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Am Confuse,pls Help by Temmysexy1(f): 2:46pm On Nov 06, 2010
Hi
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by desertboom(m): 3:21pm On Nov 06, 2010
Hahahaha, I'm sorry for laughing but the truth must be told. You knew all along that he is not a graduate, not trustworthy, you don't understand him much yet you allowed him to do introduction and the wedding is march next year. I laugh you because you don't know what you want. May I (we) know your age.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Dsense(m): 3:34pm On Nov 06, 2010
Op,
It would be better if u can study him for a while before going for the wedding.

desertboom:

Hahahaha, I'm sorry for laughing but the truth must be told. You knew all along that he is not a graduate, not trustworthy, you don't understand him much yet you allowed him to do introduction and the wedding is march next year. I laugh you because you don't know what you want. May I (we) know your age.
Read the thread again nd u will get her age. nd stop laffing
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Yorisb: 4:17pm On Nov 06, 2010
Temmysexy1:

Am a beautiful lady in my early thirty,a graduate,i met a guy (a pastor) abt 5 mths ago,he is caring,loving n above he hav d fear of GOD, because he said no sex until afta d wedding, d wedding is march next yr,he has done d introductn ie btw d 2 families.my worries is dt: 1. he is nt a graduate. 2.what i feel 4 him i dont know how 2 describe it,whether is love or infatuatn because i always want him 2 b by my side everytym. 3.i dont trust him,because am a jealous lover, i see some girls dt cums around him 4 counselling. Pls i need advice on what 2 do.

Which is the problem - the fact that he isn't a graduate, u being a jealous lover and/or his harmless(?) counselling towards women? undecided

. . .but wait a min, did I just read that you're above 30? Blimey! Get your priorities right my friend. Mtchewwww!

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Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by MrsEve: 4:19pm On Nov 06, 2010
undecided undecided
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by omega25red(m): 4:26pm On Nov 06, 2010
Temmysexy1:

Am a beautiful lady in my early thirty,a graduate,i met a guy (a pastor) abt 5 mths ago,he is caring,loving n above he hav d fear of GOD, because he said no sex until afta d wedding, d wedding is march next yr,he has done d introductn ie btw d 2 families.my worries is dt: 1. he is nt a graduate. 2.what i feel 4 him i dont know how 2 describe it,whether is love or infatuatn because i always want him 2 b by my side everytym. 3.i dont trust him,because am a jealous lover, i see some girls dt cums around him 4 counselling. Pls i need advice on what 2 do.
im not so sure that you are ready to get married because you have some issues to work out. the best thing is to talk to your man explain your concerns and work out a compromise between the two of you. Make sure you are fix these issues before you go ahead with the wedding because if you don't you might not be happy in your marriage
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Coolabbie: 4:30pm On Nov 06, 2010
I believe u tink its all moving fast 4 u. So why dont u take a break & figure out wat it is u want 4rm d relationship.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Rhymez(m): 4:38pm On Nov 06, 2010
@poster. I think you need your husband-to-be to give you counselling on marriage. You need to be careful this period or you end up losing him.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by omega25red(m): 4:47pm On Nov 06, 2010
Rhymez:

@poster. I think you need your husband-to-be to give you counselling on marriage. You need to be careful this period or you end up losing him.
your statement is the true definition of conflict of interest how can her fiancee be the one to give her marriage counselling? just because he is a pastor doesn't make him an expert on marriage besides he has never been married before so what does he know about it? it's like saying a a dentist should work on his own cavities it's just a ridiculous idea. And for you to say she will end up loosing him is grin she is a graduate she probably has a job and she can probably live independently. the guy is a pastor, no education and no real job if anything he should be scared of loosing her
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Specialist900(m): 4:53pm On Nov 06, 2010
Tick says the clock, tick, tick what you have to do do quick.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Rhymez(m): 4:57pm On Nov 06, 2010
@omega. She needs help in all perspective and I have given mine so whats your problem? grin
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by omega25red(m): 5:13pm On Nov 06, 2010
Rhymez:

