Guys,What are the things that can make you hurt?

Would you mind sharing your thoughts about this topic?

ah,when moi gal lies, !i heart it so much!

NAGGING,
TRYING TO DOMINATE THE RELATIONSHIP
CONTESTING VERY DECISION OF THE MAN,
UNNECESSARILY DEMANDING,
DISRESPECT.
DISHONESTY,
LASTLY, RATIONING THE PU55IE TIMETABLE,

My girlfriend made a post on facebook: 'u r so special to me', only to tell me later when we talked abt it dt it was stupid of me to think she was addressn it to me. It hurts. what hurts more: i dont earn much but i earn more than a lot of my friends. I buy thngs regularly 4 her and i ensure she is fine in her moments of need. Yet my girlfriend has d temerity to tell me dt i am loser cuz there i are many guys earning far more than i am earning @ my age, I fill like shooting her!! God help us

Zaynee63:

My girlfriend made a post on facebook: 'u r so special to me', only to tell me later when we talked abt it dt it was silly of me to think she was addressn it to me. It hurts. what hurts more: i dont earn much but i earn more than a lot of my friends. I buy thngs regularly 4 her and i ensure she is fine in her moments of need. Yet my girlfriend has d temerity to tell me dt i am loser cuz there i are many guys earning far more than i am earning @ my age, I fill like shooting her!! God help us

NO NEED TO SHOT HER TIME WILL TELL,

Zaynee63:

My girlfriend made a post on facebook: 'u r so special to me', only to tell me later when we talked abt it dt it was silly of me to think she was addressn it to me. It hurts. what hurts more: i dont earn much but i earn more than a lot of my friends. I buy thngs regularly 4 her and i ensure she is fine in her moments of need. Yet my girlfriend has d temerity to tell me dt i am loser cuz there i are many guys earning far more than i am earning @ my age, I fill like shooting her!! God help us

, Please don't shoot her with a gun ok? try to shoot her with another one

kay177:

NAGGING,
TRYING TO DOMINATE THE RELATIONSHIP
CONTESTING VERY DECISION OF THE MAN,
UNNECESSARILY DEMANDING,
DISRESPECT.
DISHONESTY,
LASTLY, RATIONING THE PU55IE TIMETABLE,

so have you found someone whose characters u mentioned are absent?

DISRESPECT
DISRESPECT
DISRESPECT
DISRESPECT

constant lies and greed

one word - disrespect.

davidylan:

one word - disrespect.

that is so wide open, disrespect is only in the eye of the beholder, what you call disrespect I might not.

Explain disrespect. What do you all think is disrespectful?

Zaynee63:

My girlfriend made a post on facebook: 'u r so special to me', only to tell me later when we talked abt it dt it was silly of me to think she was addressn it to me. It hurts. what hurts more: i dont earn much but i earn more than a lot of my friends. I buy thngs regularly 4 her and i ensure she is fine in her moments of need. Yet my girlfriend has d temerity to tell me dt i am loser cuz there i are many guys earning far more than i am earning @ my age, I fill like shooting her!! God help us

playin on ur intelligence nd u respond by buying more gifts ? Stop buyin her gifts as guys who earn > you will buy it, d fb post she prolly doesn't want u to feel as if u got her already if i b u i go find anoda babe just in case.

Seriously guys, you need to tell us what sort of actions you would consider disrespectful. I have a vague idea, but like someone said here what may be disrespectful to one person may not be the same thing to another person. So enlighten us

Zaynee63:

My girlfriend made a post on facebook: 'u r so special to me', only to tell me later when we talked abt it dt it was silly of me to think she was addressn it to me. It hurts. what hurts more: i dont earn much but i earn more than a lot of my friends. I buy thngs regularly 4 her and i ensure she is fine in her moments of need. Yet my girlfriend has d temerity to tell me dt i am loser cuz there i are many guys earning far more than i am earning @ my age, I fill like shooting her!! God help us

Pray, is she stil wit u? Sorry but she doesn't respect u. Don't see how a girl can vomit such & stil cal de guy her boyfriend.

mediatrix8:

Guys,What are the things that can make you hurt?

Who the heck cares

Interesting topic, but as usual the guys here are not making sense.

Honestly for me,looking at the one i love,loving someone else and there is nothing you can do about it,my bro it really hurt.

Ujujoan:

Who the heck cares

Why did you waste your borrowed bandwith connection to drop this poo

when she thinks ur dumb

I was calling this girl to find out if she was by the car so we could leave the party. . . her phone rang but she did not pick up. I called a again as I walked towards the car, some guy was on his phone and put the other person on hold so he could greet me . .I greeted him while I was still waiting for the girl to pick up her phone. As I walked outside, the girl saw me and quickly got off the phone.

We got into the car and I asked her if she did not see my missed calls - she said she was on the phone with her mum. I kept quiet but wondered by she hung up immediately she saw me. I took the phone from her, checked her incoming calls - the last one was from me. I checked her outgoing calls and noticed she'd called the guy who'd said 'hi' to me earlier. So she was talking to the guy while ignoring my calls, the guy even put her on hold to greet me . .while I was calling her and she still did not pick up my call. On top of it all she lied that she was talking to her mom. This is some young girl I was dating. I kept quiet all the way . .dropped her off and went home. She got into her car and drove after me to apologize.

Right there and then I told her the relationship was not goin anywhere so it was up to her if she wanted to hang around.

She said she just enjoyed being chased by the guy . .Talk about the ultimate disrespect.

DISREGARD IN WHATEVER MANNER

EXCESSIVE DEMANDING

NAGGING

LIES

FLIRTS

bayor48:

Honestly for me,looking at the one i love,loving someone else and there is nothing you can do about it,my bro it really hurt.

na true talk couple with lies dat chick don finish me b dat.

fizzybaba:

DISREGARD IN WHATEVER MANNER

EXCESSIVE DEMANDING

NAGGING

LIES

FLIRTS

hmmmmm

I would take whatever that hurt women. Most men are better at hiding their emotions than women are. I would think men would be hurt to if they were unloved, unwanted, disrespected, rejected, put down, used, pain, mistreated etc. All the same things a woman would be hurt over or about. Some women tend to take it to the extreme sometimes. But men are human too. If God can be hurt, what makes you think a man can't be hurt. (I'm not speaking of physically either) That's one thing I'm glad I've been raised to respect myself and therefore I respect others rather they deserve it or not. You know the old saying, you should treat people how you would wanted to be treated.

Guys might not really say what actually hurt them so badly but you ladies knows best what hurt your guys in your r/ship cos u have the wil power. I think what hurt guys the most is bringing their egos' down- making them feel their nothing when they think their some thing, for instance ladies refusing to tel their man they didn't achieved orgas m in sex because if u do, believe you me, guys will be sad and they wil never show you but it wil disturb them die! Again not responding to a man's love or show of affection in the way he wants you to respond to it. Also, not being patient with a man, vis a vis u know he is not the creator and so cannot be perfect.

@livedit again i agree with u, my bf hate lying and disrespecting, period. no small lie, lie na lie.

Disrespected thats what he keeps preaching. I keep repeatng the thing in my mind. respect, respect, respect. I no easy o

cryptonite in my case