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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Mariangeles(f): 1:00pm On Sep 26, 2019
0KNM:
‘With all due respect sir, you are an Idiot’ - Seun, 2014

I almost cried
He must have been a bigger idiot, whoever he is, to have respected an idiot !

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by skyplustk(f): 1:01pm On Sep 26, 2019
I could remember d day my mum said dey will be using me to abuse her in town and some other harsh words just because I wasn't dressing d way she expected since I got married not knowing my husband lost his job and I was just a private school teacher. I cried my eyes out I was nursing a baby and was gradually falling into depression I nearly regretted my marriage and giving birth as well. Just praying to God to give me and my husband a stable job. I want to prove to her DT we are not a failure

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by adesmarty: 1:08pm On Sep 26, 2019
If I drop mine from mum and dad alone
I fit begin shed tears
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by samuelchimmy(m): 1:30pm On Sep 26, 2019
MrHighSea:

There're some things you don't wait till you're told.

Except the person was blind to ur efforts or you're always in need of things beyond ur means.

she got a job, and I just lost my job then, (I was only trying to caution her of how she has changed within a few weeks of getting a job buying clothes and expensive perfumes every Friday, when she said those hurtful words)

(I was there for her when she had no job, encouraging her and uplifting her soul, including financial inputs, I was totally there for her, no questions)

But when she got a job, she started rolling with different set of people, I shake my head and moved on, it wasn't long before I got back to track and she lost her job also because of her carelessness,
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by sylve11: 1:33pm On Sep 26, 2019
KVN1:

if you were doing those, I don't think you'd have time to reply..


grin grin cool
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by samuelchimmy(m): 1:40pm On Sep 26, 2019
Charis15:
My ex told my dad and I quote "I know God is the giver of Children but she can never have a child"
Well God who is the giver of Children proved him wrong and gave me mine. I will still have more.
what did you do

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by samuelchimmy(m): 1:41pm On Sep 26, 2019
Chiefochiefo:
I was invited for interview sometime ago, I bought new suit, pure white long sleeve shirt, new tie, new shoe, woke up 5am, got there by 6am, only for the so called interviewer to tell me that in their kind of job I don't need suit and expensive dresses. Then I ask what kind of job is that? He said GNLD. Shit!!! I almost fainted.
embarassed damn
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 26, 2019
Somehow In between our chats I called her dumb playfully...

This is what I got

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by creepsyme(f): 1:47pm On Sep 26, 2019
pcguru1:


Wait o, Its only for people that need to hear the truth, I dont just talk loosely but sometimes some harsh truth needs to be said. When I was younger people will tell me the harsh truth, but this era everyone wants to be cuddled
I hear you.

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by samuelchimmy(m): 1:50pm On Sep 26, 2019
Trex4:
Mine was when I went to my school ict center to make an inquiry. I was new then so I had to ask some questions. I met two of the computer handlers discussing with an elderly woman. So I waited for them to finished talking so I could ask them about something. Actually after the woman left the two computer handlers (girls) continued discussing as if they didn't see me at all and when I grew tired of waiting I actually said please excuse me and one fair girl responded is something wrong with you? I just immediately left.....i Sha talked to a older woman at the counter and she directed me calmly.

Man why are human beings just so rude and heartless? Especially to emotional people?
man, your composure gave you away, once you in come into a corperate environment like this, and there is no queue, if the workers are discussing, whatever it may be, don't just stand there waiting for them to finish, you will be giving them too much respect, by so doing,

so once you work in command their attention... And speak boldly like your papa is dangote cool shocked

When they said that,
You should looked side ways and asked
Are you talking to me?

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by RCDIY(m): 1:57pm On Sep 26, 2019
My ex once asked me what my plan for us was for the future.
I honestly answered 'finish our MSc program and get married. The foolish girl then retorted 'and live with what?! Love and sunshine?'

Wetin pain me be say na she ask me question o!

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by kamat01: 2:05pm On Sep 26, 2019
After finishing having raw sex with my girlfriend of 5years she tell me she is HIV positive
Thinking of taking my life
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Sep 26, 2019
Mariangeles:

He must have been a bigger idiot, whoever he is, to have respected an idiot !
Who else if not the arrogant owner of this forum

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Gracesofar(m): 2:11pm On Sep 26, 2019
Mine is the reason I came this far.
Like 11 years ago or so. After secondary school,I wanted getting admission to Nda and I kept trying. After 4 years I still haven't gotten it or had anything to show after ssce and I was 20+. I had an argument with my sister who was doing her MSC and had a good job. She is older than me with just 2 years and a year senior in secondary school.
The argument degenerated into something. And I remembered her telling me upon all your years in life you have nothing to show for it. Just Ssce well all fingers won't be equal though. out of 4 of us kids, if 3 becomes something big its an A to mum. Men it was an uppercut. I got the admission the following year. And those words motivates me to finish the NDA compendium 8 times within a 2 month time frame that served as a catalyst to getting my admission. And my best song then was WHEN AM BACK ON MY FEET AGAIN BY MICHEAL BOLTON grin

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Gracesofar(m): 2:19pm On Sep 26, 2019
Blackivy29:
some moniker was feeling foolish. Though i was S.African. Oversabee

another was for bashing a guy. He reported. Who does that?

