Hypnotism:
Now that is over estimating ones self.

That's the point of the thread after all

drealcivilceno:

Many Ex-s said that years ago. I hope you are worth it truly.

...

XhosaNostra:


Oh well. Luckily for me, my self-worth isn't attached to sex. If I was part of his sex play, then he was part of mine too...a field practice so to speak, so I can satisfy my future spouse with the couple of tricks learned in the process

Look, I live my life how I wanna live my life. I know what things are important to me in a relationship.

a field practice.


Smh


This girl will kill someone here one day

healthserve:




a field practice.


Smh


This girl will kill someone here one day

But isn't dating sometimes referred to as "playing the field"? If we didn't end up getting married, then we were just each other's target practice. No harm, no foul.

XhosaNostra:


But isn't dating sometimes referred to as "playing the field"? If we didn't end up getting married, then we were just each other's target practice. No harm, no foul.

I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship.

We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me"

why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck.,

fuckboys:
I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship.

We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me"

why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck.,

Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs.

XhosaNostra:


But isn't dating sometimes referred to as "playing the field"? If we didn't end up getting married, then we were just each other's target practice. No harm, no foul.

Damn it. This chick's blunt to the " T "

healthserve:





Damn it. This chick's blunt to the " T "

It is the truth though. I can't be mad over something I also participated in, it doesn't make sense. I think the thing that hurts most ladies (myself included) are the charades some guys put on, in order to get a woman to open up her heart & her legs for them.

missjo:

Break it down further chief

You asked for it ooh.

You have a dog, not our kind of local dog ooh!, you feed it and clean after it.

It protects you and will give up its life for you coz that is their nature. Higher animal(you) lower animal(dog).

The truth is that even if it will give its life up for you, you can never put in charge right because he is a dog, yeah and it has its use.

The way you see life is not the same way a man see it.

You have understand how men and humans think.

Xhosa said she made them feel like men(what we want), lol coz like she said it is like our drug, and her game is to get the man hooked and she gets honesty ( what she wants) from them in return which every woman must learn to use to their advantage because most girls do not possess.

Total manipulation right, A game right?

e.g. there is a very heavy load you cannot carry, instead of "honey help me carry this load", say " babe, you having been looking muscular recently", touching and admiring his biceps, wait for him to digest it, and launch what you want. He will carry it for you and ask if you want to carry something else but remember to use this right cos it may backfire ooh!

All i am saying is everyone can never be the same, use what you have to achieve an more fufilling and honourable end.

fuckboys:
I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship.

We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me"

why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck.,

Jesu Christi... They have given up ooh coz they do not know the use of a relationship anymore. Their law has bastardize the main intent of it ooh.

XhosaNostra:


Just because you can't or won't, it doesn't mean the rest of us shouldn't. In any case, how does my post affect you? It doesn't. So your thoughts on it are therefore irrelevant. Consider them disregarded, in fact, because you're a nonentity to me.[b] If this came from someone I have dated, [/b]perhaps I'd retract but you're just a nosey nobody who decided to feel some type of way on a matter that doesn't even concern you. Oh & I don't need to show my face in order to have a say. I do have a presence now & that's all I'm choosing to represent the person behind the name
I will never fùck you though, so it can only remain just that, a sickening idea in your perverted mind. How you people manage to turn everything about fùcking really boggles the mind.

sorry my response keeps coming late some of us actually av a real life, u're lonely i understand how much solace online appraisal gives you, as for the embolded, seems everything about you is in the past, accept our condolences. .. buh my dear life is not about alway having something to say, Life is about having something to show.
your sense did make up for the ugliness u are hiding ... jus been romantic

ericsmith:




sorry my response keeps coming late some of us actually av a real life, u're lonely i understand how much solace online appraisal gives to you, as for the embolded, seems everything about you is in the past, accept our condolences. .. buh my dear life is not about alway having something to say, Life is about having something to show.
your sense did make up for the ugliness u are hiding ... jus been romantic

Looooool. If you knew me, you wouldn't have dribbled the bolded. I get enough attention from those that matter to me, to ever care about meaningless appraisals from unknowns. I roll solo, both on & offline, but I can't help that people gravitate towards me like flies to a steaming pile of shìt. Me na Princess Charming now I gots charisma It's not my fault, it's genetic It runs in the blood of my people. You better ask somebody!
Life is about something to show, perhaps to you. Some of us don't need to prove anything to anyone because we live life by completely different rules. I strictly live by my own rules, nobody else dictates how I should live.
I don't care about the last part of your post because it has no relevance to anything. Just say you want to see what I look like instead of all these weak jabs you're taking.

