so i know this guy in my area, he is constantly arguing and disagreeing with this particular lady. Infact whenever they are together, you will think they are sworn enemies.

I used to think that the girl had offended the guy in the past, but i didnt bother to find out what happened. It was not my business anyway.

Whenever i was with the guy, and the girl passed, or her name came up in our discussion, he will always find something bad to say about her. I even had to tell him at one time to cut the girl some slack.

Fast foward to yesterday, me and the guy were in a shop opposite our street yesterday discussing about the epl and also deliberating if chelsea can miraculously win the champions league trophy. We were with three other guys anyways.
An suv suddenly pulled up by the roadside, and guess what...this girl was in the front seat with one good looking guy like that. The duo were smiling at each other, and you could see the love in their eyes.

My guy who is a die hard chelsea fan, and has never been distracted b4 when talking about chelsea, suddenly dropped jaws.

'who b dat' my guy asked, pointing to the suv. We turned and saw d latest couple. Na BLESSING BE DAT. One of us said. My guy knew that it was blessing, but he was asking about the guy really.

He tried to badmouth the girl as usual, but this time, the tone of his voice was shaky. I knew something was wrong.

Through out the rest of the discussion, my guy was completely lost, absent minded, and tensed. He soon left, claiming he had some things to handle. (hmm, Sam leave the middle of chelsea discussion is a miracle). So i knew that somethingwas wrong. Sam is a kind of person that will suspend anything for chelsea.

That evening i stopped by at his place to collect my charger, and the first thing he asked me was if i knew whether that guy was blessings boyfriend. I simply told him that was not my business. Blessing had the right to date anybody she deemed fit. That was her private business and not mine.i have real life issues to bother about. Me sef i still dey find girl wey go gree for me as i broke like this.

I asked him why he was concerned about that afterall blessing was his rival.

My guy tried to deny, but as him guy wen i b, he just opened up. He told me he felt like he couldnt breathe when he saw blessingwith another guy in a romantic scene.

Hmm this kind tin i dey watch am for movie o. Now my guy is disturbing me and telling me he thinks he is in love with the girl, and i should help him win her. (like say i be cassanova. Me wen never get 1 girlfriend.)

abeg nairalanders what should the young man do?

SMH your guy should have just been straightforward with the girl. What was all the pretense for? Did he think she'd sit still and endlessly wait for him to approach her? Shiooor. Good for him.

Good for him

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
SMH your guy should have just been straightforward with the girl. What was all the pretense for? Did he think she'd sit still and endlessly wait for him to approach her? Shiooor. Good for him.

so are u saying there is no hope for him

No hope for you bro
You shoulda acted fast
smh
Me I hate slow boys, if you like me tell me sharply because I might like you too
Even if I don't like you back, at least you were brave enough to voice out your feelings and you wont have to go through life regretting not opening up to someone you like

ublight:



so are u saying there is no hope for him

All this people saying "my guy this... my guy that" we know una!
there's no oda guy it's just you telling ur story, seeking advice for yourself

kenir:
All this people saying "my guy this... my guy that" we know una!

there's no oda guy it's just you telling ur story, seeking advice for yourself

lol, see this one dey form detective

I can relate...he dey happen....u go dey bad mouth guy/girl but for ur mind u like am...and the funniest thing is u wouldn't know until u see them with the opposite sex....

Though that's infatuation...that's not love...cos u don't know her yet

Bt what is this trend with guys badmouthing girls they like? It is something really common nw!!! Later they be telling you they trying to get their attention!!!
If you like someone why can't you just walk up to her nd behave like a gentleman bt no!! Nigerian guys are too arrogant to do that rather they start throwing insult at you both online nd offline just to get your attention!!! That's why many guys will remain single till eternity!!!
Rubbish!!!

Pettyprincess:
Bt what is this trend with guys badmouthing girls they like? It is something really common nw!!! Later they be telling you they trying to get their attention!!!
If you like someone why can't you just walk up to her nd behave like a gentleman bt no!! Nigerian guys are too arrogant to do that rather they start throwing insult at you both online nd offline just to get your attention!!! That's why many guys will remain single till eternity!!!
Rubbish!!!

thou shall not vex my princess,

He better flee. Before he will come to nairaland tomorrow for another advice.

I know a guy who dislikes a lady but at the end he began having some feeling for her, slept with her for the first time and end up with gonorrhea.

Las las na im con suffer am and later on the girl got pregnant for anotherr senior man.

Tell your guy make hin shine hin eyes oo there is a reason that was hate in between them.

Lol ....realy cracked me up and at the same time bring up memories.
Your friend realy needs to grow up and man up.

Pettyprincess:
Bt what is this trend with guys badmouthing girls they like? It is something really common nw!!! Later they be telling you they trying to get their attention!!!
If you like someone why can't you just walk up to her nd behave like a gentleman bt no!! Nigerian guys are too arrogant to do that rather they start throwing insult at you both online nd offline just to get your attention!!! That's why many guys will remain single till eternity!!!
Rubbish!!!

Hi!

