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I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by BobiNick(m): 1:01pm On Oct 31, 2019
I was just a hustling guy making peanut but enough to eat one or two meals a day. I shared a one bedroom house with a friend who is also a hustler like me and makes peanut also. So one day I did a business that made me N150,000 and I felt like a kingkong that day. I started thinking of what to do and I decided to invest the money into a small business. I started preparing nkowbi, isi ewu and grilled chicken & fish near a local bar.

With this business I started making little money which I was managing and then I met my girlfriend who as at then helped me run the business as the major cook. She was very good and dedicated to the job and somehow we got into a relationship and got deeper in the other room. While we were still managing and trying to grow the little business, she got pregnant. We talked about it and she said abortion was not an option.

I had no house of my own, I had no properties, I had no car and I had almost nothing aside the little nkwobi business I was struggling with. She informed her parents about the pregnancy and they summoned me for a meeting. I went and accepted responsibility of the pregnancy and I was given instructions of what to buy to pay for her as a wife and mother of my child. Everything was just about N30,000 and I went with just three family members to settle everything and she moved in with me to the house I shared with a friend.

Just like that after few months, things begin to turn around for good. We moved into our own apartment, business has expanded with different local branches in many local bars, I am about to buy my first land to build my personal house and also buy my first car.

Now we plan to do our baby's first year birthday like if its the big wedding ceremony we should have done at the initial stage.

Lesson, its not all about telling yourself you must make money, get my house and car before you marry. You can do anything when you have someone who is passionate about the little you have to offer and can help you grow that which is available.

True Story from a group in facebook.

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 31, 2019
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Emilycp(m): 1:29pm On Oct 31, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.
. True talk oh

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Martinez39(m): 2:23pm On Oct 31, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.
How are we even sure the story is a true story? It's probably just another sentimental nonsense to validate unsound marital decisions of this kind.

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Oct 31, 2019
Martinez39:
How are we even sure the story is a true story? It's probably just another sentimental nonsense to validate unsound marital decisions of this kind.

You might be right.
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Quality20(m): 2:30pm On Oct 31, 2019
is it not enough disgrace and humiliation that u have to impregnate a girl b4 marrying her ? abi na those garage boys u be or touts?
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by dave4rella(m): 2:44pm On Oct 31, 2019
grin
I pity those that will listen to this rubbish

If you enjoy poverty, I don't...
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Raalsalghul: 4:52pm On Oct 31, 2019
BobiNick:
I was just a hustling guy making peanut but enough to eat one or two meals a day. I shared a one bedroom house with a friend who is also a hustler like me and makes peanut also. So one day I did a business that made me N150,000 and I felt like a kingkong that day. I started thinking of what to do and I decided to invest the money into a small business. I started preparing nkowbi, isi ewu and grilled chicken & fish near a local bar.

With this business I started making little money which I was managing and then I met my girlfriend who as at then helped me run the business as the major cook. She was very good and dedicated to the job and somehow we got into a relationship and got deeper in the other room. While we were still managing and trying to grow the little business, she got pregnant. We talked about it and she said abortion was not an option.

I had no house of my own, I had no properties, I had no car and I had almost nothing aside the little nkwobi business I was struggling with. She informed her parents about the pregnancy and they summoned me for a meeting. I went and accepted responsibility of the pregnancy and I was given instructions of what to buy to pay for her as a wife and mother of my child. Everything was just about N30,000 and I went with just three family members to settle everything and she moved in with me to the house I shared with a friend.

Just like that after few months, things begin to turn around for good. We moved into our own apartment, business has expanded with different local branches in many local bars, I am about to buy my first land to build my personal house and also buy my first car.

Now we plan to do our baby's first year birthday like if its the big wedding ceremony we should have done at the initial stage.

Lesson, its not all about telling yourself you must make money, get my house and car before you marry. You can do anything when you have someone who is passionate about the little you have to offer and can help you grow that which is available.

True Story.

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by somehow: 5:18pm On Oct 31, 2019
Get married because you understand marriage and want it
Dont get married because you have money and a girl or boy
It takes wisdom to understand the difference
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by bigthink(m): 5:24pm On Oct 31, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.


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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Oct 31, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.




Why r u discouraging me na
But op if na.lie aba thunder go fire u oooo

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Lamanii22(f): 7:06pm On Oct 31, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.



True words... Wagbayii

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Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Ginaz(f): 7:46pm On Oct 31, 2019
Everyone can’t share the same fate na grin
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by Baldwretch: 10:29pm On Oct 31, 2019
Ginaz:
Everyone can’t share the same fate na grin

I like your profile pic, so on point mehn.
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by BobiNick(m): 11:10am On Nov 02, 2019
Paulimation:
Guys beware!! While this worked for the op, it will not work for you and i sincerely advice anyone not to try this.

It happened to him by mistake, it wasn't planned. So, don't plan your life along this path. Don't say...i have 50k...what is stopping me? Every sense and fiber in your body should stop you. Work and be comfortable enough to take care of a family and not put them under poverty.

First point of correction brother, its a true story not that it is my own story. Still at that my man, do not advice in the manner you did because its an inspiration to many and not just a gist for ones own personal believe.
Re: I Married Her With Just N30,000. A Short True Life Story. by landnewf: 4:36pm On Nov 05, 2019
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