[quote author=9jacelebs post=81548549][/quote] she's here with me

Virtuous, prayerful, independent, a good listener, caring.

chenzen:
lol. sorry... I typed in a hurry, how are u sweetheart?

Im surviving this nigeria's harsh economy

IbrahimSkiba:






Im surviving this nigeria's harsh economy

Things will get better very soon. Dont worry

positivevibez:
Come with nothing but dont cheat

na ur comment make sense pas

LillyVal:
If a man must have a good job, a car and a house before marriage.
What must the lady have before going into marriage??

Self-worth and Self respect

chenzen:
be virtuous


independent


dedicated to purpose.


homely.


be a good listener.


be productive and resourceful


problem solving skills.


multi-tasking abilities.


be a good chef.


be reserved yet sociable.


prayerful.


be a keeper.

be a team player.

ability to work efficiently under pressure. (handling frigidity)

perfect CV

XhosaNostra:


No, I cannot be on my own because not every man has your mindset, fortunately. It's all about figuring out what works. I've never had a problem keeping relationships going because I'm a fair person & I expect the same.

If your own fairness is you keep your earnings as upkeep while the man uses his to shelter you then you starve him for not building you kitchen chair or washing dishes even after buying a dish washer because after all you "earn your living" something no woman has ever achieved and still be responsible, thanks but no thanks just keep it up till shilloh calls.

frankkydee:















They were just being sacarstic with their comment in reference to what most guys normally say on this forum. I for a guy, I just want my woman to be sincere and self reliable. I don't ask for much

Okay..I see

SyrusdeHansome:



I guess u don't have any of the qualities he listed out that's why u took it personal..

You guessed right.
I don't have any of those qualities..now face front.

LillyVal:
If a man must have a good job, a car and a house before marriage.
What must the lady have before going into marriage??

A car, A house, and A good Job

larryking540:


they are still teenagers,when they hit 28 years by then ask them this same question, u will b surprise at their level of thinking, na just one answer they go give,
even if the woman ugly make she just get sense and be a home builder finish,

Lolz..abi
With the way they keep ranting that women don't have anything to offer except their bodies, one would expect they've a lot of things they need a woman to bring to the table.

Mannie take it easy...

MannieA:




You guessed right.
I don't have any of those qualities..now face front.

Foodforthought:

You seem really triggered. Calm down. Some people don't take Nairaland seriously so they can comment anything...no man actually marries for sex alone.

Why won't I be triggered?
I was expecting them to give a long list of what they need from a woman.

carter009:
Mannie take it easy...

Lol I'm really not angry tho...I'm not angry at all.

carter009:
Are you serious funmi....

Yes.

A woman herself is enough into a marriage because what a man brings she multiplies.

princfred:
If your own fairness is you keep your earnings as upkeep while the man uses his to shelter you then you starve him for not building you kitchen chair or washing dishes even after buying a dish washer because after all you "earn your living" something no woman has ever achieved and still be responsible. Thanks but no thanks just keep it up till shilloh calls.

That's the thing you're not getting, you don't know what has been agreed upon between myself & the person. But don't let that stop you from jumping like a ballerina to wild accusations & unfounded conclusions.

DrObiHogan:

Yes pls. Like if she's not a virgin then I don't see the need for a bride price. That will be a subject of debate on the negotiation table.

...exactly if his dick is a public one ...I don't really see d need of accepting his proposal........ I can deal with it........

Like post 3000 of what they must have, sorry I don't think many whop accept they need anything

IbrahimSkiba:






Im surviving this nigeria's harsh economy

With daddy's money paycheck abi?

Phenomenal16:
...exactly if his dick is a public one ...I don't really see d need of accepting his proposal........ I can deal with it........

Lmaoooooooooo

Phenomenal16:
...exactly if his dick is a public one ...I don't really see d need of accepting his proposal........ I can deal with it........

We don't have anything like a groom price OK. So basically that money they pay is a rip off. I think I have to petition the efcc.

XhosaNostra:


That's the thing you're not getting, you don't know what has been agreed upon between myself & the person. But don't let that stop you from jumping like a ballerina to wild accusations & unfounded conclusions.

You get mouth

You guys are saying the something same thing but differently. That Bro is like a dog with a bone, I avoid his matter

How you been babe?

Job
Brain
Home training
Street sense

Ojady:
Please note, some of these are applicable to man and woman
1. A whole lot of patience: True colours will start to emerge for hubby and you... also be patient with having babies... babies are self centred and drain out "the Tarzan and Jane" in you and your hubby
2. Be ready to change (The honeymoon is over): to be a mother to a big baby (her husband) that can talk, change his mind, annoy her and still want to Bleep later on at night
3. Be ready to lose friends (most of those her sheshere friends on the bridal train) gotta go!
4. Be ready to adopt another woman (her husband's mother) as a mother, only that, this woman can become many things in a blink of an eye ( a rival, who can do and even did all you have enrolled to do, in the life of your husband; an ally who can help you win over your hubby - if you re lucky; May you find favour)
5. Be ready to manifest undeveloped talent and skills: women are multi everything good or bad, it just depends on which is nurtured; a woman can do multiple things at ONCE; they may struggle initially, but if they hang in there, they will see many abandoned/undiscovered abilities...unfortunately it is called witchcraft amongst the ignorant
6. Be ready to experiment: in the kitchen, on the bed...trying different current practices of slay mamas... believe me, being a slay mama to an audience of one, your husband is very very easy... seduce am, do all sorts...
7. Be realistic: Married life like every thing in life has 2 sides: good, bad; light, darkness; happy, sad; Be ready to constantly realise that and adjust accordingly

For u to knw all this tin am sure u re married long ago, u hav lot of experience, i doff my hat.

Guest007:


You get mouth

You guys are saying the something but differently. That Bro is like a dog with a bone, I avoid his matter

How you been babe?

Well, I'm not one to shy away from confrontation either so we could be at this for however long it takes.

I'm good, hun. Hope all is well with you, yes?

Teespice:


20k??

better to earn that 20k and hold your head high than depending on him for all your needs and disrespected in the process.

by the way, minimum wage is 30k though yet to be implemented. in your bid to quote me, you just exposed how "not current" you are.

You're daft

XhosaNostra:


Well, I'm not one to shy away from confrontation either so we could be at this for however long it takes.

I'm good, hun. Hope all is well with you, yes?

I meant "saying the same thing" you guys were saying the same thing but in different ways...

I'm good thanks hun... Glad you're well

Guest007:


I meant "saying the same thing" you guys were saying the same thing but in different ways...

I'm good thanks hun... Glad you're well

Good to hear. Thanks to you too, hun

XhosaNostra:


That's the thing you're not getting, you don't know what has been agreed upon between myself & the person. But don't let that stop you from jumping like a ballerina to wild accusations & unfounded conclusions.

Conclusions that mirror points you made right here?

The person may still be ignorant to your entire mindset. When the person eye clear like happens in many marriages, oyo shall be the case.

MannieA:




LMAO!
I guess that's all he needs... fine face, big bress,big ass and an empty head..
Then later he will come and start ranting about how women have nothing to offer except their bodies.. lmao

how many women have anything to offer apart from their bodies?

Even the ones that are making their own money would likely try to recover from their husbands the money they spend on their own children.

makavelli80:
perfect CV

lol