I noticed u early and I just wanted to greet u politely as gentleman.


So Hello and can i get to know u?

This your guy is just like the typical NL guy.
You see some of them spewing all sorts of rubbish about women, but at the same time, they're also busy sending PMs.

Is this mentality a Nigerian thing, or could it be as a result of the whole #redpill movement?

Pathetic!

hammerD:


Hi!

I noticed u early and I just wanted to greet u politely as gentleman.


So Hello and can i get to know u?

Bros, Shez taken...

CLICK
Tell your guy say e don late...
No remedy solution till the next life

Oluwatosean:

Bros, Shez taken...

BY U?

Pettyprincess:
Bt what is this trend with guys badmouthing girls they like? It is something really common nw!!! Later they be telling you they trying to get their attention!!!
If you like someone why can't you just walk up to her nd behave like a gentleman bt no!! Nigerian guys are too arrogant to do that rather they start throwing insult at you both online nd offline just to get your attention!!! That's why many guys will remain single till eternity!!!
Rubbish!!!

I am still waiting like a gentleman for your reply.

I have no business with that tout...@Oluwatosean:

hammerD:


I am still waiting like a gentleman for your reply.

I have no business with that tout...@Oluwatosean:

Lol ,nice meeting you

Oluwatosean:

Bros, Shez taken...

Men eh!

Pettyprincess:

Lol ,nice meeting you

It should be pretty princess.. . First impressions, u are amazingly down to earth and warmly cordial.

U new to nairaland?

prizlezzlalasky:
Lol ....realy cracked me up and at the same time bring up memories.
Your friend realy needs to grow up and man up.

there is something familiar about the way you type. Have we met b4

You've lost her!

Lol.. Met in typing

ublight:


there is something familiar about the way you type. Have we met b4

I don't think so. It's a faceless forum.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
SMH your guy should have just been straightforward with the girl. What was all the pretense for? Did he think she'd sit still and endlessly wait for him to approach her? Shiooor. Good for him.

You don vex

Pettyprincess:
Bt what is this trend with guys badmouthing girls they like? It is something really common nw!!! Later they be telling you they trying to get their attention!!!
If you like someone why can't you just walk up to her nd behave like a gentleman bt no!! Nigerian guys are too arrogant to do that rather they start throwing insult at you both online nd offline just to get your attention!!! That's why many guys will remain single till eternity!!!
Rubbish!!!

hi princess, i like u.would luv 2 be ur friend

ublight:
Sam is a kind of person that will suspend anything for chelsea.

As a die hard chelsea fan i can relate

He is not in love but in lust.

ublight:
so i know this guy in my area, he is constantly arguing and disagreeing with this particular lady. Infact whenever they are together, you will think they are sworn enemies.

I used to think that the girl had offended the guy in the past, but i didnt bother to find out what happened. It was not my business anyway.

Whenever i was with the guy, and the girl passed, or her name came up in our discussion, he will always find something bad to say about her. I even had to tell him at one time to cut the girl some slack.

Fast foward to yesterday, me and the guy were in a shop opposite our street yesterday discussing about the epl and also deliberating if chelsea can miraculously win the champions league trophy. We were with three other guys anyways.
An suv suddenly pulled up by the roadside, and guess what...this girl was in the front seat with one good looking guy like that. The duo were smiling at each other, and you could see the love in their eyes.

My guy who is a die hard chelsea fan, and has never been distracted b4 when talking about chelsea, suddenly dropped jaws.

'who b dat' my guy asked, pointing to the suv. We turned and saw d latest couple. Na BLESSING BE DAT. One of us said. My guy knew that it was blessing, but he was asking about the guy really.

He tried to badmouth the girl as usual, but this time, the tone of his voice was shaky. I knew something was wrong.

Through out the rest of the discussion, my guy was completely lost, absent minded, and tensed. He soon left, claiming he had some things to handle. (hmm, Sam leave the middle of chelsea discussion is a miracle). So i knew that somethingwas wrong. Sam is a kind of person that will suspend anything for chelsea.

That evening i stopped by at his place to collect my charger, and the first thing he asked me was if i knew whether that guy was blessings boyfriend. I simply told him that was not my business. Blessing had the right to date anybody she deemed fit. That was her private business and not mine.i have real life issues to bother about. Me sef i still dey find girl wey go gree for me as i broke like this.

I asked him why he was concerned about that afterall blessing was his rival.

My guy tried to deny, but as him guy wen i b, he just opened up. He told me he felt like he couldnt breathe when he saw blessingwith another guy in a romantic scene.

Hmm this kind tin i dey watch am for movie o. Now my guy is disturbing me and telling me he thinks he is in love with the girl, and i should help him win her. (like say i be cassanova. Me wen never get 1 girlfriend.)

abeg nairalanders what should the young man do?

we know you are that. youngmam.


familiarity and proximity leads to love

He's not in love only infatuated hence the change of balance seeing her with someone else.

mumumugu:

we know you are that. youngmam.

familiarity and proximity leads to love

nairaland sherlock holmes coman goan park well joor.