The matter is serious i wont disclose too much, a guy likes you, has the resources for marriage but he is not in love.

lalasticlala

No. Simple

just like having a registered car plate number without a car

donbachi:
just like having a registered car plate number without a car

I don't get the analogy.

donbachi:
just like having a registered car plate number without a car

Gbam, u hit the nail on the head
It's been long I saw ur post.... Y na.

richmind2019:

Gbam, u hit the nail on the head
It's been long I saw ur post.... Y na.

no vex...i been no get money to buy data..dat was y.

No. Love is the only thing that can keep my relationship. You can't even stand my madness if you don't love me.

Ladies will marry a goat as far as the goat is wealthy.

Officialgarri:
Ladies will marry a goat as far as the goat is wealthy.

lwkm

MariaLavina:
No. Love is the only thing that can keep my relationship. You can't even stand my madness if you don't love me.

So you need love to cover your flaws rather than change ?

PUSSYWHORE:
The matter is serious i wont disclose too much, a guy likes you, has the resources for marriage but he is not in love.

lalasticlala

explain resources?

it also depends on why he wants to marry. if we can agree on an open marriage, why not, love isn't the main thing, respect is.

Just ask Regina Daniel

funmisticqueen:
explain resources?

it also depends on why he wants to marry. if we can agree on an open marriage, why not, love isn't the main thing, respect is.

Just ask Regina Daniel

them done come again, anybody that has good home training will respect almost everybody so love is the first important thing in any relationship followed by other..
well is even sure regina is cheating on the man she respect him just like her daddy she doesn't love him..

luvyaself95:
them done come again, anybody that has good home training will respect almost everybody so love is the first important thing in any relationship followed by other..
well is even sure regina is cheating on the man she respect him just like her daddy she doesn't love him..

i think you have confused respect with politeness and courtesy. Respect is earned, that's why it is valuable.

Love is not the first thing in the marriage, compatibility and values are. Love mellows down when trials come. That is why a higher number of love based marriages end up in divorce as opposed to arranged marriages where compatibility is considered.

Besides what else do you expect from 19 yr old Regina Daniels. 19 yr olds are more immature now than 40 years ago.

PUSSYWHORE:
The matter is serious i wont disclose too much, a guy likes you, has the resources for marriage but he is not in love.

lalasticlala

No.

funmisticqueen:
explain resources?

it also depends on why he wants to marry. if we can agree on an open marriage, why not, love isn't the main thing, respect is.

Just ask Regina Daniel

Ok

funmisticqueen:
i think you have confused respect with politeness and courtesy. Respect is earned, that's why it is valuable.

Love is not the first thing in the marriage, compatibility and values are. Love mellows down when trials come. That is why a higher number of love based marriages end up in divorce as opposed to arranged marriages where compatibility is considered.

Besides what else do you expect from 19 yr old Regina Daniels. 19 yr olds are more immature now than 40 years ago.

confusion for wetin and how politeness and courtesy relate to this matter...
what is compatibility and value without love, love is endure but nowadays most people love people for what they have go into relationship or marriage with them...
lemme ask you this what earn respect between money and behaviour before i talk about it...

ranmoor:
This is what every women does. They marry strictly for money, love will come later. They always marry up, to someone that can foot bills. Only few that miscalculate end up with poor guys. That is why when the money disappear, they vanish.

No Nigerian girl will agree to this

Personally, I can’t do it cuz as far as am concerned and with my little knowledge money is not everything in relationship or marriage.

Rosay15:
Personally, I can’t do it cuz as far as am concerned and with my little knowledge money is not everything in relationship or marriage.

is something ever everything?

funmisticqueen:
i think you have confused respect with politeness and courtesy. Respect is earned, that's why it is valuable.

Love is not the first thing in the marriage, compatibility and values are. Love mellows down when trials come. That is why a higher number of love based marriages end up in divorce as opposed to arranged marriages where compatibility is considered.

Besides what else do you expect from 19 yr old Regina Daniels. 19 yr olds are more immature now than 40 years ago.

There's no respect where there's no politeness and self-esteem. Politeness and self-esteem beget respect - the former mentions are processes while the latter mention is the end product, thus why it's earned.

Also, you can't talk about love - the big love that is variant of goodness - without talking about respect. Respect is a major constituent of love. Love is encompassing - literally it can't hold water without its constituents/end product values like respect, loyalty, faithfulness, etc. Just as these constituents of love can't hold water without the values/mechanisms (like altruism, politeness, self-esteem, etc) that beget them too.

Compatibility and values are variables of love. This explains reason unconditionality of love never invalidates conditionality of falling in love and staying in love . . . with material vs immaterial individual's interest as the subjective determiners that can qualify one as being either genuine or otherwise.

Love - the big love, not its constituents/the smaller love like fancy, care, emotional feeling and admiration - is the most valuable and priceless thing in the world.

Officialgarri:
Ladies will marry a goat as far as the goat is wealthy.

is that how your mother and female relatives got married?

ranmoor:
This is what every women does. They marry strictly for money, love will come later. They always marry up, to someone that can foot bills. Only few that miscalculate end up with poor guys. That is why when the money disappear, they vanish.

so all ladies are married to rich men? the poor men I! m seeing around, are they married to goats? you just come online to type rubbish

PUSSYWHORE:
So you need love to cover your flaws rather than change ?

Lol I guess you interpreted the madness in the wrong way. I don't bite.

There must be love abeg. Without love, a marriage will just be an arrangement. Marriages with love have issues. What will now happen when there is no love?

Ryan03:
is that how your mother and female relatives got married?

No, that was why you are fathered by an animal

MariaLavina:
Lol I guess you interpreted the madness in the wrong way. I don't bite.

what's the right way to interprete madness, please tell me its must be new.

ImaIma1:
There must be love abeg. Without love, a marriage will just be an arrangement. Marriages with love have issues. What will now happen when there is no love?

Do you have comprehension problem you are the only poster who misinterprete, without love is different from not in love with you, someone not in love can always fall in love as time goes.

The question is he is ready but not in love.

PUSSYWHORE:
Do you have comprehension problem you are the only poster who misinterprete, without love is different from not in love with you, someone not in love can always fall in love as time goes.

The question is he is ready but not in love.

Why do some of you guys have to be so silly and disrespectful in your comments? Can't you comment without sounding conceited?

So what did I say that misinterpreted your question? "In love"..."to love"... it's still about loving.

No guy that is not in love with you would want to marry you in first place.

The exception is if the guy is a gold digger and you have the gold .i.e you are rich or from a wealthy background.

In that case, you should prepare your mind for a lifetime of torture.

Yes thy will

MariaLavina:
No. Love is the only thing that can keep my relationship. You can't even stand my madness if you don't love me.

What madness