#MAKING_MARRIAGE_WORK_AND_SWEET

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It takes more than beauty and handsomeness to make marriage work and sweet.
In fact let me be sincere with you, marriage is hard work, if you are not ready to work it out or make it work it might be very difficult for it to be sweet and blissful.

Yesterday i mentioned 5 of the things do to in making your marriage to work and sweet, so here are another 5 key points to add to the previous ones i gave yesterday.
Alright here we go......

1. HUMILITY: It is an essential character to build a successful marriage. Relate and speak with all humility. Humility will get you attached to your spouse while pride will make you repulsive to him/her. Come down, bow down to your spouse level if you want them to stick to you forever. Humility and submissive wives don’t get beaten by their husbands. Be humble as a man enough to take to correction too. Be humble enough to allow our wife to speak while you listen to him. It takes a humble woman to win the heart of her husband.

2. POSITIVE THINKING: Positive thinkers don’t get negative results. Think positively about your marriage, it will not break; strange women will not push you out. Your marriage will last. Think positively about your wife or husband they will stick to you; stop thinking about malice, retaliation or vengeance. Think well of him and he will treat you well.

3. BOLDNESS: It takes boldness to take bold steps and it takes steps to get greater results. You need boldness to become a successful merchant/career woman in order to supplement the family finance. You need boldness to stand and fight for your marriage when the strange women were troubling you. It takes boldness to remain in your marriage no matter how long you have trusted the Lord for the fruit of the womb because God will soon answer you.

4. FORGIVENESS: Offending and forgiving are two courses you must offer if your marriage must succeed. And you must not fail in these two courses. If you fail, your marriage cannot but be rocky or end in divorce. Create a part in your heart to accommodate because your spouse will definitely offend you and you must continue to forgive him/her. Love cannot flow in the heart that keeps malice. Forgive your husband/wife no matter the offence. Forgiveness attitude will help you understand each other better and your marriage rock solid. Forgive, stop keeping malice. Virtuous women and valiant men forgive each other.

5. DILIGENCE: Many people have loosed their marriage because of laziness. Most men today are not looking for full-time housewives like before , they want hardworking wives who can contribute to the family income. Women, quit the lazy business. Get yourself engage in doing something worthwhile. Men who are lazy can't keep a home working, i know men in part of my country Nigeria that don't work only their women labour to sustain the family, honestly this is 21st century it's gradually fading away because nothing works until you work.

#NOTE Taking from my book making marriage work.
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#Let_Us_Pray Dear Heavenly Father help me to make my marriage work and sweet, make my marriage a blessing to others and to your glory in Jesus name Amen.
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