XhosaNostra:
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high
I've left many a junkies in my wake

am seriously lost here but your choice of words caught my attention. ... sometimes I even wonder who calls naija youths lazy when we have such people like U n ubunja

XhosaNostra:


Looooool. If you knew me, you wouldn't have dribbled the bolded. I get enough attention from those that matter to me, to ever care about meaningless appraisals from unknowns. I roll solo, both on & offline, but I can't help that people gravitate towards me like flies to a steaming pile of shìt. Me na Princess Charming now I gots charisma It's not my fault, it's genetic It runs in the blood of my people. You better ask somebody!
Life is about something to show, perhaps to you. Some of us don't need to prove anything to anyone because we live life by completely different rules. I strictly live by my own rules, nobody else dictates how I should live.
I don't care about the last part of your post because it has no relevance to anything. Just say you want to see what I look like instead of all these weak jabs you're taking.

You mean attention like men zipping down n showing u there dvcks in public ... that say alots about you.
well "show" in my context is not about what you display ... i meant what people can see without you avin to laud yourself everytime.
I didnt even ask you for info ... yet u gave so much like you're applying for a r/ship, even if i see ur face or body ... what can i possibly do with it, you flatter yourself way too much no wonder u're alone.

ericsmith:




sorry my response keeps coming late some of us actually av a real life, u're lonely i understand how much solace online appraisal gives you, as for the embolded, seems everything about you is in the past, accept our condolences. .. buh my dear life is not about alway having something to say, Life is about having something to show.
your sense did make up for the ugliness u are hiding ... jus been romantic

What is your problem?

fuckboys:
I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship.

We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me"

why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck.,

Environment & social conditioning matters a great deal, Nigerian chics will never be SA chics

I noticed something on this topic tho, xhosanostra had the boldness to list the qualities why she should not be cheated on and you boys are all over her sexy ass trying to do God knows what.

Come on fellas, say something about why you think no girl has a right to cheat on you & leave my girl alone At least someone mentioned his diick and the things he provides which is more than i can say for the rest of you.

Where are the naija ladies here? You girls are killing me. Tell this boys whachu gots

drealcivilceno:

You asked for it ooh.

You have a dog, not our kind of local dog ooh!, you feed it and clean after it.

It protects you and will give up its life for you coz that is their nature. Higher animal(you) lower animal(dog).

The truth is that even if it will give its life up for you, you can never put in charge right because he is a dog, yeah and it has its use.

The way you see life is not the same way a man see it.

You have understand how men and humans think.

Xhosa said she made them feel like men(what we want), lol coz like she said it is like our drug, and her game is to get the man hooked and she gets honesty ( what she wants) from them in return which every woman must learn to use to their advantage because most girls do not possess.

Total manipulation right, A game right?

e.g. there is a very heavy load you cannot carry, instead of "honey help me carry this load", say " babe, you having been looking muscular recently", touching and admiring his biceps, wait for him to digest it, and launch what you want. He will carry it for you and ask if you want to carry something else but remember to use this right cos it may backfire ooh!

All i am saying is everyone can never be the same, use what you have to achieve an more fufilling and honourable end.

Wow,a robust breakdown indeed. What I'm gleaning from your response is that a man should not be cheated on no matter what?
Am i on track?

rex444:
am seriously lost here but your choice of words caught my attention. ... sometimes I even wonder who calls naija youths lazy when we have such people like U n ubunja

Lol,they are not naijans

What are you lost on? Her post which you quoted, or the original topic & content?

Oluwadamilare118:


Smile.. Then.

Hope to be in a new relationship!

I wish you good luck

Truthsbitter:

But she wouldn't know if she was cheated on if the attention given to her was just perfect.

