hi guys! I'm typing this write up with sifia pains in my heart.

I'm a Penultimate Student in one of the varsities in the South, there's this Young Lady (23 years of age) that has been having issues with her admission process, she sought for admission since 2015 till date and all her efforts to be admitted into the university has been abortive and futile. She has been applying for Mass Communication which we all know is competitive but at the end her postutme aggregates doesn't meet up with the required cut off mark needed for the course.

So this year I played a brotherly and fatherly role in her admission process after I realized that age is no longer on her side, I advised her to take Linguistics as the course is less competitive and I even had to use my elder sister as a reference point as she studied the course and graduated with a 2:1 and today so far by God's grace she's working, earning very well and deem fit to be among those that has been successful in life.
so after I counseled her and she obliged I now took the task of tutoring her in her 4 UTME subjects at the detriment of my own academics and study time table as I counted it a sacrifice all because I wanted her to be admitted and I even bought textbooks and taught her and explained many topics to her, highest she ever had during those years of her seeking admission has always been 210.
So this year's UTME after my tutorials she finally scored 250, I also did same strategy in her postutme and she nailed 70% and her aggregate fell at 66 which is still not enough for Mass Communication as it was pegged at 72%.

Now the crux of the matter is that she has been admitted into the linguistics but can u imagine this girl has never appreciated me nor even thanked me for assisting her and contributing to her admission success??
This girl had the nerve to send me a voice note on WhatsApp, and in the voice note she shouted and raised her voice and accused me of spoiling her career, that she told her sister that a certain guy (me) wrongly advised her to chose the course.
This girl gave her sister the phone and she called me and yelled at me for misdirecting her sister to a "stupid and useless Course"

This girl I helped now called me and told me that her family is already made because they all studied professional courses, her dad is an accountant, her mom is a medical doctor, her two sisters, one is a nurse, the other is an accountant while the brother is a lawyer and the other one studied Petroleum Engineering and working with Chevron.
So because of my advise she has now become a disgrace to the family that she regret Knowing me that she would have been admitted this year into mass com, so I have spoilt her career because I myself too I'm studying a useless course (Environmental Management)
Guys why are girls like this?

She is still a kid I guess, give her distance for now . She will later realize her mistake and value your effort.
But on a general note I have notice that Nigerian ladies sees assistance from the male counterpart as their right. They believe if you don’t do it for them other guys will. Op your reward is in heaven .

But yours is even fair compare to mine. Reminiscing my university days, I wrote a tough maths course for a friend of mine, usually I charge 10k to write for anybody. At the end of it all this babe come Dey feel herself like say nah one queen.she could’nt even thank me even after she saw her result(B) . Although I noticed she was trying to give me green light for me to chop the kpekus but that was not my thing . My pain was that I could have made more than 40k from other guys that was disturbing me but I foolishly fell for friendship(she was my reading partner)

Life lessons... [color=#990000][/color]

Baba no vex.... It looks like what we call misguided helpfulness to her.

BRB

it wasnt your fault. But now at times one should take time advising cause when it goes wrong you'll be blamed alone.
except orphans, widows, beggers that is.

DanDeeBoss:
You should have stayed on your lane.... Anything pertaining career, I swear I no dey chuk mouth..... lesson learnt

Exactly.

LillyVal:

why you angry??

pls don't be in sifia pains.

Too bad...

. U still dey play brotherly and fatherly roleto Nigerian girls

Your right.

Blackivy27:
it wasnt your fault. But now at times one should take time advising cause when it goes wrong you'll be blamed alone.
except orphans, widows, beggers that is.

Guy, you just have to accept your fate. Most people pay good with evil, it is a fact. Each time you help someone just take it as one of those sacrifices that one has to make in life, never expect to be rewarded or appreciated because you might be disappointed.


Sorry about your predicament.

They worst is that most girls don't appreciate anything good from a guy, they will always choose to pay him back with evil.

carter009:
Your right.

Thanks.

For you feeling this way i wonder you might not be Nigerian you help Nigeria girls they won't appreciate they are ingrate...

DateMynd44:
hi guys! I'm typing this write up with sifia pains in my heart.

