silverkings:
I hope you're not One?

TheWrita:
Said it before and I will say it again.
Guys should just be themselves but the operative word here is DECENT.
If you are a pig,be a decent pig.
Just be your true self at the core.
All this write ups don't work.
Women don't even know what they want lol.
Be yourself!
..you will get the girl/woman that will rhyme with you.

pansophist:
Dont lump all female in the same category. From my experience, a woman's dream man is largely determined by her age, or to bluntly put, if she is still at the age of male abundance (16-29), or age of male decline (35 upwards).

The former will see such trait the poster describe as weakness, as she most likely is still attracted to the proverbial bad boys, she is super picky and egoistic, while the latter will appreciate it more, due to being mature and have passed through the abundance phase, and can differentiate with accurate precision that a homely man is not weak, especially when he is reasonably well-established.

princfred:

You don share my comments so tee I just have to follow you to reciprocate. Thanks

dancok:
Have sent u a DM,let talk am the type.

Mcslize:
A man that doesn't give a fvck!

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

cooooooks:
Who are you and why would you have such false hopes?

akinade28:
Though we are all ladies, we prefer or want different things in a man, so it is relative. Most of our choices are dependent on age or maturity, background, environment sometimes religion.
Some ladies prefer good guys others want bad guys.
Some ladies wants a guy that will be all over them, some prefer a guy that wont be too attached to them or choke them.
Some want a man that is totally faithful to them, while some don't mind sharing a man with other ladies or becoming second or third wives
Some want a man that can help with domestic activities, some see it as a form of weaknesses because they have never seen their father do such.
A lot of our preference changes as we grow older.

obembet:
Simple, faithful and God'sfearing guy

silverkings:

Quite sad

Authority1o1:
I had an encounter which left me almost at a point of dilemma. I saw a post of a man who would do almost anything for his woman.

He would wash her clothes, cook for her and obey almost all her wishes.

Some ladies condemned that character in a man, calling him a sissy, while some applauded the man, calling him every woman's dream.

So,my cause of confusion is, why are some ladies so receptive of that character and some rejective. of same?

And I ask my fellow nairalanders,what type of man exactly do ladies like.

emmaodet:


Thanks bro.
When i see good comments, i don't hesitate to share them.
Nairaland/romance section as really opened my eyes to realities about man/woman and it really hurts to know that majority of our ladies will let-go us when there is no more money

Magnoliaa:




wow... you're basing your worldview about relationships on the comments you've read on here?

Okay oh.

akinade28:
Abeg o, lemme just keep it to myself, I know some sadist nairaland guys will come and yab me to get "likes" and "shares" no matter, how good or bad my choices are. I don't want unnecessary trouble abeg.

pansophist:
Dont lump all female in the same category. From my experience, a woman's dream man is largely determined by her age, or to bluntly put, if she is still at the age of male abundance (16-29), or age of male decline (35 upwards).

The former will see such trait the poster describe as weakness, as she most likely is still attracted to the proverbial bad boys, she is super picky and egoistic, while the latter will appreciate it more, due to being mature and have passed through the abundance phase, and can differentiate with accurate precision that a homely man is not weak, especially when he is reasonably well-established.

glink2015:

So which one do you want?
Trust me, I want to help you submit your prefer guy to husband market for further information and action...