ubunja:
but they didn't meet their women when the women were 37.

It's one thing for a 20 yr old guy to marry a 25 yr old woman and be together for decades. And it's another for a 32 yr old man to marry a 37 yr old living fossil at the gates of menopause.

Their decades will be spent in an Old People's Home.

Jason Momoa, another hottie, is married to a woman over 10 years his senior. They tied the knot in 2017 & yet some sprite is more concerned about spreading his ugly genes.

ubunja:
are you even following this conversation?

That's what your comments connote and it's quite myopic.

AwkaetitiBabe:
He was quite young when she got married. When she divorced, he was a man and becoming successful so their paths crossed.

The Shooting talk is irrelevant here.

the shooting is relevant cause you seem to think white people are somehow smart with relationships. Which is bs. Cause among whites marriage is plummeting and their population is no longer at replacement levels.


If that guy was young when lady got married then grew up and chased her then I have only one word for him: Loser

Like French President Macron who married his teacher who now looks like his mother and whom Brazilian President just mocked.

AwkaetitiBabe:
That's what your comments connote and it's quite myopic.

what?

XhosaNostra:


Jason Momoa, another hottie, is married to a woman over 10 years his senior. They tied the knot in 2017 & yet some sprite is more concerned about spreading his ugly Gene's.

yar but it's a woman who's been through plastic surgery.

ubunja:
yar but it's a woman who's been through plastic surgery.

That's not the point, he married her knowingly.

XhosaNostra:


That's not the point, he married her knowingly.

'even living ancestor Dolly Parton with her fake titties can get a guy 50 yrs her junior.

Those fake titties on Samoa's wife definitely helped.

ubunja:
'even living ancestor Dolly Parton with her fake titties can get a guy 50 yrs her junior.

Those fake titties on Samoa's wife definitely helped.

What are you dribbling on about? Lisa Bonet, Jason's wife, has no inflated balloons on her chest. She's a natural beauty that he's always had a crush on since his teens. Now she's his wife, finally.

brightk:
Am writing on behalf of a friend. Matured response will be needed from everyone.

Kunle is dating bisi who is 5yrs older than him. He is 32 why she is 37.All has been going very well until he took her to his mum. Bisi family is not disturbed about the age issue. Kunles mum is not in support of the relationship leading to marriage. Both has been courting for 4yrs now. Kunle mum has refused to support him. Kunle does not seem like who is going to age in the next 10yrs (an old man in a young skin), just seeing both of them, u can tell she is matured.

After telling everyone about his ordeal, he seems confused on what to do. He is now afraid of getting married to her for fear of her being unattractive after a few yrs due to the nature of women. He loves her dearly but dont kno wat to do. He has stood by her all these yrs even when such issue was brought up by bisi two yrs ago, he made up his mind that age will always b a number, but now he can't handle the pressures coming in.

What are your suggestion?

Keep your.matters to yourself before someone will bring it up on social media and SAY I AM WRITING ON BEHALF OF A FRIEND.....this is pyre amebo.

XhosaNostra:


What are you dribbling on about? Lisa Bonet, Jason's wife, has no inflated balloons on her chest. She's a natural beauty that he's always had a crush on since his teens. Now she's his wife, finally.

take this phrase to Google:

Lisa Bonnet cosmetic surgery

And see what comes up. Her boobs may not be balloons but they're fake news.

ubunja:
take this phrase to Google:

Lisa Bonnet cosmetic surgery

And see what comes up. Her boobs may not be balloons but they're fake news.

The point is, she doesn't look plastic or like any other woman he could have picked from an array of much younger & more attractive Hollywood starlets.

XhosaNostra:


The point is, she doesn't look plastic or like any other woman he could have picked from an array of much younger & more attractive Hollywood starlets.

oh? So it's okay she had plastic surgery cause SHE DOESNT LOOK PLASTIC??

Lmfao.

What kind of half-baked crazy lunatic dizzy drunk thinking is that??

ubunja:
oh? So it's okay she had plastic surgery cause SHE DOESNT LOOK PLASTIC??

Lmfao.

What kind of half-baked crazy lunatic dizzy drunk thinking is that??

You're missing the point. This is Hollywood we're talking about, where people are nipped, sucked & tucked to every inch of their lives. Lisa on the other hand looks relatively normal by Hollywood standards. Also, he's handsome & wealthy, he could have his pick of women but he chose her, regardless of the fact that she's much older/is no competition to some of the women that he's worked with in his career. THAT, my Zimbabwean friend, is the point.

XhosaNostra:


You're missing the point. This is Hollywood we're talking about, where people are nipped, sucked & tucked to every inch of their lives. Lisa on the other hand looks relatively normal by Hollywood standards. Also, he's handsome & wealthy, he could have his pick of women but he chose her, regardless of the fact that she's much older/is no competition to some of the women that he's worked with in his career. THAT, my Zimbabwean friend, is the point.

so let's not use Hollywood as examples.

ubunja:
so let's not use Hollywood as examples.

