Mehn labour pain is not any ones mate ,all mothers are my heroine it’s not easy bringing forth another human ,my next child I’ll just flow with the doctor .after I screamed my longs out during labour am not sure I can do that again .

Women are powerful.

I signed the document for CS twice.

The first surgery wasn't planned as every process before delivery went on well. No negative scan results or anything that signaled we were to prepare for CS. Suddenly, her water broke, yet there wasn't contraction. Since it was my first time of such experience, I rushed her to the hospital cos I wasn't prepared to bury any of them.

After about two days in the hospital, the doctor called for a scan and suggest that the fluid was becoming low. He called for CS if we wanted the baby to stay alive. I didn't think it twice.

Told my wife all was going to be okay. Tears rolled down my eyes even as I was encouraging her. I fought to hold it back, but it rolled until she was wheeled into the theatre.

I was damn afraid. I stayed beside the window of the theater. I just needed to be sure I wasn't going to bury any of my loved ones. Fear gripped me even as I was confident God would see them through.

Both of them made it. Very stubborn a boy. After two years, the second baby came. This time around, we opted for CS cos I had a colleague who lost his wife as a result of ruptured uterus. I didn't want to hear bad news. So, we called for it in a private hospital and that was best decision. I have hanged my boot after two babies. I can't withstand my wife passing through the pain of pregnancy again. Her pregnancy period was always a trying period for me. No one deserves to lose a baby after the months of pain.