What is that issue in your relationship that worries you so much, you want good counsel for?

You want advice on something in your relationship but you feel it is not so big to disturb nairaland for yet it disturb you so much.

You have gotten advice but you still want to go deeper and bare it or with a knowledgeable one for counsel.

Or you just need to talk to someone to ease the pain in you.
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Are you aware your child like you have a love language with which he receives and communicate love?

Do you know you can love your child and your child knows it without doubt but still doesn't feel loved?
Most parents love their kids unconditionally but not most kids feel same especially as they grow into their teenage years because it is not received in their own terms or desired behaviour. Saying I love you doesn't sufficiently pass the message. Providing basic needs should not make the children automatically accept or receive their parent's unconditional love. Still most parents show their unconditional love conditionally by only giving gifts, rewards etc when a child behave in a desired way.



Children are emotional beings, their first understanding of the world is emotional, even foetus react to anger or happiness of their mother. A child may notice his parents anger or happiness before them. So also your child perceives your love from his primary love language.



A well loved child will channel anger positively. A child or teen is more likely to consider and accept your suggestions when he perceives your love is genuine and consistent. Communicating your child's love language doesn't mean your child won't rebel later but it does brings security, hope and help them grow to responsible adults.



What a child most deeply crave to food, house, clothing, mental and emotional need is security. Security helps a child to develop rational skills, not to be withdrawn or too controlling or authoritative; putting others down to get their own needs.

To be continued..

What is that issue in your relationship that worries you so much, you want good counsel for?

You want advice on something in your relationship but you feel it is not so big to disturb nairaland for yet it disturb you so much.

You have gotten advice but you still want to go deeper and bare it or with a knowledgeable one for counsel.

Or you just need to talk to someone to ease the pain in you.
Send a mail to marketthe1960@gmail.com