After reading this I like you already grin cheesy. The who does that part got me laughing
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by luminouz(m): 2:26pm On Sep 26, 2019
DarlingEmojist:
The most painful word was when a Lady called me on the street and told me that she Like my teeth,i was shocked and asked that what is special in the teeth...

She said it's her best colour deep yellow

I was like ROCK OF AGES SWEAR FOR HER,LET HER HANG HERSELF ON TREE ....

I laughed out so loud I almost choked.
Her words and yours were crazily hilarious

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by luminouz(m): 2:29pm On Sep 26, 2019
spiceadole:


My father used to sing that anthem and chorus to me..Always telling me I'm useless.
Today,I am a medical doctor practising in Norwich, UK.
And he is a poverty stricken disease bedridden loser in a leaking house in the village.

Who is useless now?

You didn't win anything bro.

You took your genes from him and if you're successful, its partly and indirectly due to his genetic makeup you inherited. He pushed you to succeed, albeit abusively.
Vengeance is a sword without a hilt,it hurts both ways.

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by JayPeeOham: 2:30pm On Sep 26, 2019
mastermaestro:


You are right bro. Negative words from a loved one can damage one's psyche for a long time. Unfortunately so many people do not weigh words before dropping them like bombs.

cheesy cool
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by JayPeeOham: 2:36pm On Sep 26, 2019
1Sharon:


Na wa. I'm a woman but why are some girlfriends obnoxious like this?

@Sharon am sure u're not one of those obnoxious girls right?
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by IAmRoot(m): 2:37pm On Sep 26, 2019
Chuvin22:
Somehow In between our chats I called her dumb playfully...

This is what I got
dude. I need that font badly
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by DarlingEmojist(m): 3:17pm On Sep 26, 2019
luminouz:

I laughed out so loud I almost choked. Her words and yours were crazily hilarious
We know that you know English pass People wey create English itself. Abeg let us say what we can say
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Sep 26, 2019
i heard my father's wife telling someone that i dont know, it is the child that his mother is living with the father that is real child.
this pained me small but what will I do.

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by wabbyland(m): 3:27pm On Sep 26, 2019
I'm corrected my friend's grammatical expression and the next thing he said was "you always do as if you're the best and know it all". he pronounced chaos as cha-os and heist as hayst. I stopped talking to for some time and now I don't correct him any more
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Bryan88(m): 3:31pm On Sep 26, 2019
Guest007:
My sister told me: "You can do whatever you like now that your mother is dead" She meant that I wished for our mother's death. I began questioning myself and fell into depression.

I didn't speak to her for 10+ years after that.

We cool now but that's the worst thing anyone ever said to me...
that could kill bro & one cud live with that 4 d rest of his life...i mean, that ur sis is very mean.
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Sep 26, 2019
DarlingEmojist:
The most painful word was when a Lady called me on the street and told me that she Like my teeth,i was shocked and asked that what is special in the teeth...

She said it's her best colour deep yellow

I was like ROCK OF AGES SWEAR FOR HER,LET HER HANG HERSELF ON TREE ....
Nawa for her o
that could hurt now
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Adroit144(m): 3:36pm On Sep 26, 2019
KVN1:

if you were doing those, I don't think you'd have time to reply..
thank you o

Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by DarlingEmojist(m): 3:43pm On Sep 26, 2019
organism3:
Nawa for her o that could hurt now
The ghe wey no sef know me B4 They send her ni Dont worry I know how to deal with them,they are much in my area
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by galaxi(m): 3:51pm On Sep 26, 2019
Are you really proud of this post?
I can’t take any statement from my parents to heart.
Making them comfortable is my priority in life.

spiceadole:


My father used to sing that anthem and chorus to me..Always telling me I'm useless.
Today,I am a medical doctor practising in Norwich, UK.
And he is a poverty stricken disease bedridden loser in a leaking house in the village.

Who is useless now?
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Sep 26, 2019
Rubyventures:


It must have been the grieve talking, people grieve in different ways and sometimes they lash out to those closest to them.

That was it... Both sisters took their grief out on me... Many years later it plays on their conscious so lesson learnt on their side. It's not good to lash out at others, it's not excusable.

Her words had life long effects.
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Bryan88:
that could kill bro & one cud live with that 4 d rest of his life...i mean, that ur sis is very mean.

It's a lesson in the affects of words. She didn't mean it to hurt the way it did and in hindsight she might have been projecting her feelings on me...

Like I said we cool now... She's an amazing mother and wife and role model, she just let her mouth run with her.
Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by luminouz(m): 5:28pm On Sep 26, 2019
DarlingEmojist:


We know that you know English pass People wey create English itself.
Abeg let us say what we can say
I meant the the scenario is funny.
Dafuq u saying about English and all that? undecided

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Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by 1Sharon(f): 5:32pm On Sep 26, 2019
0KNM:
Who else if not the arrogant owner of this forum

Is this real

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