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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by osibenaezekiel: 7:26pm On Nov 10, 2019
Gambling with money that is not your is very bad.
Though no one is above mistakes. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to sincerely within you repent from your gambling lifestyle cos it ruins destiny. Gamblers are never stable people. Tell your brother the whole truth and be ready to hustle his money back for him. That way you would have learnt the greatest life lessons PATIENCE.
You will come out a much better person.

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Sijo01(f): 9:46am On Nov 11, 2019
Coming from a self acclaimed graduate. I'm disappointed. Instead of you to hustle and fend for yourself as a man. You choose to be a iddiot; misused your brother's hard earned money. Same brother who housed and also feeding you.

Well, it's good you threw the money away. Who knows what you would have done with the business if it was established.

yeye shild.

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by ifyalways(f): 7:40pm On Nov 11, 2019
depressedsoul01:

I asked for an advice please, if you can't kindly ignore, I have made a mistake and I am ready to face the consequence
Your brother should sell you for whatever you are worth to the betting shop. That's my own take on the matter

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by sisisioge: 7:43pm On Nov 11, 2019
grin grin grin grin

You know you're funny, right?


Anyways, you've learnt your lesson already. Just tell your brother what you've been up to. May God settle you.

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Evaz900(m): 8:58pm On Nov 11, 2019
DonBenny77:
grin grin grin
Your mumu pass my mumu jor!
No guts no glory.....



As in the guy mumu na firstclass.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Karleb(m): 10:06pm On Nov 11, 2019
You know nothing about money management. When you lost 20K why didn't you stake 2k to get it back?

You are not fit for business, go and find work.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 11, 2019
Karleb:
You know nothing about money management. When you lost 20K why didn't you stake 2k to get it back?

You are not fit for business, go and find work.
you really believe that guys story?

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Nobody: 8:18am On Nov 12, 2019
Until a governors pikin does something crazy, there will not be serious regulation of these betting companies. They are deliberately in your face and spread everywhere.

Killing addiction or bad habits means modifying your environment. But bet9ja and co have the environment on lockdown. They are EVERYWHERE you turn. Send someone with cash to do a task,let the person just glimpse a bet9ja sign, and it’s all over.

A whole generation of gambling addicts is being created.

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Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Nobody: 4:46pm On Nov 13, 2019
Kelvin30286063:

Scatter everything by telling your brother you got scammed by a ponsi scheme. You were simply trying to help him double the money.
But guy, you don't know when to stop ooo. 8 have been there before and I know exactly how you got here.
One thing I'm grateful to God for in my life is how he totally rescued me from gambling. I never thought I'll survive the addiction.
bro how did it happened?

If I narrate my ordeal you will weep for me. I really need help.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by masam(m): 5:32am On Nov 14, 2019
You are really cursed by using hard earned money meant to secure ur future to bet. Better run away from ur house as ur told you because ur mumu too much.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Evaz900(m): 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2019
This OP still dey alive sef, Abi all the story u talk since na lies

Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Maxxim: 5:08am On Nov 24, 2019
Its obvious that you'll be also the one to ruin the business if it was established in the first place. Stewpid pple everywhere.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by MrCodeSolo: 10:16am On Nov 24, 2019
Please help and read to the end, your little comment might save a depressed soul.

I finished NYSC early this year and moved in with my brother who is a site engineer in Lagos, I tried all I can to secure a job after my NYSC but mother luck is not smiling on me

After so many month of fruitless search, my brother and I concluded that we should open a business in which I will be in charge, my estimate of the business requires at least 400k for a start, my brother transferred 200k to me in late August and asked me to keep it until we get the remaining money for the business, but things were hard a little bit since then and he couldn't comes up with any other money

Week before last week my phone started one of his usual problem and I had to take it to an engineer for repair ( I have been using the phone for more than 3 years) after spending 2k on the phone the problem disappeared only to returns 3 days later

Due to the problem the phone is giving me a thought came to my mind last week Tuesday that I should use 20k out of the money with me to stake on 2 odds and use the profits to get my self a new phone

I never knew I was putting my self in a trouble that I will continue to regret for the rest of my life, I staked 20k on the champions league games of Tuesday with an expected return of 50k but Barcelona been the early kick off game spoiled it, I was frustrated and in a bid of winning back the lost 20k I lost another 20k that same Tuesday night.

