Jul 24, 2019
I can't just stop laughing when I was reading through. I believe the op is a very young man. go and meet your elder brothers, to sit you down on how to deal with ladies. perhaps you can channel that energy to your study

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Re: Orj by Whois(m): 6:46am On Jul 24, 2019
FIRST BILLING,OP, IT IS BEST LOOK FOR A NEW GIRL.
Re: Orj by Nobody: 6:50am On Jul 24, 2019
Tantaliteweb:

Immidiately she called me back and it was her mummy. The next thing, her mom was so angry. She first asked me , Are you _______ friend? I said yes , She said I should stop disturbing her phone. If I want to be calling ________ I should buy pHone for her . She expressed it so angryly . She said she would travel on Thursday. And she would be spending two weeks on the travel. I should buy phone for her. If I want to keep talking to her. That she wanna travel with her phone
|Laughing in Swahil|.

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Re: Orj by dayleke: 6:51am On Jul 24, 2019
Sorry to ask o but how old are you na?

Are you also a "Tokunbo'? dat has not been living in Naija since?

You no get friends that are streetwise even if u no sabi?

I can smell d scam all d way over here.

Which kain mother will be telling her underage daughter's suitor to buy fone for her?

I said "underage" cos u said she dey go lesson.
Ask where she dey do lesson and go meet her there for "face discussion" na.
Re: Orj by Nobody: 6:51am On Jul 24, 2019
After buying phone for her... you will start buying her food stuff bc the mother will stop giving her food
When she sick the mother will call you
when she cough the mother will call you
if perhaps she met a rich guy the mother will
tell you to stop calling her.
That time you will come back here to show pity face
and disturb us.

Ur song is Japa by Naira Marley
Pls buy the Album

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Re: Orj by rottennaija(m): 7:15am On Jul 24, 2019
If she is - 18 (how old are you, you didn't mention), then you should know that child sexual abuse is a crime. If you're of the age where you can wait for her, You can buy her the phone. It can also be a test for both of you, confirm your suspicion or trust.

However, you can get her a little phone that can chat, Facebook and of course call but don't cost so much and see how it goes. It would also help you know if she appreciate gift.
Re: Orj by thesicilian: 7:22am On Jul 24, 2019
Tantaliteweb:
Good morning Nairalanders,
.
Please I need an advice on this matter. You can insult o but let your insult be base on the matter. I am so bothered right now. Note any where you see this punctuation mark _______ Know that I wanted to mention her name there but I withheld it . And please focus on this format and pick out an idea that I might use to catch it if it is should be a scam. Pardon my English.
.
I met a girl online not up to one month , base on say I am looking for a serious relationship for long . Deu to how we chatted, I fell in love with her and she did too. Letter I wanted to date her and she accepted. We have been talking both on phone. She always complain about her mom taking the phone and she told me it is her mom's own .
.

There was a day I called her, I was discussing with her on the middle of the discussion, she answered yes Mom and she ended the call.
.
Immidiately she called me back and it was her mummy. The next thing, her mom was so angry. She first asked me , Are you _______ friend? I said yes , She said I should stop disturbing her phone. If I want to be calling ________ I should buy pHone for her . She expressed it so angryly . She said she would travel on Thursday. And she would be spending two weeks on the travel. I should buy phone for her. If I want to keep talking to her. That she wanna travel with her phone.
.
I said okay ma. And she ended the call. Minutes later the girl called me back and was apologizing. I should not mind her mom, almost ready to cry self . She even left the cooking she was cooking. she said would buy phone for herself. And she started complaining how her mummy always aggressive on her.
.
Next she started sending countless of Text messages apologizing. She couldn't sleep that night according to her . After that night everything changed. She no longer flash or call. I learnt her mom collected the phone from her. Yesterday I called all through but her mom was the one picking she said that _____went to lesson and would come back around 8pm .
.
That same yesterday, my girlfriend ,according to her she used her friend's phone to chat me me up . she sent me a message on FB saying I should stop calling until she gets her self a new phone. That last night her mum was bla bla bla hmmmmmm .
.
Note she haven't said I should buy pHone for her o . It was only her mom that said that. Now I have started considering buying her phone. But I am still afraid, is this going to be a scam Las Las .
.
Please I need your advice. Note we have not met fave to face . But we live in the same city shall according to her. And she is under 18-. But I love her so much. According to her pics and how far our chats and discussions . And Note again 'She have been refusing video call' but I was shocked when I missed one yesterday. Though I called her back, she refused to pick it. And she have refused to pick any video call since then.

Don't buy the phone please, whether you can afford it or not. It smells so badly like a scam. Meet with the girl one on one, talk to her and gauge her genuineness. Then pay her a surprise visit at home and see things for yourself. Only then should you start taking the relationship serious and buying her things.

And please don't even think of trying to sleep with her until she's 18 and above!
Re: Orj by Tantaliteweb: 7:23am On Jul 24, 2019
rottennaija:
If she is - 18 (how old are you, you didn't mention), then you should know that child sexual abuse is a crime. If you're of the age where you can wait for her, You can buy her the phone. It can also be a test for both of you, confirm your suspicion or trust.

