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| Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by twerkjack: 9:46pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
So I met this girl Phina at my new job as a Public Relations Manager for a top night club in Lagos. She also works there. She dresses and talks and walks like a man. In short she’s a tomboy.. The first day I set eyes on her my heart skipped at least 3 beats. I don’t know what it is about her that messes with my fantasies.. I find myself staring at her all day everyday.. Recently I’ve been having this dream of a lesbian romance with her. I’m not and have never been a lesbian. The only time I’ve been close to it was during my secondary school days in a boarding school, where I had this thing (romance) with my girl friend, but that was a one time thing and once I started having d1ck I never looked back.. I like boys and I was very confident about my sexuality. But this girl... She makes me doubt my sexuality. She’s nice and when she spoke to me for the first time I almost melted.. I want her I really do... What can I do about this? I need Help! Ps: i don’t want any religious bs... I don’t need anyone cussing on me.. I need advice!
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| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by SageMK: 9:59pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
Well you could be bisexual because from your write up, you are clearly going through a long and weird cycle call bi-cycle. So acknowledge your feelings. Don't run away. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by blinking001(m): 10:03pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
twerkjack:Hmmmm. This is some serious shit. Follow your mind that's all I've got to say. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by tellwisdom: 10:04pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
Where are you so I can yansh this feeling out of ur head?  2 Likes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
There's nothing to be worried about. Some girls are likely to develop feelings for their counterpart later in life even tho they are not gay. They are just sexually attracted to someone for a reason. It could be a sense of style, laugh, smile, skin, her heart.Different reasons. But it's best not to act on that feeling and casually be friends with her. With time u'll figure out why u were attracted to her 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by delugajackson: 10:11pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
I think your hopeless obssession is gradually turning into a pointless infatuation. But the first step towards confronting this problem is accepting that you're a lesbian. Yes. It is expressly written all over your writeup and one can easily tell that you can't help it. You've already mentioned that you've had an encounter in the past, that was the turning point of your life and no matter the number of preeqs you fuc.k, it still won't change the fact that you're a dirty, cunt-licking w.hore in the making. You can deny the feelings all you want, suppress it, but the truth remains that you are a closet lesbian who is still finding it hard to break out of her shell. Take a shot. Be the real you and release yourself from the obvious self-doubt and confusion. This is who you are and you need no one's opinion about being a bi.tch. I wish you the very best in your cunt-licking adventure. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by ahahnow: 10:11pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
Disgusting. Please go and pour sniper into your vagina and burn the whole thing to ashes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Problemkid1: 10:12pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
tellwisdom:Lol |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Grandlord: 10:13pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
Go for it baby! Only one life to live, so live your blissful fantasies.  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Mrevildoer(m): 10:23pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
I think she needs therapy 3 Likes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by cypluxx(m): 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
u r bisex and there is nting wrong just live ur life love is a sweet thing 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by 360degreess(m): 10:31pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
Don't listen to all these people telling you to follow your heart..that's a very wrong advice from them..It not proper for you to be having such feelings for a fellow woman.Try as much as you can to control your thoughts,convince your mind that this is wrong. you also need a therapy as well.it is psychological..Because if you dear take things to the "next level" with that girl,hmmm,You will become a full time lesbian.. so try and stop it at this stage... Good luck. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by cooluzi: 10:36pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
twerkjack:you sound confuse anyway i guess you are a bi 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by sisisioge: 10:46pm On Aug 11, 2019 |
 You are a bi! Nothing do you 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Nobody: 4:30am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Problemkid1:Why the change of gender?
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| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Jayslicky: 8:44am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Most people commenting on this thread are truly hypocrites, is these not the people that when they see any news on bobrisky they start blasting him and saying that he is not okay, now someone comes here with same attributes you are all been soft-spoken to her. Let me tell you something twerkjack, you are insane. The first help you should get is visiting a psychatric home because right now your head is really messed up, you didn't even state that you have been attracted to females since you were young, you only started recently which shows that you created the problem for yourself. Good luck as you fix your disjointed self. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by twerkjack: 6:47pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
SageMK: Omg u think so? |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by 24kmagic: 8:23pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
This is what Bruno Mars meant by 24karatmagic in the air. The only problem here is that this magic is not in the air in this case, but a night club! Just fvck her already! Cos my advice won't change any sh!t. How old are you sef? |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by K4diamond: 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
When you are without a partner for a long time this scenario happens, give any man that comes your way a chance and this thought will vanish. Good luck |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by Nobody: 4:57pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Mrevildoer:No, she needs prophet T B Joshua |
| Re: Help! I’m Not A Lesbian But I Think I’m In Love With A Girl by missjo(f): 5:02pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
twerkjack:Nice try boy,this ain't exactly how girls crushing on other girls talk or type on it, but nice try.  1 Like |
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