Since then I have been staking trying to win the money back but everytime I keep loosing, I used the last 50k of the money to bets on 4odds yesterday and Napoli later spoiled it.

Since yesterday night I have been depressed I couldn't sleep throughout, a lot of thought have came to my minds

I have thought of Suicide but I couldn't afford to bring my mother to that much agony of loosing me

I thought of running away from house leaving my brother a note of the main reason why I left and why they shouldn't bother looking for me, but my mother also came to my mind, I couldn't afford to send the poor woman to an early grave we are the only ones she has been looking upto since she lost her husband in January this year, loosing me again can bring her sudden death.

I knew I am cursed and I have made a mistake that will continue hunting me for the rest of my life but I don't want to make another one.

Pls your little advice can go a long way in saving this depressed soul.

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: Dominique
Cc: mynd44
it's just money...forget it....money will still come around..only if we keep making better decisions and taking weighted calculated risks next time
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Born2Breed(f): 4:31pm On Nov 24, 2019
Better go get a job even of it's menial to pay back or just kill yourself.

You are a very dishonest,unreliable and selfish brother.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by Bigblessed: 2:35pm On Nov 25, 2019
Only Jesus can save you. Man can only help you, so choose one.
Re: I Have Made The Biggest Mistake If My Life, Please Save A Depressed Soul by frozen70(f): 10:35pm On Nov 25, 2019
Please help and read to the end, your little comment might save a depressed soul.

I finished NYSC early this year and moved in with my brother who is a site engineer in Lagos, I tried all I can to secure a job after my NYSC but mother luck is not smiling on me

After so many month of fruitless search, my brother and I concluded that we should open a business in which I will be in charge, my estimate of the business requires at least 400k for a start, my brother transferred 200k to me in late August and asked me to keep it until we get the remaining money for the business, but things were hard a little bit since then and he couldn't comes up with any other money

Week before last week my phone started one of his usual problem and I had to take it to an engineer for repair ( I have been using the phone for more than 3 years) after spending 2k on the phone the problem disappeared only to returns 3 days later

Due to the problem the phone is giving me a thought came to my mind last week Tuesday that I should use 20k out of the money with me to stake on 2 odds and use the profits to get my self a new phone

I never knew I was putting my self in a trouble that I will continue to regret for the rest of my life, I staked 20k on the champions league games of Tuesday with an expected return of 50k but Barcelona been the early kick off game spoiled it, I was frustrated and in a bid of winning back the lost 20k I lost another 20k that same Tuesday night.

Since then I have been staking trying to win the money back but everytime I keep loosing, I used the last 50k of the money to bets on 4odds yesterday and Napoli later spoiled it.

Since yesterday night I have been depressed I couldn't sleep throughout, a lot of thought have came to my minds

I have thought of Suicide but I couldn't afford to bring my mother to that much agony of loosing me

I thought of running away from house leaving my brother a note of the main reason why I left and why they shouldn't bother looking for me, but my mother also came to my mind, I couldn't afford to send the poor woman to an early grave we are the only ones she has been looking upto since she lost her husband in January this year, loosing me again can bring her sudden death.

I knew I am cursed and I have made a mistake that will continue hunting me for the rest of my life but I don't want to make another one.

Pls your little advice can go a long way in saving this depressed soul.

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: Dominique
Cc: mynd44

You are not coursed

You are not stupid either

You just tampared with the money kept in your custody for business

But its a pity it doesn't work as planned

Stay away from bet

Stay away from gambling

Stay away from greed

Just sit your mum and your brother and tell them what happened

They will feel bad and your brother will lose trust in you

Your mum's presence will calm the situation down no matter how painful it is, it won't be compared with the pains of losing you

Having said that, dust your self and look for any legitimate job and do to save the money back and get the love of your brother back

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