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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by 2buffagain(m): 2:43am On Oct 12, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


Bro, When she starts handling you in bed, as if she is in charge, and ride you mercilessly while looking you dead in your eyes, na that time you will run from them feminazis.

It's all good. Some nights, I don't mind being treated like a piece of meat. cheesy
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Nobody: 3:04am On Oct 12, 2019
Because many men confuse equality with sameness. Equality ≠ sameness.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:57am On Oct 12, 2019
2buffagain:

It's all good. Some nights, I don't mind being treated like a piece of meat. cheesy

Beware of what you wish for... some of these buff feminazis have legs as strong as those of CR7 Usain Bolt, and will ride you (with a mean look on their faces) till your tears start to fall uncontrollably

theButterfly:
Because many men confuse equality with sameness. Equality ≠ sameness.

Care to educate us all on your above point/claim?

I was under the impression that feminists wanted EQUALITY aka to be treated equal in society as men....aka They wanted to be paid like men are, have easy access to high positions as men do, without being discriminated upon due to their gender. Thus i would expect such person to also be treated equally (like men) and pay the bill when on a date, fix the sink if leaking or fight armed intruders (god forbids) etc. Isn't that equality aka "sameness"? Where are we mistaking here?
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by saucecoder: 4:15am On Oct 12, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Because they are sadists, they hate the fact that women are standing up for themselves in words and actions.
cheesy
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Cousin9999: 6:28pm On Oct 12, 2019
Men who say this can't get women.
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Olivegreen(f): 9:22pm On Oct 28, 2019
Shm....
Please I AM A FEMINIST.
-I am not a man-hater, I love my father, my brother and my male friends.
-I am not ignorant, I have the certificates to prove it.
-I am not un-african, I am African by birth, residence and personality. And I am very proud of it wink
-I am not arrogant neither am I bossy, I merely know what I want and strive to get it.
-I am not violent I'm only independent.

I am female, African and very very feminist.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Emotionss: 1:59pm On Nov 27, 2019
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Stephani3e:
I noticed here on Nairaland that most men are always quick to insult women they perceive as Feminists, they are always quick to insult women and tag them Feminists.
What's so bad with the word " Feminist, Feminism"?

Can we chat privately ?
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by SilvaBullet: 2:13pm On Nov 27, 2019
Feminism is a scam, rooted in greed.


It is this short and simple. No need for long thesis. The average woman still needs a man's protection even in simple task like crossing the road.
Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On Nov 27, 2019
CHoccolaTE:
Because men hate women and want women to remain inferior to them.

90% of men at least have innate hatred of women and the hatred manifests itself in their blatant and shameless misogyny and constant attempts to put women down and retard_ their progress or advancement in society, that is why they hate feminism and feminists because feminists keep insisting that no gender is better than the other
Trust me, guys know that gender equality is the whole Idea behind feminism but they will pretend to be ignorant or engage in outright self delusion and start claiming that feminism is all sorts of evil things and evil ideologies because they hate the movement and want it to die off. They want a world where women are subjugated and kept under their rule not because that arrangement is fair but because of woman hate, selfishness and evil self centeredness and desire to feel superior and Important.

Forget the lies men tell about hating feminists because of paying for dates or whatever they claim the real reason for the hatred is because they DO NOT want a world where females are equal to males.

This their desire to keep women under their feet has manifested greatly in history and in the major religions in the world today, men keep making societal rules to keep themselves in the position of demi gods.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Lonelypacifist6: 5:08pm On Nov 27, 2019
There's no feminist on Nairaland just people who want to push a senseless agenda, people are not equal, people can never be equal, especially men and women the time to bridge the gap has passed.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by Olivegreen(f): 5:26pm On Nov 27, 2019
Two words, Ignorance and Insecurity

Those who do not know the meaning of feminism frabricate unreasonable definitions of a feminist.
They say things like, "a feminist is a woman that doesn't like makeup and hates men" or "a feminist is a woman that doesn't shave her armpits" or "a feminist is a woman that can't find a husband and decides to carry out her frustration on men."


While some men who actaully know the meaning of feminism and still reject the concept do so because of their insecurities.
They fear that femisint are going to strip them of the pride and dignity that comes with being a man.
They fear that femisint are able to look beyond their masculinity and stare at their fragile and vulnerable human core.
They are afraid of what might happen if women are given the authority and respect they deserve because it would mean that they too would have to work to earn respect and authority and no longer depend on the leverage their gender earns for them.

They are men that would rather see me as weak and vulnerable because I am female, a gender that was given to me without my consent, than seeing me as strong and ambitious because of the accomplishments I have worked to acheive.


I do not like labels because they always have a way of limiting us to the steroetype it represents .
Black, African, Gay, Lesbian, Nigerian, Igbo, feminist......
I can list many many more labels. Labels cause the society to see us as one thing, most of the time it is a negative thing, when society should see us as human beings.

But until racism, homophobia, tribalism, sexism and all other issues are completely resolved, these labels would remain.

Until my qualifications determine my salary instead of my gender and my achievements determine my recognition instead of my gender then I would have to carry the label, feminist, but i know I would not be a femist forever because we would not have this problem forever.

So until then..... I am a feminist.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by YourCoffin: 6:25pm On Nov 27, 2019
Because whenever they speak these are what I hear

1. Sentencing me for a crime their grandfather committed against their grandmother.
2. Hatred of my kind and by extension me
3. Imported ideas of gender descrimination that has no substantiating evidence in their geographical location.
4. Abysmal knowledge of history.
5. Incapable of communicating with finesse.
6. Lack of empathy towards my own plight.

So naturally I avoid them like plagues.

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Re: Why Do Most Men Get Angry With The Word " Feminist, Feminism" ? by frozen70(f): 6:54pm On Nov 30, 2019
Stephani3e:
I noticed here on Nairaland that most men are always quick to insult women they perceive as Feminists, they are always quick to insult women and tag them Feminists.
What's so bad with the word " Feminist, Feminism"?

They prefer women who will endure their bad behaviour on them and believe that they are lesser being

They want a woman to remain silent and endure emotional pains

They want a woman that will be 100% faithful and loyal

Finally they get intimidated when they see a successful woman

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