Pressure, can be described in different forms but in this context, it is seen as botheration, fuss, worriment, aggravation, annoyance, pest, perplexity, difficulty, drag, molestation, exasperation.

To be pressurized is to be frustrated, to be aggravated, in a lame man's language it's to be disturbed against your own will. The direct opposite of it is to be at peace.

This kind of pressure has led many people to be self destruct and it has made them make wrong and odd choices because they were cajoled or forced to do them.

When "Marriage", comes to mind, patience is the right word for it but the urge to get into it before preparing for it will always have calamity as the end game.
In this article, I'll be describing the different form of pressure that makes people choose wrong maritally.

4 different pressure vices that makes people choose wrongly maritally.

1. Family pressure:- This has always been the main reason why people make the wrong choices either about their marital life, education, occupation. What have you?, parents have a way of poisoning the minds of their children against their will because of their own selfish reasons.

Especially extended family members, they too believe they have a say concerning the lives of every member of the family, thereby flaunting themselves as a proper example to make you feel victimized and pressurized to get married so you can attend family meetings and flaunt your children too. That is a very wrong reason to get married.

Some parents will say "I want to carry my grandchildren, what are you waiting for? Can't you just get a man and hook him up?". This is very alarming, what if the man is violent?, what if the man is very promiscuous?, they do not want to know they just want a grandchild.


2. Peer pressure:- This sort of pressure can be humiliating, when you have a social gathering with friends and all they talk about is marriage related issues

To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/ to read, and view more enlightening topics relationship wise.

Age pressure..

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Age pressure..

If u click on the you will see that I mentioned it.. Thanks dear..

Temmywrites:
If u click on the you will see that I mentioned it.

I don't think Nairaland is meant to be that way. Post the whole article and then put your link at the end.

charlsecy:
I don't think Nairaland is meant to be that way. Post the whole article and then put your link at the end.

They will just read and never click on the link. So if u want to know more about it, just click on it

Temmywrites:
Pressure, can be described in different forms but in this context, it is seen as botheration, fuss, worriment, aggravation, annoyance, pest, perplexity, difficulty, drag, molestation, exasperation.

To be pressurized is to be frustrated, to be aggravated, in a lame man's language it's to be disturbed against your own will. The direct opposite of it is to be at peace.

This kind of pressure has led many people to be self destruct and it has made them make wrong and odd choices because they were cajoled or forced to do them.

When "Marriage", comes to mind, patience is the right word for it but the urge to get into it before preparing for it will always have calamity as the end game.
In this article, I'll be describing the different form of pressure that makes people choose wrong maritally.

4 different pressure vices that makes people choose wrongly maritally.

1. Family pressure:- This has always been the main reason why people make the wrong choices either about their marital life, education, occupation. What have you?, parents have a way of poisoning the minds of their children against their will because of their own selfish reasons.

Especially extended family members, they too believe they have a say concerning the lives of every member of the family, thereby flaunting themselves as a proper example to make you feel victimized and pressurized to get married so you can attend family meetings and flaunt your children too. That is a very wrong reason to get married.

Some parents will say "I want to carry my grandchildren, what are you waiting for? Can't you just get a man and hook him up?". This is very alarming, what if the man is violent?, what if the man is very promiscuous?, they do not want to know they just want a grandchild.


2. Peer pressure:- This sort of pressure can be humiliating, when you have a social gathering with friends and all they talk about is marriage related issues

To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/ to read, and view more enlightening topics relationship wise.

it's better people STAY OUT of MARRIAGE if they are FORCED, NOT YET EMOTIONALLY READY or going to bring the WRONG VIBES into it.
dating alone cost thousands, if not millions to maintain. eg outings, trips, gifts etc
marriage COST even more plus the STRESS. MILLIONS down the drain for just one ceremony called a wedding, then comes the honey moon and then the EXPENSES of a routine marriage.

after all this you know DEEP DOWN this ISN'T WORKING for you but you decide you also want a baby?!....what!
why not just end it and save the unnecessary spending.

anybody who believes marriage isn't for them should just stay clear of it. you will be a BIG HYPOCRITE if you run back to your VOMIT in the GUISE of FAMILY or SOCIETAL PRESSURES, cause I'm sure if that same family or society PRESSURES you into eating POO you definitely will NOT!

so NO EXCUSES, everybody should MAINTAIN their LANES, NONSENSE!

Nice one dear,,, how are u doing.

Temmywrites:
Pressure, can be described in different forms but in this context, it is seen as botheration, fuss, worriment, aggravation, annoyance, pest, perplexity, difficulty, drag, molestation, exasperation.

To be pressurized is to be frustrated, to be aggravated, in a lame man's language it's to be disturbed against your own will. The direct opposite of it is to be at peace.

This kind of pressure has led many people to be self destruct and it has made them make wrong and odd choices because they were cajoled or forced to do them.

When "Marriage", comes to mind, patience is the right word for it but the urge to get into it before preparing for it will always have calamity as the end game.
In this article, I'll be describing the different form of pressure that makes people choose wrong maritally.

4 different pressure vices that makes people choose wrongly maritally.

1. Family pressure:- This has always been the main reason why people make the wrong choices either about their marital life, education, occupation. What have you?, parents have a way of poisoning the minds of their children against their will because of their own selfish reasons.

Especially extended family members, they too believe they have a say concerning the lives of every member of the family, thereby flaunting themselves as a proper example to make you feel victimized and pressurized to get married so you can attend family meetings and flaunt your children too. That is a very wrong reason to get married.

Some parents will say "I want to carry my grandchildren, what are you waiting for? Can't you just get a man and hook him up?". This is very alarming, what if the man is violent?, what if the man is very promiscuous?, they do not want to know they just want a grandchild.


2. Peer pressure:- This sort of pressure can be humiliating, when you have a social gathering with friends and all they talk about is marriage related issues

To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/ to read, and view more enlightening topics relationship wise.

carter009:
Nice one dear,,, how are u doing.

I'm fine dear.. U?

Same dear.....

Temmywrites:


I'm fine dear.. U?

I thought this was going to be a story from a personal point of view

Once fallen to a pressure, winning the race requires the Grace of God.

Nice one

Funmmyastic:
Nice one

Funmi you are fantastic which makes you funmitastic. Thanks dear

Oluwadamilare118:
Once fallen to a pressure, winning the race requires the Grace of God.

My brother I'm telling you, it's always stressing

Temmywrites:


They will just read and never click on the link. So if u want to know more about it, just click on it

Laughing my ass out at the bolded...

At least they "read" what about people like me who don't even read.

Temmywrites:

Funmi you are fantastic which makes you funmitastic. Thanks dear

You are welcome.