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22 Obvious Reason's Not To Get Married!! by konnetu: 8:30am On Sep 14, 2019
If you take 10 divorced women and ask them whether they believed on their wedding day that they were marrying the right guy for the right reasons, seven of them would say yes, and three will confess they had serious doubts long before walking down the aisle. That's the shocking truth for 30% of divorced women."
Hearing statistics like that sound shocking in this day and age. We choose whom to marry, yet many people in retrospect knew they should not get married before their wedding day.


Cold feet might amount to nothing, but it may also be that you need to take a serious look at this critical decision you are making in your life.
If you have already made the proposal or accepted one, you owe it to your betrothed to analyze your motivation and have that person do likewise. A longer period of engagement or time spent dating might be the right course of action.

22 Obvious Wrong Reasons People get married!!

1.You feel too guilty or ashamed to back out when plagued with doubt.

2.You are willing to gamble on your future spouse changing or having potential.

3.To be free from parents.

4. To have sex.

5.To ease loneliness.

6.To be happy.

7.To show you are an adult.

8.Because of a pregnancy.

9. Just because he or she loves you.

10. Save, rescue, or help someone.

11. Because you want a baby.

12. For money.

13. Because all your friends are married.

14. You've always wanted a fancy wedding. Or to wear a fancy dress.

15. Out of fear that no one else will want to marry you.

16. You think you are running out of time to get married.

17. To have someone to "complete" you.

18. For immigration purposes.

19. You are tired of being single.

20. Someone is pressuring you into getting married.

21. You don't want people gossiping about the two of you living together.

22.To get health or insurance benefits from the spouse's employer.

Married Couples in-house please come and share your positiveness reason's you get married so we the single ones could learn,I believe one can achieve all good things marriage could offer even not been in on
Re: 22 Obvious Reason's Not To Get Married!! by Innomama7(m): 8:40am On Sep 14, 2019
true talk

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