Who then should we use? Because celebrities are the only people that we both know. The subject matter here isn't their celebrity status, but the fact that he's unbothered by the age difference & isn't succumbing to any pressure to be with a typical blonde bombshell, as eligible as he is. Now that's amore!

XhosaNostra:


Who then should we use? Because celebrities are the only people that we both know. The subject matter here isn't their celebrity status, but the fact that he's unbothered by the age difference & isn't succumbing to any pressure to be with a typical blonde bombshell, as eligible as he is. Now that's amore!

just stop.

That's enough.

You now chasing your own tail. And it's a loop that wont end.

ubunja:
so let's not use Hollywood as examples.

Connie is also older than Shona, yet they're now a force to be reckoned with. A true power couple.
All these things really don't matter when people have a strong relationship & personality traits that compliment each other.

ubunja:
just stop.

That's enough.

You now chasing your own tail. And it's a loop that wont end.

XhosaNostra:


Connie is also older than Shona, yet they're now a force to be reckoned with. A true power couple.
All these things really don't matter when people have a strong relationship & personality traits that compliment each other.

again, celebrities.



I know women love to have the last word. So this can drag on forever. So I will give you a chance to say the last word. Between me and you on this topic I think I'm done.

I bow out.

ubunja:
again, celebrities.



I know women love to have the last word. So this can drag on forever. So I will give you a chance to say the last word. Between me and you on this topic I think I'm done.

I bow out.

They're also humans at the end of the day. Quit being superficial & find yourself a woman that'll have your back

XhosaNostra:


They're also humans at the end of the day. Quit being superficial & find yourself a woman that'll have your back

don't seek to lecture me just cause I gave you the last word.

are you that stupid?

ubunja:
don't seek to lecture me just cause I gave you the last word.

are you that stupid?

Must you make everything about you? Isn't what I said the crux of why we're having this discussion in the 1st place? On a normal day do I even waste my breath on you & your idiotic beliefs? Didn't think so! Don't provoke me abeg

XhosaNostra:


Must you make everything about you? Isn't what I said the crux of why we're having this discussion in the 1st place? On a normal day do I even waste my breath on you & your idiotic beliefs? Didn't think so! Don't provoke me abeg

don't waste sugar trying to make the sea sweet.


preach to your fellow women.

don't waste a chance I gave you.

sorextee:
As I said earlier, that 22yrs old babe might start having babies at age 39.
All I'm saying is everything works with time.
Someone might become a CEO of a company at 27, then dies at 40. Anoda may become a CEO at 40 and live up to 85yrs.

Well, they say one mans food is anoda man's poison.

What is good for musa might not be good for Mohammed.

I'd rather spend money on young woman's fertility treatment that and old woman.

ubunja:

don't waste sugar trying to make the sea sweet.


preach to your fellow women.

don't waste a chance I gave you.

Tsek!

ubunja:
there's no mention of her sacrificing for him.

But even if she did, she wasn't sacrificing for him. She was BUYING his love.

She should stick to her age level, that's 40 to 50 yr old men.

wow boss, you too much abeg, so how do we different when a woman is sacrificing for our love and when she is buying it

Bright12660:

wow boss, you too much abeg, so how do we different when a woman is sacrificing for our love and when she is buying it

when it's clear she's not taking advantage.
We sacrifice what is valuable. At 37 what does she have that is valuable? Even at 30?

If a woman is at her peak and best, (17-25) and her body at it's best then she gives all she has for you then that's a sacrifice. Cause everyone wants her but she chooses you. Anything after 30 she's just desperate and doesn't wanna die alone.

Men fall in love with their heart, women fall in love with their head, though somehow, society believe the opposite to be true. This young man is sacrificing alot (family pressure, fertility issue, social ostracism) just to be with a woman he loves, meanwhile, I can only imagine if the tables are turned, will a woman in her prime go this extent for a man?

The only reason I will tell him to go ahead with the marriage is if he doesn't want kids. But if he does, well, your love will not redeem you from the realities he will surely pass through. There is a reason why in all cultures, historically, biblically, the females are the youngest. I can only hope that men start being men, and think with their brain instead of heart.

What do we say about the women that are virgins that even in there 20s can't get pregnant not to talk of 37 see every thing is in the hands of God if he loves her to the extend that he want to make her his wife let him go ahead age is nothing but number

sorextee:
As I said earlier, that 22yrs old babe might start having babies at age 39.
All I'm saying is everything works with time.
Someone might become a CEO of a company at 27, then dies at 40. Anoda may become a CEO at 40 and live up to 85yrs.

Well, they say one mans food is anoda man's poison.

What is good for musa might not be good for Mohammed.

Too much sense from this

make she get belle and wed na.
by the way is fertility the issue?
why did she divorced in the first place?

lyndaway:
What do we say about the women that are virgins that even in there 20s can't get pregnant not to talk of 37 see every thing is in the hands of God if he loves her to the extend that he want to make her his wife let him go ahead age is nothing but number

..lol..age is nothing but a number u say??...
..oya let them wait for another decade and see if that statement remains valid.
all those women wey don enta demurrage... the Lord is ur strength.