@omega. She needs help in all perspective and I have given mine so whats your problem? grin
grin no problem here o oga no vex
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by iice(f): 9:26am On Nov 07, 2010
I don't know how you people do all these getting married with reservations meanwhile your partner is oblivious.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by CrazyMan(m): 10:14am On Nov 07, 2010
Temmysexy1:

Am a beautiful lady in my early thirty,a graduate,i met a guy (a pastor) abt 5 mths ago,he is caring,loving n above he hav d fear of GOD, because he said no sex until afta d wedding, d wedding is march next yr,he has done d introductn ie btw d 2 families.my worries is dt: 1. he is nt a graduate. 2.what i feel 4 him i dont know how 2 describe it,whether is love or infatuatn because i always want him 2 b by my side everytym. 3.i dont trust him,because am a jealous lover, i see some girls dt cums around him 4 counselling. Pls i need advice on what 2 do.
My dear your write-up is really getting me confused.

How would you agree to a guys proposal when deep down in your heart, you still have your doubts?

You followed him to his house and took him to your home for introduction; and you can’t tell if you’re in love with him?

I would suggest that you make up your mind on what you want because as you can see, you’re not getting any younger and time is no longer on your side. If you keep acting like a high school girl, you might end up loosing him.

So make up your mind on what you want for yourself while there’s still time.

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Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by no1madman(m): 10:47am On Nov 07, 2010
Nor b 2day confusion start! E DON TEY!
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by femy2010(m): 11:57am On Nov 07, 2010
@poster,
You love him,the level I do not know because if you do not then you wouldnt be jealous.
Because he is not a uni-graduate is nothing as long as he is what you want in a man.Me think it was your friends that made you conscious of the fact that he is a non-graduate.
Take some time to really roam on the issue and if it still points to him then stick 2 him and if not then let him be as regrets in marriages can be very devastating.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Phate07(m): 12:58pm On Nov 07, 2010
Specialist900:

Tick says the clock, tick, tick what you have to do do quick.
Word!

@OP, you had better get your priorities right now before its too late. At 30yrs, you should know what you want in your man. wink

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Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Ikedonn(m): 1:20pm On Nov 07, 2010
@ poster
You are a funny woman .How can you make a degree to be your criteria for marriage?this's so dumb.Why are you jealous of him if you dont love him?well,there are lots of jobless degree holders roaming about the street you can pick one from there. angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Warfibabe(f): 1:46pm On Nov 07, 2010
Temmysexy1:

Am a beautiful lady in my early thirty,a graduate,i met a guy (a pastor) abt 5 mths ago,he is caring,loving n above he hav d fear of GOD, because he said no sex until afta d wedding, d wedding is march next yr,he has done d introductn ie btw d 2 families.my worries is dt: 1. he is nt a graduate. 2.what i feel 4 him i dont know how 2 describe it,whether is love or infatuatn because i always want him 2 b by my side everytym. 3.i dont trust him,because am a jealous lover, i see some girls dt cums around him 4 counselling. Pls i need advice on what 2 do.
Do you even love this guy enough to marry him? Or its because ur biological clock is ticking fast? Jus be very sure of what you want, marriage is a very serious step to take. sad
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by xprience(f): 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2010
i would advise u take it easy cos what u are going thru is cold,u are just being afraid of the un-known.

or you dont know what ur sex life would be,i bet its enough to get u worried.

prayerfully look into the advice u get
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by Youngpo413: 10:25am On Dec 12, 2014
Specialist900:
Tick says the clock, tick, tick what you have to do do quick.
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by cokhale(m): 7:28pm On Jul 16, 2016
temmysexy,iam sure u are married to the pastor? If not u have ur change before ur life span of child bearing pass u. Goodluck
Re: Am Confuse,pls Help by firstking01(m): 8:04pm On Jul 16, 2016
I think the problem here is youundecided

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