I'm a Penultimate Student in one of the varsities in the South, there's this Young Lady (23 years of age) that has been having issues with her admission process, she sought for admission since 2015 till date and all her efforts to be admitted into the university has been abortive and futile. She has been applying for Mass Communication which we all know is competitive but at the end her postutme aggregates doesn't meet up with the required cut off mark needed for the course.

So this year I played a brotherly and fatherly role in her admission process after I realized that age is no longer on her side, I advised her to take Linguistics as the course is less competitive and I even had to use my elder sister as a reference point as she studied the course and graduated with a 2:1 and today so far by God's grace she's working, earning very well and deem fit to be among those that has been successful in life.
so after I counseled her and she obliged I now took the task of tutoring her in her 4 UTME subjects at the detriment of my own academics and study time table as I counted it a sacrifice all because I wanted her to be admitted and I even bought textbooks and taught her and explained many topics to her, highest she ever had during those years of her seeking admission has always been 210.
So this year's UTME after my tutorials she finally scored 250, I also did same strategy in her postutme and she nailed 70% and her aggregate fell at 66 which is still not enough for Mass Communication as it was pegged at 72%.

Now the crux of the matter is that she has been admitted into the linguistics but can u imagine this girl has never appreciated me nor even thanked me for assisting her and contributing to her admission success??
This girl had the nerve to send me a voice note on WhatsApp, and in the voice note she shouted and raised her voice and accused me of spoiling her career, that she told her sister that a certain guy (me) wrongly advised her to chose the course.
This girl gave her sister the phone and she called me and yelled at me for misdirecting her sister to a "stupid and useless Course"

This girl I helped now called me and told me that her family is already made because they all studied professional courses, her dad is an accountant, her mom is a medical doctor, her two sisters, one is a nurse, the other is an accountant while the brother is a lawyer and the other one studied Petroleum Engineering and working with Chevron.
So because of my advise she has now become a disgrace to the family that she regret Knowing me that she would have been admitted this year into mass com, so I have spoilt her career because I myself too I'm studying a useless course (Library and information science).
Guys why are girls like this?

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She is indeed ungrateful... People can be ungrateful not just Nigerian girls... People can really be ungrateful ..

This is why you shouldn't help a Nigerian girl, 95% of them are ungrateful and pompous, and it's not like they have anything.

Nigerian Girls are the most UNGRATEFUL HUMAN BEINGS ON EARTH...

That's why ah don't help any,
Even if say u dy die,ah won't look ur way..
Unless u payback in kind.

SIMPLE!!!!!!

Lamanii22:
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She is indeed ungrateful... People can be ungrateful not just Nigerian girls... People can really be ungrateful ..

She'll end up looking for you to appreciate you later on
Forget it and keep your fingers crossed

When you see them, run away.

Damn!

Sorry bro
I feel your pain

Alwaysking:
This is why you shouldn't help a Nigerian girl, 95% of them are ungrateful and pompous, and it's not like they have anything.

@The last bolded?

drmikeadams:
. U still dey play brotherly and fatherly roleto Nigerian girls

I just wanted to be seen as a nice guy

luvyaself95:
For you feeling this way i wonder you might not be Nigerian
you help Nigeria girls they won't appreciate they are ingrate...

seriously. that's why I pity guys who invest In a girl they're are yet to get married to

Alwaysking:
This is why you shouldn't help a Nigerian girl, 95% of them are ungrateful and pompous, and it's not like they have anything.

worst of it all they don't have anything to offer.
I really pity guys who invest Ina girl they're yet to get married to

I really don't blame her, I blame you.
The way guys are now loosing their worth ehh.
How can you assist a girl you've not married to the point of helping her make a decision.
Nigerian girls are seen as leeches, the suck your blood and destiny leave you hanging.
Quote me, she will come back but only on one condition which is you assisting her in other things, if you refuse she will play the victim card, that is what Nigerian biches do.

DateMynd44:
I just wanted to be seen as a nice guy

bro


Download this song by snoop dogg titled "it wasnt your fault",,/

Listen to the lyrics

nuggarito:
I really don't blame her, I blame you.
The way guys are now loosing their worth ehh.
How can you assist a girl you've not married to the point of helping her make a decision.
Nigerian girls are seen as leeches, the suck your blood and destiny leave you hanging.
Quote me, she will come back but only on one condition which is you assisting her in other things, if you refuse she will play the victim card, that is what Nigerian biches do.

u sabi them....