You must be a renowned playboy to type this

missjo:

I wish you good luck

Thank you!

missjo:

Lol,they are not naijans

What are you lost on? Her post which you quoted, or the original topic & content?

the original topic n content oooo.... Really they are not from naija ? Well they are still Africans ....we are truly blessed

ericsmith:




You mean attention like men zipping down n showing u there dvcks in public ... that say alots about you.
well "show" in my context is not about what you display ... i meant what people can see without you avin to laud yourself everytime.
I didnt even ask you for info ... yet u gave so much like you're applying for a r/ship, even if i see ur face or body ... what can i possibly do with it, you flatter yourself way too much no wonder u're alone.

Now you're beginning to sound just like a mouth-breathing idiot. Perhaps you're one of them crazies because how else would one explain why you seem to be taking things that happen in my life so personally? We're not an item, papa, chill. Whether I "enjoy" that or not, it doesn't concern you. Is it your enjoyment? Taking panadol for another man's headache. Yes, another man, let that sink in. I do have a man. I'm not interested in you.

missjo:
I noticed something on this topic tho, xhosanostra had the boldness to list the qualities why she should not be cheated on and you boys are all over her sexy ass trying to do God knows what.

Come on fellas, say something about why you think no girl has a right to cheat on you & leave my girl alone At least someone mentioned his diick and the things he provides which is more than i can say for the rest of you.

Where are the naija ladies here? You girls are killing me. Tell this boys whachu gots

Exactly! There's probably nothing good to say, so don't mind them lol.

missjo:

What is your problem?

how to produce ,what to produce & for whom to produce ....


nice body tho could av cross the ocean 4 you buh small tits is a barrier, dear don't even try to overestimate

XhosaNostra:


Now you're beginning to sound just like a [b]mouth-breathi[/b]ng idiot. Perhaps you're one of them crazies because how else would one explain why you seem to be taking things that happen in my life so personally? We're not an item, papa, chill. Whether I "enjoy" that or not, it doesn't concern you. Is it your enjoyment? Taking panadol for another man's headache. Yes, another man, let that sink in. I do have a man. I'm not interested in you.

Sorry 4 d delay, had to help one babe with her bra hook & blouse zip.. from d ass to d neck.. i can't fathom y u keep tellin me alot about yourselve women luv black bra
perhaps you stink, that explains why humans breath with there mouth becos they had to block there nose darling crazy is an understatement ...maybe "twisted"..why take tinz personal with a faceless tin ..u waank alot dear. just like every low reasoning gurls, every conversation means he is trying to toaste me, every guy shows u dvck in public,they want to fvck me.. its just a way of quantifying how less u worth, i can comprehend u av a man buh why i should envy a blind man is what i can never comprehend, where is ur brain av seen too much of ur pvssy 4 a day.

ericsmith:



Sorry 4 d delay, had to help one babe with her bra hook & blouse zip.. from d ass to d neck.. i can't fathom y u keep tellin me alot about yourselve women luv black bra
perhaps you stink, that explains why humans breath with there mouth becos they had to block there nose darling crazy is an understatement ...maybe "twisted"..why take tinz personal with a faceless tin ..u self-service alot dear. just like every low reasoning gurls, every conversation means he is trying to toaste me, every guy shows u dvck in public,they want to fvck me.. its just a way of quantifying how less u worth, i can comprehend u av a man buh why i should envy a blind man is what i can never comprehend, where is ur brain av seen too much of ur pvssy 4 a day.

Lol, what a fool. Scram.

missjo:

Wow,a robust breakdown indeed. What I'm gleaning from your response is that a man should not be cheated on no matter what?
Am i on track?

Yes, although there exceptions. Men have what a woman wants marriage, (his heart or even if they say marriage is not everything) and women have what a man wants sex, (a chaste body for himself).

N.B Marriage and sex is not everything, but is the most notable of values when it comes to a relationship

People are going to step out of line, whether you like it or not. Just draw the line when it comes the things you want the most(your values and no two persons value are the same)

and please be self esteemed abeg(to know who want to be), how high or low is up to you. it is very important.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, what a fool. Scram.

finally i brought out d real you pvssy forming brain

rex444:
the original topic n content oooo.... Really they are not from naija ? Well they are still Africans ....we are truly blessed

Okay about the topic & content, i basically just wanted any willing participant to talk about those qualities they possess that is enough reason for them not to be cheated on. In other words,validate yourself without overestimating yourself, which is why i said VISIBLE reasons as opposed to imaginary ones.

XhosaNostra:


Exactly! There's probably nothing good to say, so don't mind them lol.

It's amazing,it really is.
Love how you handled yourself by the way