How do i get her back?
i was kinda possessive,probably cos of the pressure from getting a good job and i took it out on her but there was so much love in the air.I acted irrationally and i misbehaved.not that i cheated on her or something,but its going to like 10weeks now and its hard winning her back.Do u think she is gone?

guy, start looking ahead --- up that str8, narrow & very long path & start figuring out how u're gonna walk it alone till u get another companion!

jeez, ruudie, ur a bit pessimistic arent u?!!

buddy i'll suggest you look for one of her good friends whom you know is in favour of you having her as your chick and beg her to help you out
coz its as though each tym a guy has a misunderstanding with his girl and the guy goes around begging her, she gets more angry!!!

hailtopsy:

How do i get her back?
i was kind of possessive,probably because of the pressure from getting a good job and i took it out on her but there was so much love in the air.I acted irrationally and i misbehaved.not that i cheated on her or something,but its going to like 10weeks now and its hard winning her back.Do u think she is gone?

yes i think she's gone, 10 weeks, but she can comeback home if u want her 2

but if u feel i cld get her back,wat u suggest i should do? @aciddrop

Is she gone?? Only a fortune-teller would be very sure of that

Do you have a chance of getting her back?? YES (but i said a chance )

10 weeks is a real long time if you ask me, are you sure she isn't seeing someone else?? Cos if she is then your battle might just be over . .

If she isn't on the other hand, then you might just have a chance.

But you have to be sure you've let go of all your childish and heartbreaking behaviours, I've never heard that pressure" makes someone become "possessive", but lets not go into it as long you've woken up from you slumber

Yiu have to let he see your changed you, aproach her and ask for a second chance. Don't get too desperate Cos that might give the wrong impression, don't go over board with your pleadings either. Show her how much you love her, you can even go on your knees, surprise her and take her breath away, i mean try sweeping her off her feet

You know her better than we do, give her a pleasant surprise that she'll not dare forget. Do each and everything with love, care and sadness of loosing her. Let her know it was too much of an expensive mistake, and that she should give you just one second chance to prove your commuttment towards her . .

If at the end of the day she still would not take you back, then honey maybe is time to move on. You can force a horse to the stream, but you cannot force it to drink. Believe me you wouldn't want her back because she was only feeling sorry for you, would you??

If her love for you has mistakenly left the building (her body and soul) then i assure you that you're better off without her. As sad as it may seem, you will be fine. The regrets might come once in a while, but you never know what plans the future has for you until a chapter closes.

It might be a lesson or future, I mean after this, i'm sure you wouldn't go back to those attitudes
The end justifies the means, I wish you luck, with or without her!!!!

that was really tight. appreciate it.
but there is another thing,my mum went at my back trying to communicate wit her but she didn't even pick her calls imagine?so i still am on crossroads weither to just let her go or maybe i should give it a try and check out her reaction.wat u tink?

hailtopsy:

so i still am on crossroads weither to just let her go or maybe i should give it a try and check out her reaction.what u think?

Read through my post once more, the answe to this question is right there. I hate repeating myself, thats one of my characteristics.

Make a difference yourself, she ain't dating your mum, she needs you to show her you care or that you're all for what you guys have.

What good will it do if your mum wants her in your life and you don't??

Go tell her what you feel