However, you can get her a little phone that can chat, Facebook and of course call but don't cost so much and see how it goes. It would also help you know if she appreciate gift.
thanks I will update that . I am 23 years old
Re: Orj by cliper230(m): 7:33am On Jul 24, 2019
Oga you have been scammed. And mind you shouldn't involve yourself with such girl, 18years old girl and her mother is comfortable telling a stranger to buy her phone. That is to show how dysfunctional her family is. Abeg get sense . Go find your mate

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Re: Orj by Lexusgs430: 8:08am On Jul 24, 2019
Tantaliteweb:
Good morning Nairalanders,
.
Please I need an advice on this matter. You can insult o but let your insult be base on the matter. I am so bothered right now. Note any where you see this punctuation mark _______ Know that I wanted to mention her name there but I withheld it . And please focus on this format and pick out an idea that I might use to catch it if it is should be a scam. Pardon my English.
.
I met a girl online not up to one month , base on say I am looking for a serious relationship for long . Deu to how we chatted, I fell in love with her and she did too. Letter I wanted to date her and she accepted. We have been talking both on phone. She always complain about her mom taking the phone and she told me it is her mom's own .
.

There was a day I called her, I was discussing with her on the middle of the discussion, she answered yes Mom and she ended the call.
.
Immidiately she called me back and it was her mummy. The next thing, her mom was so angry. She first asked me , Are you _______ friend? I said yes , She said I should stop disturbing her phone. If I want to be calling ________ I should buy pHone for her . She expressed it so angryly . She said she would travel on Thursday. And she would be spending two weeks on the travel. I should buy phone for her. If I want to keep talking to her. That she wanna travel with her phone.
.
I said okay ma. And she ended the call. Minutes later the girl called me back and was apologizing. I should not mind her mom, almost ready to cry self . She even left the cooking she was cooking. she said would buy phone for herself. And she started complaining how her mummy always aggressive on her.
.
Next she started sending countless of Text messages apologizing. She couldn't sleep that night according to her . After that night everything changed. She no longer flash or call. I learnt her mom collected the phone from her. Yesterday I called all through but her mom was the one picking she said that _____went to lesson and would come back around 8pm .
.
That same yesterday, my girlfriend ,according to her she used her friend's phone to chat me me up . she sent me a message on FB saying I should stop calling until she gets her self a new phone. That last night her mum was bla bla bla hmmmmmm .
.
Note she haven't said I should buy pHone for her o . It was only her mom that said that. Now I have started considering buying her phone. But I am still afraid, is this going to be a scam Las Las .
.
Please I need your advice. Note we have not met fave to face . But we live in the same city shall according to her. And she is under 18-. But I love her so much. According to her pics and how far our chats and discussions . And Note again 'She have been refusing video call' but I was shocked when I missed one yesterday. Though I called her back, she refused to pick it. And she have refused to pick any video call since then.



Ever heard the combo ' catfish & scam'............

Not the type of catfish that ends up in peppersoup......... From phone, next you would pay rent........


Never fall in love with your heart, the heart is very stupid and can be manipulated........... Do it with your brain.........

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Re: Orj by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 24, 2019
When you guys ,were not dating her mom was not disturbing but now she does.Does it not occur to you that her elder sister could have played the role of her mom.It could be a test or a scam but all I know is that she is playing mind game with you
Re: Orj by WIZGUY69(m): 8:14am On Jul 24, 2019
which kind local scam be this? cry
The worse part is that this boy up there may not be financially buoyant to do this shii
Re: Orj by Tantaliteweb: 8:16am On Jul 24, 2019
WIZGUY69:
which kind local scam be this? cry
The worse part is that this boy up there may not be financially buoyant to do this shii

Which boy ? Emi
Re: Orj by WIZGUY69(m): 8:21am On Jul 24, 2019
Tantaliteweb:

Which boy ? Emi

Are you a girl?
Re: Orj by PharoahIII: 8:46am On Jul 24, 2019
@op abeg talk wetin you want na Bleep you wan Bleep abi na relationship you want, if na Bleep carry 500 go ashawo house but if na relationship you want then you are on a very long thing indeed,
@ op be warned , our elders say that a war that is announced beforehand does not kill a cripple. You know nothing but danger lies ahead yet you wan put head
Re: Orj by adeboyeku(m): 8:49am On Jul 24, 2019
She’s playing the mind game with you. I have witnessed this same scenario with a female neighbor of mine. Either her friend or she herself is playing the role of a mother. Wise and use your money for better things
Re: Orj by Michelle55: 8:59am On Jul 24, 2019
Dude is about to be scammed/robbed in broad daylight cheesy Since you don't know what to do with your money, come and patronize me. smiley
Check out my siggy below
Re: Orj by DonBenny77(m): 9:01am On Jul 24, 2019
I hope your mum and siblings al have phones
Re: Orj by LizRapheal(f): 10:47am On Jul 24, 2019
Just tink of it as charity so if it turns out to b a scam it wont affect u much
Or betastill buy her a small nokia fone for start nd tell her u wnt to see her,so wen she comes nd u've seen her face to face den u cn get her anoda fone...
Re: Orj by LizRapheal(f): 10:48am On Jul 24, 2019
DonBenny77:
I hope your mum and siblings al have phones
wats dat got to do wit dis?

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